How often do you get extensive eye contact from women? Not just a quick glance and look away, I mean the type where women ogle you for 3+ seconds.
Eg. I work in an office with over 2000+ workers, mostly women in their 30s and 40s. I'm a young dude, and I get checked out quite a lot by the ladies (and even the dudes) when I go down for coffee, or look for a table in the cafeteria.
For most of my life I was a skinny little runt with bad hair, bad skin and bad fashion so I never had anyone looking my way. I'm working out now with a better hairstyle and dress more yuppie, and somehow I've morphed into a relatively handsome young dude.This happens even when I'm driving, boarding transit, shopping, at the laundromat, dental hygienists, just going about the day running errands. But I'm still not used to this kind of attention. Is this normal for an attractive young guy?
Ironically, the one setting in which I don't get a lot of eye contact comparatively is at bars and clubs. Typically girls are there to attention-whore and put up pics on Facebook, not meet men. I get digits but they invariably flake, and it's hard to sustain any real connection when dealing with all the nonsense that goes on in a lot of clubs (cockblocks, loud music, drunk roid monkeys etc.)
Thus, I haven't had much success in the night game. And since I get a lot of eye contact throughout the day I'm thinking on working on my day game. I live in a college town with a bevy of young cuties so opportunities are ripe for the enterprising playa.
But I'd always thought day game was skeevy and that I'd be harassing busy women as they go about their day, but why not give it a go? Since I get extensive eye contact from girls as it is should I take this as an invitation to approach?
Something like "Hey, I know this is really random, but I saw you from over there and thought you were really cute, and I'd kick myself if I didn't come over and say Hi."
Bars and clubs are no longer good for meeting women so I need to find new avenues to meet women. How effective is day game really?
Eg. I work in an office with over 2000+ workers, mostly women in their 30s and 40s. I'm a young dude, and I get checked out quite a lot by the ladies (and even the dudes) when I go down for coffee, or look for a table in the cafeteria.
For most of my life I was a skinny little runt with bad hair, bad skin and bad fashion so I never had anyone looking my way. I'm working out now with a better hairstyle and dress more yuppie, and somehow I've morphed into a relatively handsome young dude.This happens even when I'm driving, boarding transit, shopping, at the laundromat, dental hygienists, just going about the day running errands. But I'm still not used to this kind of attention. Is this normal for an attractive young guy?
Ironically, the one setting in which I don't get a lot of eye contact comparatively is at bars and clubs. Typically girls are there to attention-whore and put up pics on Facebook, not meet men. I get digits but they invariably flake, and it's hard to sustain any real connection when dealing with all the nonsense that goes on in a lot of clubs (cockblocks, loud music, drunk roid monkeys etc.)
Thus, I haven't had much success in the night game. And since I get a lot of eye contact throughout the day I'm thinking on working on my day game. I live in a college town with a bevy of young cuties so opportunities are ripe for the enterprising playa.
But I'd always thought day game was skeevy and that I'd be harassing busy women as they go about their day, but why not give it a go? Since I get extensive eye contact from girls as it is should I take this as an invitation to approach?
Something like "Hey, I know this is really random, but I saw you from over there and thought you were really cute, and I'd kick myself if I didn't come over and say Hi."
Bars and clubs are no longer good for meeting women so I need to find new avenues to meet women. How effective is day game really?
