[Pepini]

I´ve seen a lot of information about how to nail girls, but none about relationships. Maybe I´m going off-forum here but looking some advice from you gentleman.

I nicknamed the current chick I´m dating with my dog name: Scuba. Since we´re going out I call her Scuba or scubina and she was ok with it. So I´m having lunch with some friends and decide to invite her. When she arrives she asks me not to call her Scuba anymore. I get all pissed off and tell her to get the fuck out and go back home. She calls me to my cell phone and says she wants to talk.
So I´m in her X1 and decide to dump her. But at the same time I feel like a quiter or like a looser. I´ve done it so many times.

I think to myself Mourinho one of the best football coaches in the world training Real Madrid would never quite Real Madrid. He deals with pressure and face it. I was also thinking that dumping her would be like being in a boxing fight and throw the towel.

Eventually decide not to dump her. When in Oslo I was watching two friends of mine picking up two airline stewardesses I wasn´t feeling the vibe anymore. When arriving to my hotel room sent some messages to some girls (for relationships) who were into me.

So my question is this:
Does it make me a looser to dump a girl? Shouldn´t I be able to treat her so bad that she decides to dump me and not the other way around?

Just a thought, i´m probably seeing this from a wrong angle...

[D. Goodnuts]

By dumping, do you mean cutting of all communication or just giving up on pursuing/taking the ass? Those are two key differences.

[Pepini]

(03-10-2011 10:09 PM)D. Goodnuts Wrote:  

By dumping, do you mean cutting of all communication or just giving up on pursuing/taking the ass? Those are two key differences.

By dumping I mean tell her she wasn´t my girlfriend and start treating her like a fuck buddy.

I look up for my grandfather. He was some kinda casanova. But eventually got married. Even though he had mistresses, always kept his game tight and was the leader of his house. My grandmother had pride of how he looked good, ironing his shirts, etc.

When my grandmother died he got two girlfriends 15 years younger than him, but still says that no woman will be like her.

My midle brother was also a crazy bastard but now married and had a child.

[Kona]

(03-10-2011 09:59 PM)Pepini Wrote:  

Does it make me a looser to dump a girl? Shouldn´t I be able to treat her so bad that she decides to dump me and not the other way around?

Get rid of her. Instead of wasting your time trying to do shit to piss her off, just tell her to get the hell out. Don't think of it like sports. That's a whole other deal. Those guys are in it for the glory. There's no glory in hanging around with some woman you can't stand.

And by the way, is Scuba that same dog you had a thread going about a while back? Half Great Dane half Doberman, or something like that? If so, how's he doing?

Aloha!

[Pepini]

(03-10-2011 10:18 PM)Kona Wrote:  

(03-10-2011 09:59 PM)Pepini Wrote:  

Does it make me a looser to dump a girl? Shouldn´t I be able to treat her so bad that she decides to dump me and not the other way around?

Get rid of her. Instead of wasting your time trying to do shit to piss her off, just tell her to get the hell out. Don't think of it like sports. That's a whole other deal. Those guys are in it for the glory. There's no glory in hanging around with some woman you can't stand.

And by the way, is Scuba that same dog you had a thread going about a while back? Half Great Dane half Doberman, or something like that? If so, how's he doing?

Aloha!

Yep I kept the crazy bastard. Taught him how to seat and not piss on the house. One thing though the fucker farts like a human.
I will probably end up dumping this bitch also...

[D. Goodnuts]

Sounds like you've already made the right move. Keep banging her when you get the chance and continue to build your stable. Your grandfather sounds pretty effin legendary. You're fortunate to have him as your mentor!

[BB_Jenkins]

(03-10-2011 09:59 PM)Pepini Wrote:  

I nicknamed the current chick I´m dating with my dog name: Scuba. Since we´re going out I call her Scuba or scubina and she was ok with it. So I´m having lunch with some friends and decide to invite her. When she arrives she asks me not to call her Scuba anymore. I get all pissed off and tell her to get the fuck out and go back home.

Yea man, glad you told her to get the fuck out. I mean what is that shit about?.. Is she trying to be cute (front) for your friends or something?.. That would be what I pulled from that shit. Because if your friends wasn't there she probably would not have said that shit.

Or maybe I'M just crazy like that. I never trust'em

[emh]

Okay, I'm going to play devil's advocate here. In my opinion, calling a girl the same name as your dog is NOT cool at all. I have no idea what you were thinking. As for her being "ok" with it, how do you know that? Did she specifically tell you that? Obviously I don't know much about the situation but I'm going to guess that she was bothered by it all along and the invitation to hang out with your friends was just the catalyst for her to finally say something.

[BB_Jenkins]

(03-11-2011 08:09 AM)emh Wrote:  

Okay, I'm going to play devil's advocate here. In my opinion, calling a girl the same name as your dog is NOT cool at all. I have no idea what you were thinking. As for her being "ok" with it, how do you know that? Did she specifically tell you that? Obviously I don't know much about the situation but I'm going to guess that she was bothered by it all along and the invitation to hang out with your friends was just the catalyst for her to finally say something.

LMAO!!! Good point here emh. Didn't think of that one.

[Tuthmosis]

I can throw in a couple of cents into this discussion, because it's an area that I often encounter.

I'm naturally (even when I'm not gaming) sort of an insulting, taunting dude--especially with girls. I've just come to accept that I don't have a lot of tact, and I'm not really making any effort to develop any. I get "called out" by chicks all the time, which often means they say something like, "you're mean. I'm not talking to you anymore," and try to leave. The great part is that they often say it with a provocative smirk on their face. It's my moment to capture or lose.

I usually turn things around by exaggeratively admitting that "I was wrong," and then immediately doing something else offensive or by overtly escalating to physical affection to "make up for it." It's a natural part of my personality, and probably wouldn't work with a lot of dudes that have a more serious or mysterious persona. Shit has to be congruent.

Calling your girl by a dog's name is definitely a thing you have to prepared to back away from. If a girl takes offense, it's actually okay to sometimes admit you're wrong. You just have to find a way to do it in a way that preserves your unique manly frame. That varies from dude to dude, so choose your own adventure.