Never invest more in a woman than she's willing to invest in you. I've never bought a drink for a stranger in my entire life, and will only spend money (Sparingly) on a girl if we click and see each other more than a few times. Sometimes on the first date the girl will make no effort to reach for her purse. I'll eat the cost of the drink, but since I go for hipster girls I can always get away with taking them to a dive bar where drinks are dirt cheap.
It's a slippery slope when it comes to dating girls. If you take her to an NBA game and you get amazing seats she'll be disappointed when you just want to go out for drinks the next date. If she digs you then she won't care about your money (Although a man's resources are an aphrodisiac for women). I don't have as high a notch count as most guys, but in one year I managed to fuck 5 girls (Previous record was 2 girls over 24 years) and I never spent a dime on any of them when I got their numbers, saw IOI's, or brought them back to fuck. You can be broke and living on a friend's couch but if your game is good enough that won't be an issue.
It's a slippery slope when it comes to dating girls. If you take her to an NBA game and you get amazing seats she'll be disappointed when you just want to go out for drinks the next date. If she digs you then she won't care about your money (Although a man's resources are an aphrodisiac for women). I don't have as high a notch count as most guys, but in one year I managed to fuck 5 girls (Previous record was 2 girls over 24 years) and I never spent a dime on any of them when I got their numbers, saw IOI's, or brought them back to fuck. You can be broke and living on a friend's couch but if your game is good enough that won't be an issue.