Quote: (07-15-2012 05:06 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
Quote: (07-15-2012 04:45 PM)MrLemon Wrote:
Quote: (11-16-2009 11:47 PM)ManAbout Wrote:
Quote: (11-16-2009 07:36 PM)Prometheus Wrote:
Once you get into your late 30's and above , unless you are in good physical shape and a good looking guy and/or have considerable amounts of money/power/influence/fame chances are that you will not be picking up too many women in the age range of 20 -30.
It's possible , but its also alot more difficult.
You don't know what you are talking about.
In my 40s, I could connect with 20-yr olds with absolutely no problem. In fact 40s were a great age because certain 20-yr-old girls just love that age. It's not *all* 20 year old girls but those that did were especially easy to reel in. I prefer submissive women and subbies tend to like older men, so it was like being a kid in the candy shop for me.
Hitting 50 on the other hand, is shit. (see "mid life crisis", and yes, it sucks). Suddenly women, and everybody else too, sees you as "over the hill". You are judged on one and only one factor: how rich or famous you are. If you are 50+ and just getting by with a normal job, or trying to re-invent your career, you might as well be a leper.
50 is the Wiley Coyote moment for men. Guys in your 30s and 40s...do not underestimate how much of a crash it will be for you.
So what's the solution?
Get rich/famous would obviously work.
Or would it be better to marry a hot 24 year old when you are 47?
Or move to Thailand?
Thoughts?
Well, first step. Career success, confidence, and money (all interchangeable assets) are key. Keep focusing your efforts back into your career and your reputation. By the end of your 40s, you'd better be at the absolute peak of your career game.
You can either stay a bachelor and focus all that success to your self, alternatively, as a side path, you can take some of that energy you are pouring into your career, and pour that energy instead into being the 40-something who marries a sweet little 24-yr-old and starts a brood of children.
There are advantages and disadvantages to both routes.
With the stay-single-career route, you are in total control of your own destiny, you can accumulate all the money and power you can manage yourself, and continue banging hot 20 and 30 something gals. But most guys I know in that position become very lonely and "hollow" in their 50s. Banging hot chicks frankly gets pretty boring after a while. Pussy, pussy, pussy. After a while, you feel like a gynecologist, who really gets sick and tired of looking at vaginas. You can travel and climb mountains, but after a while, it all starts looking boring too.
On the other if you pursue the wifey and kids, in your mid-40s let say, and if you do it well (following game principles) you will be able to sit back in your 70s and have the rare pleasure of watching your kids run out and conquer the world in ways that you (in your 70s) can no longer do. That is perfectly satisfying. That's the route I took. But, to go that way you have to accept that you will lose momentum in your own career because of the time and energy you re-route to your kids. You can't go down the wife and kids route half-assed, you have to commit utterly and stick with it for 20 years, no excuses, no backing down. Of course you have that huge risk that the woman you marry will be a typical western idiot and will blow up the family after 10 years, you and the kids will be devastated by the divorce, and your sacrifice will all be in vain.