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Girl asks you to lend her money
12-29-2016, 05:48 AM
Once I was texting with a girl who was a single mom and lived in a neighboring city from me, like a 40min drive. She sent me some titty pics, things were looking nice so I was only in it for a bang. Anyway, talks about logistics stalled because she constantly had a kid to take care of and couldn't find the time but she still seemed eager to meet.
Then she hit me with the money question, like "hey I don't have enough money this money to feed my kid and me and could you lend me some money". Lawd have mercy have I lol'd. The sheer brazenness of this girl asking a complete stranger who you've never met to instantly give you some money ("lend", yeah right), without asking family or friends or the really strong social welfare system that we have. Told her she could come over for a nice evening and then I'd give her some money for meals if she wants, just to see her reaction. Obviously that was a deal-breaker, why did I not just wire her the money, how could I be so heartless yadda yadda, same talk like any homeless bum would give you when he asks for change to buy food, you offer to buy him food and he gets uppity that that's not what he wanted.
Some people... well sometimes I have to sorta admire the utter shamelessness and forwardness in asking strangers who owe you nothing, who have 0 connection to you for money
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Girl asks you to lend her money
12-29-2016, 06:59 AM
Quote: (12-27-2016 03:42 PM)Kona Wrote:
Unless you are willing to collect the money like Silvio Dante does it here:
Don't do it.
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Girl asks you to lend her money
12-30-2016, 01:14 AM
I hate when people throw their problems on me like I am supposed to come up with a solution. How did she get into this situation anyway? Her money problems are not your money problems.
I would just ignore her. The only person I am obligated to please is myself.