Hi guys, looking for some help.
I was hanging out with a pretty girl at my local pub last night, and there is also, it turns out, a really pretty 18 year old barmaid who works there (I'm 25). So I was sitting at the bar with the girl I came with, and brought the barmaid into the conversation a few times, as I kept catching her looking at me. Long story short, I got the barmaids number, and texted her to follow up and say we should hang out. She replied that she would really like to and wanted to hear more about the things we'd been talking about last night. We live in a rural area, so there aren't that many young people around, which is both a blessing and a curse I guess.
Anyway, I replied to her text where she said she'd really like to hang out by saying:
'Awesome. What nights don't you work at X, let's arrange something'.
She replied within the hour saying:
'Ah, that's the problem, I go back to uni on Monday and I'm not back until the end of May x'
What do you guys reckon I should reply? This chick lives really close to me, is very cute, actually has a really good sense of humour, and seems pretty uncorrupted so far (her FB photos suggest she isn't part of the 'cool' crowd).
I think she'd genuinely like to hang out, and it's pretty clear from her body language that she thinks I'm attractive. I have plans tonight and tomorrow. It's pretty clear she won't be a one night thing, and I'd quite like to set her up as an option for the summer months.
I'm thinking of just saying something along the lines of:
'That's so sad, I was looking forward to hanging out. You should drop me a text when you're back from uni'.
But I don't know whether to try to build some rapport with her over the next few weeks via text, which I can usually do pretty successfully, or whether I just leave it for now.
Advice much appreciated.
I was hanging out with a pretty girl at my local pub last night, and there is also, it turns out, a really pretty 18 year old barmaid who works there (I'm 25). So I was sitting at the bar with the girl I came with, and brought the barmaid into the conversation a few times, as I kept catching her looking at me. Long story short, I got the barmaids number, and texted her to follow up and say we should hang out. She replied that she would really like to and wanted to hear more about the things we'd been talking about last night. We live in a rural area, so there aren't that many young people around, which is both a blessing and a curse I guess.
Anyway, I replied to her text where she said she'd really like to hang out by saying:
'Awesome. What nights don't you work at X, let's arrange something'.
She replied within the hour saying:
'Ah, that's the problem, I go back to uni on Monday and I'm not back until the end of May x'
What do you guys reckon I should reply? This chick lives really close to me, is very cute, actually has a really good sense of humour, and seems pretty uncorrupted so far (her FB photos suggest she isn't part of the 'cool' crowd).
I think she'd genuinely like to hang out, and it's pretty clear from her body language that she thinks I'm attractive. I have plans tonight and tomorrow. It's pretty clear she won't be a one night thing, and I'd quite like to set her up as an option for the summer months.
I'm thinking of just saying something along the lines of:
'That's so sad, I was looking forward to hanging out. You should drop me a text when you're back from uni'.
But I don't know whether to try to build some rapport with her over the next few weeks via text, which I can usually do pretty successfully, or whether I just leave it for now.
Advice much appreciated.