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08-14-2013, 10:24 PM
There is likely no one answer to this question, because there's no one type of woman. Most girls want to be sleeping with only one dude. They pick the best available option and try to get that guy to commit. If that guy won't commit, they'll stick it out for a bit of time. Eventually, they get tired of waiting and start to explore other options. Sometimes she waits a few weeks and sometimes a few months, but sooner or later other dudes come into the picture.
That's most girls. There's plenty of girls who have no problem banging multiple dudes. Usually you can tell who those girls are (some of them will just flat out tell you), but some of them are very good at pretending not to be those girls.
If you're banging lots of women, chances are you're interacting with both kinds.
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08-15-2013, 12:39 AM
For all the talk about being "alpha" I'm surprised so many people are concerned what a girl (that's not your girlfriend) is throwing her poon at.
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08-15-2013, 02:11 AM
MikeCF,
Huh yeah now that I think on it that might have been me 15 years ago. Guess I got jaded.
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08-15-2013, 03:13 AM
Yeah just entertainment and to stay realistic. I would never want to get emotionally invested with this girl. She came over last night again but she put up a great act again. I couldn't fuck her though.
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08-15-2013, 04:26 AM
Quote: (08-14-2013 10:24 PM)j r Wrote:
There is likely no one answer to this question, because there's no one type of woman. Most girls want to be sleeping with only one dude. They pick the best available option and try to get that guy to commit. If that guy won't commit, they'll stick it out for a bit of time. Eventually, they get tired of waiting and start to explore other options. Sometimes she waits a few weeks and sometimes a few months, but sooner or later other dudes come into the picture.
Exactly. Unless this type of girl gets you to commit, it is only a matter of time (the length of this time depends, but it will happen at some point) before they start exploring other options...which means that they will easily rationalize banging more than one dudes at the same time, at least until they get either of them to commit (and perhaps afterwards).
I have found messages on phones, basically saying to their friends "this other guy I met yesterday seems to be good relationship material, lets find out", immediately preceded by a message describing how good sex they had with me...
Of course, there are plenty of other girls that will bang whoever makes them horny, but it is a delusion to assume that the rest will not be Oscar-worthy actresses as well, as Samseau put it.
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08-15-2013, 05:30 AM
Wasn't refering to the OP, but the notion that if a girl isn't exclusive doing you there's something wrong with your game.
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08-15-2013, 10:10 AM
In all my years and all my women I have never ever once had a girl cheat on me.
I don't know where you guys are finding these girls. Then again I have no idea what it is like among girls born '90 on onwards.
And before you say I am naive and don't know consider that I've been steady fucking and getting laid since I was 15. I'm 37. I am pretty sure I know what's what.
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08-15-2013, 10:29 AM
Quote: (08-15-2013 10:10 AM)reaper23 Wrote:
In all my years and all my women I have never ever once had a girl cheat on me.
I don't know where you guys are finding these girls. Then again I have no idea what it is like among girls born '90 on onwards.
And before you say I am naive and don't know consider that I've been steady fucking and getting laid since I was 15. I'm 37. I am pretty sure I know what's what.
With all due respect and without any intention to criticize, how can you be so absolutely sure and make this statement? I mean, unless you had full control of your girls' lives and of their phones, etc.
I speak from personal experience, since I had also seen a lot of similar signs of devotion and monogamy in girls I had on rotation (not as many as yours, but still)...before finding some shit in their phones (of course, I am not checking phones all the time). This was a real red pill to swallow, which I promptly did, of course!
Again, we are not talking about sluts here, but seemingly serious girls.
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08-15-2013, 10:35 AM
Of course there is no way to know for sure. But listen, I get paid a lot of money for my judgment and my ability to read people. And I've been working chicks for a long time.
My statistical sample size is also large enough that if some one did cheat on me I would have likely caught it or they would have confessed or whatever.
There have never even been signs or hints or anything questionable.
I think this narrative that all chicks are cheating whores is helpful for writers and those selling products. I don't believe it to be true.
I do think women are children though.
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08-15-2013, 10:39 AM
Vicious: I mean cheat by have sex with someone else when they know they shouldn't