[Nomad77]

Great post on getting over approach anxiety:

http://swooptheworld.com/how-to-double-y...ss-part-1/

[RXB]

Any Midwest dudes looking to link up and do some approaches?

[Nomad77]

You should state what city you are in.

[Nomad77]

You can teach someone the skills to achieve something but you cannot give them the will do it. You can teach someone Game but you cannot give them the motivation to want girls enough to go out there and use it.

[RXB]

(08-28-2013 09:56 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

You should state what city you are in.

I'd be willing to travel to anywhere in the Iowa/Illinois/Wisconsin/Minnesota region.

[kaka]

Hi guys, I live in Seattle. I would like to have a mentor for game and lifestyle (I'm an accountant, but do not want to pursue the 9-5 and I'm sure my business skills can be useful with the right partner), but I would like to hear from you seasoned vets. It can be done via text, online, or even meet up. Whatever works!

[Nomad77]

This is a common mistake, I and lot of guys continue to make.

Lean back: great video on body language...

[Que enspastic]

I live in London.


I would be willing to mentor 1 guy. I have a career path, decent lay count and solid interests in music and sport.

[Nomad77]

...

[Sphinx2]

New here in Pennsylvania, split time between Philly and Pittsburgh. Looking for someone with career advice and to keep my game up.

[Nomad77]

What kind of career advice?

[Nomad77]

Great book on building up your self-confidence:

http://www.amazon.com/dp/B00DTLL15U/ref=...410_M1T1DP

[kaka]

Anyone in seattle, wa?

[biznass]

Anyone in SEA? I'm currently in the P.I. but may be willing to relocate.

[OMYG]

Im in L.A.

[Nomad77]

http://www.goodlookingloser.com review

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-28148.html

[Nomad77]

Read this book after Roosh recommended it and I think it's a great quick read. Our fear of rejection is what keeps a lot of us from approaching to begin with. This book helps you to deal with it in a very constructive manner:

http://www.goforno.com

[Nomad77]

Bruce Lee

[Screwston]

I can give advice through the celly if someone is struggling with girls. I try to help Rosca out through live texts on the weekends. Its a lot easier just talking and going back and forth than reading posts.

[Nomad77]

Here is an update of what I have found from working with a few guys in person and on the phone. While all guys want to have sex with many different women and/or get high quality girls very few a willing to do what is necessary to make that happen. Most guys either just don't have the time or can't find it to put in the amount of practice required to become reasonably good with women. They are either too busy with work etc. or prefer to spend their spare time doing other things like playing video games. It is no different than learning to be good at a video game or anything else, it requires months and years of regular practice.

Is there a way around this? There may be, look at my thread on Universal Game.

http://www.rooshvforum.network/thread-29354.html

[tylerdurden1993]

I wouldn't mind a UK based mentor as i'm doing the 100 approaches and really struggling with finding girls to approach. I do exclusively night game but would be willing to try day game. I feel like if I had someone with a boot up my arse so to speak id make a lot more progress. I'm not really looking to meet as I don't think any forum members live near me and don't have the money to travel really. Thanks

[Kieran]

I'd be up for going out with UK guys. I'm not really interested in mentoring or being mentored as I don't take it that seriously (I like to just go out, have a laugh, and talk to some birds).

Also, although I have a really high count, quality has been hit and miss so I don't really feel I'm in a position to be giving advice.

[jariel]

(10-25-2013 02:26 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  

While all guys want to have sex with many different women and/or get high quality girls very few a willing to do what is necessary to make that happen. Most guys either just don't have the time or can't find it to put in the amount of practice required to become reasonably good with women. They are either too busy with work etc. or prefer to spend their spare time doing other things like playing video games. It is no different than learning to be good at a video game or anything else, it requires months and years of regular practice.

Is there a way around this?

No, go hard or go home.

You can't half-ass your way to success, and given where your level of game is, I don't think you should use your knowledge to aid anyone that wants the shortcuts and cheat codes.

Honestly, with all the information out there, no one should ever need another book, boot camp, whatever else, but a lot of people go about things passively and while it makes them feel like they're doing something, they're not going to get results, and while I understand we want to be encouraging, I don't like to waste my time humoring people with bullshit to stroke their egos.

Unless it's straight up given to you, hard work is required to obtain anything that you don't have, especially for the things that we consider to be the finer things in life.

Everyone is not going to be good at this game, everyone can't fuck all the bad bitches, get money, have interesting lifestyles, etc. That's simply because we all don't really want it. The number of people who say they do is far greater than the ones who actually do. Thus, ultimately, very few of us get there, because very few us have some combination of natural skills, a strong work ethic, and the desire to achieve, and we put it all to work for us.

We live and strive for it every day, just to be better men and reap what comes as a result, so we'll do whatever it takes to get there. If you don't have an all-in, whatever it takes mentality in life, you've lost before you've even started, because you're competing against people like me; I'm hungry, and I'm going to eat.

[Slacker101]

(10-01-2013 03:35 AM)Screwston Wrote:  

I can give advice through the celly if someone is struggling with girls. I try to help Rosca out through live texts on the weekends. Its a lot easier just talking and going back and forth than reading posts.

Don't suppose this offer still stands? I could really use a mentor.

[Nomad77]

Yes, talking can help. If anyone want to talk you can PM me your number and what you think you need help with and I'll give you a call when I can.