http://www.salon.com/2012/01/26/my_narci...g_my_life/
The advice column of Salon's Cary Tennis.
FTA:
We went to counseling, yet she refused to admit that what she had done was in any way wrong. In fact, she said that until she got caught it was the best year of her life, having a happy home life and a secret lover.
Manosphere translation of Hamster to English by JNF:
She liked how I paid for all her stuff and kept the home fires burning so she could focus on getting pumped by lesser Alpha.
FTA:
When she argues she says the most horrific things. She recently told me that I am the worst lover she has ever had.
JNF:
That's because you pay for her stuff and treat her well.
FTA:
I guess that changed when she started getting some strange.
JNF:
Is this a masterful Manosphere troll letter?
FTA:
She has this bizarre sense of entitlement and feels that no one man could ever fulfill her completely so she should be able to get what she needs emotionally and physically from multiple people.
JNF:
There it is guys, the new normal spelled out for you in plain English. Read it and believe it. That's the bitter Red Pill right there.
FTA:
She has said, “Wedding vows are a joke because pretty much everyone cheats anyway,” and I am “naive and a prude” and the only one of my friends who doesn’t cheat on his wife and that’s because I am “sexually repressed” whereas she is “fabulous” and “great in bed” and everywhere she goes she can instantly tell how many men want to sleep with her.
JNF:
No comment needed
FTA:
The more I type the more sickened I am that I am still in this relationship but I have three wonderful children and I want to continue to live with them and guide them into adulthood. I have no desire for them to end up living with some random guy that wants to be called “Dad” and has his own views of parenting.
JNF:
Fuck this world.
FTA:
After a few too many glasses of wine a few weeks ago, she matter-of-factly stated that if we divorce she will sue to be the custodial parent (which she will get because she’s a stay-at-home mom), that I will have to “pay up big” and if I “try to hide any future income” that she is owed, she will get the best lawyers to find it and get me “thrown in jail” until I pay her every nickel. I apparently deserve all that because she gave birth to our three children. She has a college degree from a big-name university but hasn’t worked since our first child was born.
JNF:
Either a Manosphere troll letter or a reason to start a men only colony somewhere and start over.
To Cary Tennis' credit he advises the man to fight back.
The advice column of Salon's Cary Tennis.
FTA:
We went to counseling, yet she refused to admit that what she had done was in any way wrong. In fact, she said that until she got caught it was the best year of her life, having a happy home life and a secret lover.
Manosphere translation of Hamster to English by JNF:
She liked how I paid for all her stuff and kept the home fires burning so she could focus on getting pumped by lesser Alpha.
FTA:
When she argues she says the most horrific things. She recently told me that I am the worst lover she has ever had.
JNF:
That's because you pay for her stuff and treat her well.
FTA:
I guess that changed when she started getting some strange.
JNF:
Is this a masterful Manosphere troll letter?
FTA:
She has this bizarre sense of entitlement and feels that no one man could ever fulfill her completely so she should be able to get what she needs emotionally and physically from multiple people.
JNF:
There it is guys, the new normal spelled out for you in plain English. Read it and believe it. That's the bitter Red Pill right there.
FTA:
She has said, “Wedding vows are a joke because pretty much everyone cheats anyway,” and I am “naive and a prude” and the only one of my friends who doesn’t cheat on his wife and that’s because I am “sexually repressed” whereas she is “fabulous” and “great in bed” and everywhere she goes she can instantly tell how many men want to sleep with her.
JNF:
No comment needed
FTA:
The more I type the more sickened I am that I am still in this relationship but I have three wonderful children and I want to continue to live with them and guide them into adulthood. I have no desire for them to end up living with some random guy that wants to be called “Dad” and has his own views of parenting.
JNF:
Fuck this world.
FTA:
After a few too many glasses of wine a few weeks ago, she matter-of-factly stated that if we divorce she will sue to be the custodial parent (which she will get because she’s a stay-at-home mom), that I will have to “pay up big” and if I “try to hide any future income” that she is owed, she will get the best lawyers to find it and get me “thrown in jail” until I pay her every nickel. I apparently deserve all that because she gave birth to our three children. She has a college degree from a big-name university but hasn’t worked since our first child was born.
JNF:
Either a Manosphere troll letter or a reason to start a men only colony somewhere and start over.
To Cary Tennis' credit he advises the man to fight back.