Quote: (07-04-2013 03:55 PM)Luccheese Wrote:
Women don't like or love you. They like or love the way you make them feel.
^^from the mouths of babes (aka people with low post counts)
And I'd like to add that some qualifications
- you might not be making them feel one way or another CONSCIOUSLY. A lot of chicks like the IDEA of being with a CERTAIN kind of guy. Rich Guy, Hood, Thug, Artist, Black Guy, White Guy, Swarthy Foreigner, Military Guy, Rough Blue collar Guy, Powerful White Collar Guy, McGuyver Resourceful type guy, et cetera. Some actually enjoy the fact that she's living it up Gangnam style and munching on all the kim chi she can get - but that same broad would easily join the NBA Player Wives club or the MMA girlfriend club or be the significant other of the Head of the Local branch of the Republican party
- How you make them feel doesn't always have to be positive. - Flowing straight from the Scrolls of Red Pill - Some girls like to feel NEEDED and Necessary, some girls like dependency, some girls don't act right unless they're constantly in fear, some chicks don't even relax unless they're always in competition with something.
"You mean I gotta treat you like shit for you to like me? Even if I do not like treating you like shit? This is the hoop you're making me jump through for decent sex 3 times a week? You want me to give you drama so can get sympathy from your friends and family? That's what's feeding your ego?"
Not to say that we, as men, don't think the world revolves around us.
A lot of players expect the worst from all women and are baffled when a woman is genuinely nice. (and then thrown the fuck off when nice girl reveals her true colors - like Bitch I ain't carrying your god damn purse)
My general rule is to limit my active investigation of what women SAY they want, and focus on what they actually get. I don't like to try and predict what a woman is going to do, figure her plan out, plan my life according to what kind of house she may want to live in, what level of musculature she wants to keep her warm at night. I'm a fairly smart guy. I tend to catch on to things pretty quick, But women are not only dynamic, many women are quick to change if you've got a part of their behavior figured out. It's like a emotional reflex.
"Oh I zig? I'm finna zag on your ass"
*munching on 4th of July BBQ*
WIA