Quote: (06-24-2013 12:41 PM)Player88 Wrote:
Obviously joking around. Best way to handle if text a question and has bitch attached
Eg "When can i see you this week bitch?"
Guys?
1. at some point, you let this chick get way too comfortable and didn't put her in check
2. is the situation salvegable? Can you put the fear/respect of God back in the bitch?
^that's the question your asking.
There's at least 2 schools of thought on this.
The pimp side is basically, "if a bitch even thinks of fixing her lips to say some bullshit like that, you've already lost". Which means, you have to basically take her back to the woodshed - basically you drop her, or you come at her with some mind blowing soul crushing shit.
And then there's the David Deida side of things, which is sort of inline with the pimp mindset but softer - I'm testing you to see if I can get rise out of you.
Clearly she got a rise out of you cause you're posting about it.
She got to you by calling you a name.
There are lingering questions about whether she's doing this consciously and maliciously, or unconsciously and maliciously.
Bitches love to put a dude in a can't win situation. It's what they live for, it's how they test your G.
If you ignore it, she thinks she can say anything she wants to you.
If you get all aggravated, she knows she can fuck with you, and she loses respect for you.
Now in theory you could scan your memory banks for some soul crushing shit like, "you wasn't saying all that when you was @ the abortion doctor killing your unborn" - but chances are you don't have that kinda dirt on her.
You could just slowly withdraw your attention from her and put it on the next chick in the rotation. Standard red pill advice, cause the thing that gives a chick oxygen to breath is your attention. And you're supposed to be above these bitches, not mixing it up with them on texts. Chicks bringing you down to their level is unbecoming of a player.
Ahh, but the schemer in you wants to put the slow screws in the chick. Let her think she got away with something, and then SURPRISE BITCH, you hit her from left field with something.
In essence you have no good options because at some point she got it in her that she work the pants in the relationship. The fact that she has monetary power over you as well as pussy power over you, gives you a weak objective position. But since she hasn't dropped you and moved on, you've got something that she wants.
You've got to figure out what it is you provide her, and that's what you use to put her back in her place.
What is it about the attention you give her that she can't get from the next dude?
I don't know if we can solve this problem w/o more data.
WIA