First of all, absolute great breakdown on hot versus medium leads by WestCoast. That's practically a data sheet in and of itself.
Quote: (06-03-2013 08:54 PM)MikeCF Wrote:
I also rely on picture texts.
It's part of "lifestyle game." (That is, if you live a good life game is simply about making a girl pine to be part of it.)
Text a girl a picture of a rooftop bar you're at with an ocean view, with nothing else, and she will be sad she is not with you.
Face it, other than brunch...What do girls do during the day? Nothing. They are boring.
A cool picture without any words and they want to be where you are.
This is what I'm talking about. You really encapsulate the reasoning for why the "lifestyle" approach of texting and carefully selected picture messages can be so effective. Most girls lives are fucking boring. Their excitement is drama with their friends or a happy hour where they had guys hitting on them, or going out dancing or to a cool sushi restaurant.
Anyone with any real experience in life realizes that hanging out with great friends or even just having a nice dinner can be one of the nicer things in life, but that going for a hike and witnessing the picturesque sunset, or catching a ride on someone's sailboat, or getting exclusive access to super hot nightclub with the best DJ spinning, or just about anything unique can be an absolute blast.
There are experiences you can get through just being a social, risk-taking, adventurous person that you would have a hard time paying money to make happen otherwise. These experiences usually blow away whatever a girl has done in the past week and probably many months. If you can give them little glimpses of these experiences, they are instantly intrigued and jealous of your life. They want to be a part of it. You have a unique, uncaged, exhilarating life and she won't want to miss out on being a guest in your world.
If you build your life up, things that are just everyday for you can be exciting for her and her normal mundane life. Fuck, I've had girls jealous just because I popped open a beer in my office and took a picture of it that looked really appealing just sitting on my desk.
You can't imagine how boring girls lives are until you've interacted with a lot of them. Realize too that this is because most guys are boring as fuck. It's not just the girls being boring, but the men in their lives are really boring too. These guys make it easier for you! The G calls these guys "weesh" and they are your best wingmen.
Quote: (06-03-2013 08:49 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:
I haven't used that one in years. Thanks for reminding me. I have to read some of my old-school writings more often.
Hah, my memory is not great, but it really felt like one of your moves, thanks for confirming that.
Quote: (06-04-2013 11:17 AM)Gustavo Wrote:
Who gets the last text you or her?
Just like the 3/1 rule and the concept that you should keep your texts very concise and don't bother correcting all spelling/punctuation, this is a general guideline. It doesn't bother me at all if I'm the last text, however I do make a conscious effort to have it happen less than half the time. There are SO many reasons that your text can end up being the last text, that you shouldn't be that concerned about it unless you're not that great at calibration.