[Richiavelli]

sitting at a bar by myself, open a chick and her friend about how much to tip the bartender. as they go back to dance her friend ditches, isolation was simple. couldn't get more than a kiss out of her.

some guy outside the bar called her out as I was running game, "Just kiss the guy for me - its my birthday! He deserves it, look at the work he's putting in."

Lol wtf.

[Teddykgb]

A week ago I approached a girl Saturday morning outside of Starbucks and chatted for a bit and got her number. We were making some plans to hangout but she lives about 45 minutes away in the city and doesn't have a car and I didn't want to drive to her. So today I thought I would text her "Come grab lunch tomorrow" and this is how she responded.

"Victoria and you are right. If I don't pull the trigger now then I will get emotionally invested and make excuses as well as tolerate a sub par relationship or booty call (maybe that's what he's thinking). IDK. Either way, you need to bring your A game when ur with me. I am not thing this type of relationship. I think I get desperate when I think there aren't other choices and there are indeed . God, myself, family, career, relationship. In that order"



That text definitely wasn't intended for me but I'm not sure how to respond. Seems like she is in a rocky relationship and she seemed very happy that I approached her last weekend. She was a 28 year old cute redhead.



Edit:

My FWB girl interaction last night

Her: 9:46pm Hi

Her: 11:10pm Stop being a hoe

Her: 11:10pm and comeover

Her: 11:21pm I'd like that

Her: 12:31am Ur annoying

Me: 4:30am (shirtless pic with my horse mask on)

Her: 8:30am Ur so annoying


Is she actually annoyed or does she want me even more now? I figure it's smart if I don't go fuck her every time she texts me wanting it. I had text her on Wednesday looking to fuck and she wasn't available. I guess the only positive from it is that she is always texting me on Friday and Saturday nights. I'm not sure if that is a good or bad thing.

[Dalaran1991]

For the first time I had a girl approaching me.

Brosemite was giving me a few tips on hairstyle, so I tried them out and went out dancing. Usual dressing sharp routine except for hair.

A cute blonde came up and asks me if I wanna dance with her. A 6s but very nice and soft-spoken. This is very rare since in these venues guys fight to dance with girls. I treated her nicely bc of that and had quite a fun dance. I took a break and another guy was dancing with her. A girl (her friend I found out) waved at me, gestured at her and mouthed at me "go get her man!" Confused, I approached her (with another guy) and befriended them. She said the blonde really wanted to dance with me from the beginning and would love to again. When the song was about to end she yelled "Sonia Sonia come here" so I could dance with her @@Banana

I was kinda shocked. Instead of being cockblocked this girl whom I didnt even talk to was trying to help me! Of course I took her for another dance and try to chat her up a bit, but the girl was really shy and didnt give me anything to work with. I ask her for another dance but she said she didn't like this song, so I told her ok maybe next one and go grab another girl. I could see out of the corner of my eyes she was watching me, but when I came back they were gone.

The night ended with 2 numbers and lots of solid interaction.

I have had approaches that went very well, but this is the first time I've got a girl approached me based solely on my look. This is why everyone should try to max out on his look, at least it never hurts.

Sometimes girls can be pretty nice people. Aint leaving Europe for a while

[kaotic]

Good Thing 1:

so last night one of my regulars come over...in matching lingerie, high heels, and pea coat...straight from her car to my door.

The neighbors who just moved in witnessed this apparently....I haven't even met them lol.

I get a good head session, I'm sucked dry but try for the bang.

She's a 6 a bit thick but pretty cool, she tell me she's interested in a threesome, I immediately have her and her friend put us in a group text.

Her friend is a fucking 8 of course, I'm hoping to make this work.


Good Thing 2:

My main HB 8 came into my work. One of my female coworkers (I banged her a few times) said my main HB is fucking gorgeous. I've heard that a few times about my main, proud to say it's reinforced. I said, "yeah she's alright" my female coworker look appalled, the look on her face was priceless. Like a "how dare you not pussy worship her beautiful ass" look.


Good Thing 3:

This Persian HB 8 (banging body) I made out with but wouldn't fuck me (she had a BF) a few years back came into my work today.
I didn't even recognize her, her face turned chubby and nearing the wall. She had a gut and flabby arms now (maybe had a kid?). I've gotten more muscle and grew a big bear, she was really surprised.

She didn't give me the time of day back then, now she looks like shit, karma's a bitch haha.

[horn]

Had an amazing nite out with the model I picked up last week. Drinks at 4 venues starting at 7, dinner at a medium priced but awesome restaurant I knew of, we didn't get back to her place until 3.

Everyone was staring at us because we were dressed 10x better than anyone else and assumed we had been dating for years lol. You could see the women staring at her then at me when we walked in or they came by our spot. The azn girls just looked at me mostly. What is it with them? Just tall white guys I guess, ahhahaha. Guys were too intimidated to speak to her when I'd leave her and go outside or check out the rest of the club, you could see the thirstyness in their eyes but couldn't get the courage up. Woody allen was right 90% of life is just showing up. We spent most of the nite drinking and laughing. Some street photog took photos of us, that's def a first for me.

I think I could have swung a 3-way with a sexy Cuban girl who was interested in my date, but I was too drunk by that point to figure out how to make it happen, and didn't want to blow my sure thing. I wanted my sure thing to blow me.

Mission accomplished. Nights like that and you feel invincible. Except for the hangover....

[kaotic]

(08-23-2014 10:58 PM)horn Wrote:  

Had an amazing nite out with the model I picked up last week. Drinks at 4 venues starting at 7, dinner at a medium priced but awesome restaurant I knew of, we didn't get back to her place until 3.

Everyone was staring at us because we were dressed 10x better than anyone else and assumed we had been dating for years lol. You could see the women staring at her then at me when we walked in or they came by our spot. The azn girls just looked at me mostly. What is it with them? Just tall white guys I guess, ahhahaha. Guys were too intimidated to speak to her when I'd leave her and go outside or check out the rest of the club, you could see the thirstyness in their eyes but couldn't get the courage up. Woody allen was right 90% of life is just showing up. We spent most of the nite drinking and laughing. Some street photog took photos of us, that's def a first for me.

I think I could have swung a 3-way with a sexy Cuban girl who was interested in my date, but I was too drunk by that point to figure out how to make it happen, and didn't want to blow my sure thing. I wanted my sure thing to blow me.

Mission accomplished. Nights like that and you feel invincible. Except for the hangover....

Don't you love nights like that ? You feel like a fucking rockstar stud. Have the HB, dressed to the 9's all eyes on you. And the night ends with a bang.

Good for you bro !

[simondice]

Interesting night..

I went to a bar in my college area solo and began the night approaching some girls that I thought looked good.
For the first part of the night, I'm getting more shot down than Castro's prisoners of war and nothing hooks, the bar is a total nightmare to move around and the girls do not respond favorably.

After mid-night, when free drinks are over, the bar kinda calms down and I can actually have some conversations with some girls, but I realize I'm so rusty that I don't have the ideal vibe to keep a good interaction so I lost out on some opportunities.
I enter a zone where I know exactly where I'm messing up and I take note.

Do you believe in second chances?
At 1:10ish (bar closes at 2 here in FL) I run into a girl, American-Chinese 7.5 with a booty, who I approached earlier in the year, like six months ago. It had all the ingredients of being a bang, but I fucked it up somehow and deleted her number.
I see her and she is very happy to see me, saying how much I've changed, so I start talking and teasing just having fun with her. I had forgotten how great of a vibe I had with this girl. I asked her about one of her girlfriends (when I met her she was with 3 girlfriends at the pool. I charmed all her friends and they three loved me), and she said that her friend had a boyfriend but she didn't (hint hint). She seemed interested so I try and extract her from her group but she was the Designated driver so she couldn't leave but I grabbed her number. I kiss her cheek good night and turn around..

The whole night shifted after this
Right after talking with her, I get approached by a girl (apparently her best friend, who is a white girl solid 7) and she's like:

Girl: " You know she only likes black guys right? how do you know her?"
Me: " Oh we go way back"
Girl: " How long ago?"
Me: " Like 6 months ago, we met randomly at the pool"
Girl: laughs for some reason "You know, I was going to be mad at you, but you seem so funny I can't help but like you"
This girl begins flirting hard with me and just when things were getting heated I get cockblocked by a girl she hadn't seen in forever.

For the remainder of the hour I have cute girls flirting with me and approaching me left and right.
I felt like a one of the girls from the "what do you consider a 10 thread"

At the end of the night I have girls begging me to call them (they had shitty logistics but seemed down for other time) a lot of these girls were sober too.

I'm walking to my car and I see the HB American-Chinese girl with friends and they ask me if I can give them a lift to their car that's like half a mile from where they were. I do so and her friends begin flirting hard in the car with me and HB American-Chinese (she's riding shotgun) is grabbing my leg, touching my face, marking her territory. I propose after party at their house, and they said they had family at theirs so my place would be a better choice. I live with parents so I said I had family staying over as well, so It's a no go. When we get to the car there, HB Chinese-American is saying "you're going to call me this week right? cuz we're going on a date and you're buying me dinner" shooing away her competition. I retort "We get drinks, and only if you're lucky" her friends ask me to hook them up with one of my friends and beg me to do so. They thank me and I leave.

Observations
1) Persistence and good mindset is key to changing the out come of the night.
2) Girls are some catty bitches. They all try to steal eachother's guys.
3) HB Chinese-American was a maybe girl with my game. Her friends flirting with me and she's now all over me.
4) If I don't hit it, I'll befriend her and fuck her friends.

[mikado]

I have a problem with night game since a few months now.

Most of the time I dance well, some girls come next to me but I can't get the courage to approach them. And if I take some of them and dance, I do not know what to say to them. I just dance silently, smiling, then after 1 mn they go back to friends.

I do no longer find any excitement in talking with girls and guys, and befriending other guys in bars/clubs does not interest me.
I know I need to get over my mentality of going out solely to pick up, but it's not easy. It is REALLY my only reason to drink, and go out. If internet game worked for me ( black in an area with lot of whites, 4-6 in looks and too skinny) I would not even go out. If I wanna talk with friends I prefer doing it at our homes.
What should I do for that?

[Euphoric_Breeze]

Second date with this solid 7.5 after we grabbed coffee together last week. I had met her while I was driving on the highway . I waved at her asking for the phone number , to my great surprise ,she pulls over and gives it to me .

On this second date , we agree to go to the beach on a scorching day . While swimming I didn't hesitate to grab her arms , allegedly made her feel my hard dick on her thighs. Physical escalation was a must .

As we return ,we lay on the sands and she holds my hand without even having to ask ker .We discuss our former relationships then I decide to take it a step further .
Me: Do you watch porn ? and don't lie !
Her : Hmm ..sure I do once in a while .
Me : I love your honesty .
Her : Girls are no different , but I don't like guys who watch a lot of porn they don't perform well in bed .
Me: True .

5 mins after , we decide to leave as the heat was becoming unbearable. As soon as I hit the road I carry on my physical escalation and start touching her soft hair . She loves it and lays on my chest . Fuck I was hard again. I tell her that I gotta make a stop to smoke a cig . She agrees and reminds me that she needs to pick up her mom in 1 hour .

I pull over in a shady area , light up my cig facing the sea . I start touching her face and soft lips while gazing into her eyes . She grabs my neck and start making out quiet wildly . I dragg her hand to my hard cock , she loved it and pulled it out . She takes her body lotion ,squeeze it and starts a perfect HJ . She asked me to cum on her tits which I did later on .

She wants to see me again this week eventually for an extended fuck session .

My humble advice : Always lead and don't be scared to escalate physically.

[The Great Basilisk]

Matched with an old lay on tinder. We had ONS at a party about 2 years ago. I've improved my game and lifestyle a lot since then. Will be interesting to see how this goes. Already got her number and texted back and forth a few times. Set up tentative date when she is back in town.

[horn]

Simon, why do you think girls love cats? Because they fuck whoever and whenever they want, then go on their merry way.

[simondice]

(08-24-2014 02:05 PM)horn Wrote:  

Simon, why do you think girls love cats? Because they fuck whoever and whenever they want, then go on their merry way.

Yeah dude, they all try to steal each other's dudes shamelessly, it's scary. This is one of those truths that just doesn't stop surprising me, even though I understand it and use it often.

[horn]

Yep. Girls are all about moving up the ladder. Climb as high as they can, then jump to the next one.

Besides, if he was really interested in his old gf, he wouldn't be fucking the new chick right now! lol Hamster lol

[simondice]

(08-24-2014 07:04 PM)horn Wrote:  

Yep. Girls are all about moving up the ladder. Climb as high as they can, then jump to the next one.

Besides, if he was really interested in his old gf, he wouldn't be fucking the new chick right now! lol Hamster lol

"Oh he just wasn't on my level, so things just kinda happened with billy" hamsterrefic

[keysersoze]

Hey guys! New to everything and wanted to share my stories of my first month trying game.

First, had to get rid of the girlfriend of 2.5 years, which was messy. I didn't have a ton of confidence but hit the gym, approached, got plenty of numbers, had a few girls come over and got several make outs but resistance with anything further. Banged one girl from Tinder which got the confidence back up I suppose. I've been approaching a good amount despite campus being dead during the summer.

Anyways, I got this 8's number from a summer chemistry lab, who I had been "crushing" on (yes very beta), after I finally started reading the forums and growing some balls. She suggested we study over the weekend. So then she says fuck studying and she just wanted to hang out.. I was new to the area so she wanted to go to a coffee shop where we had tea. I thought it was all for nothing because she showed zero signs of physical interest- zero eye contact, etc. Then I started rolling with my stories of gallivanting in Chicago the previous weekend and talked about some crazy times at Bonnaroo (she's a hippy type). All the sudden she was really interested, so I rolled with this momentum and said we should go back to her house.

While we were in the car on the way there, she pulls out a bowl and some weed and wants to smoke. I used to smoke but hardly ever do anymore so I have zero tolerance. Bottom line, I was stoned. We went into her basement and turned on some movie and my game was GONE. I was so awkward, even shattered a glass. Couldn't bring myself to go for more than an awkward make out. Anyone else have similar experience with weed? I was sure I had ruined the entire mission...

The following week after class we talked for a bit, I played it cool and didn't rush a second hang out but I did grab her arm before she got into her car to leave and kissed her. Summer classes end, she's busy, and hardly texting me back. It wasn't looking good, but the following week when we were both finally free she came to the apartment I had just moved into. We had a few drinks, put on a movie (Eyes Wide Shut), and I got the notch.

She actually goes to a different school 2 hours away so it was the perfect situation for me to score and move on as the fall semester starts. So she comes over Thursday night again because I told her I'd show her a good time before she left. We pre game at my apartment, I bang her twice, then we proceed to get pretty drunk and head to my favorite bar. We're getting drinks, and I see my ex girlfriend sit down a seat over from us so I grab her and we head to the dance floor. We had a really good time but we get back to my apartment and she just starts balling her eyes out.. I was beyond confused, because we were having a blast. So she's crying and I'm trying to figure out WTF was wrong and she says that a girl at the bar grabbed her arm and said, "he talks to a lot of girls". I mean this girl was so distraught over this that I didn't get laid that night. She always seemed a bit distant but she was claiming she had feelings for me and called me an asshole. Woke all my roommates up at like 3 am. I even had to beg her to just stay the night and not drive home (she was hammered). Banged her again in the morning and she left for school.

The whole ordeal with her was just bizarre but it feels good to get a couple summer notches under my belt as the fall semester starts tomorrow. Still in the transition from LTR guy to player.. It'll be a long journey but I'm off to a decent start I suppose. Thanks for all the help and wisdom on these forums guys! Should be a great year.

[Truth Teller]

I got my fucking neck clawed tonight.

I've been drinking basically all day long, and I went out to a rush party for my frat. I walk upstairs and start talking to this (clearly) wasted blonde girl. Chubby, so like a 5/10 or a 5.5, but a 7/8 if she lost weight. Anyway, I end up in her room, and I'm fingering her. She digs her nails into my neck and draws blood. We're both drunk as fuck, so I didn't fuck her (college rape laws are a witch hunt). She tells me she's had 30+ dicks. My boner goes away. I went from fairly hard to just completely flaccid.

Still might fuck her tomorrow though.

[NovaVirtu]

At a starbucks on the strip now in boring ass Rockville MD. Just tried gaming this skanky blonde smoking outside. Wasn't having any of it, haha. Whatever ho, you look you got roofied and placed in a tanning bed.

Anywho here's a story for you all. Got a text from this one chick I used to hook up with 3 years ago. Little background- met through social circle,thin with huh-yuge titays. Was in a long distance relationship with some army dude stationed in Kansas she saw twice a year. Needless to say, she wasn't getting what she needed. We had a nice little fling, then she decides to accept a job offer out there and move in with the guy. Oh well. A month later- they're engaged.

The bf was an arrogant tool. They would visit from time to time. One night we're out in a club in Bethesda and I was dancing, purposely fist pumping like a jackass for comedic effect. Everyone finds it funny accept this chode who's standing off to the side all too-cool-for-school. At one point he even asked me "Dude, do you ever get laid?" I just smiled thinking, "well buddy, it's funny you should ask." HAHA.

Anyway 3 years later, they get divorced, she moved back to the DC burbs. Last week she hits me up and invites me over the house.

For days I'm stoked, thinking it's in the bag. I pick up a little bottle of Charles Shaw from Trader Joe's (only the finest) and head over. I knock on the door and it went something like this:



Girl had gained about FORTY-FIVE POUNDS. Puffy in face and limb with a well-defined FUPA. What the hell! She had made a nice dinner and everything so I decided to stay and hang out for a bit. She was nice and was asking if I had a girlfriend these days....I probably could have hit it but the weight gain was just too much. I've made bad calls in the past and always regretted it and at this point in my life I'd rather fuck a pastry than a fat chick, so when the evening was ended, I bid her farewell and journeyed home.

Think I accidentally ran an EZ Pass booth during that trip too. If I get a ticket I may ask her to go halves on it as compensation for shattered expectations.

[Cyr]

(08-24-2014 08:14 AM)mikado Wrote:  

I have a problem with night game since a few months now.

Most of the time I dance well, some girls come next to me but I can't get the courage to approach them. And if I take some of them and dance, I do not know what to say to them. I just dance silently, smiling, then after 1 mn they go back to friends.

I do no longer find any excitement in talking with girls and guys, and befriending other guys in bars/clubs does not interest me.
I know I need to get over my mentality of going out solely to pick up, but it's not easy. It is REALLY my only reason to drink, and go out. If internet game worked for me ( black in an area with lot of whites, 4-6 in looks and too skinny) I would not even go out. If I wanna talk with friends I prefer doing it at our homes.
What should I do for that?

About a year ago I went through a stage where I didnt really enjoy going out. I couldnt have a good time unless I at least made out with a girl. Recently I've been enjoying nightlife a lot more, (and have been pulling a lot more as well).
Here's what changed (some of it may be useful for you):

- I started going out a lot more. Not sure if its possible for you (due to work etc), but recently I have been going clubbing two or three times per week (as opposed to once every two weeks). This has made me feel more 'in tune' with nightlife and understand the vibe / frequency more- I feel more on it. Also it has resulted in a rapid improvement in my game.

- I realised that often your best memories with friends will come from going out, and the experiences can help both solidify and deepen your friendship. Understand that going to a friends house is unlikely to be very eventful and try to make your trips clubbing with friends as memorable and eventful as possible.

- Try MDMA. I have done it twice over the last few months, and I believe that the experience has resulted in me enjoying nightlife a lot more. I am much more content to just dance without pulling and am more sociable. (Both have improved my game). Obviously trying any drug is a person decision, but that is just something to keep in mind.

[DVY]

I am dating this sexy foreign Japanese girl (English student here). I hit her up to come out w/me and she decided to bring her room-mate. So picture this scene- suited up w/loud pocket square, sexy Japanese girl in a miniskirt (8-9), another sexy Japanese girl w/a dress that split down the leg side.



We roll into the restaurant and I just feel top of the world. I ordered vodka cocktails, then tequila shots + light dinner. Club afterwards. It was a unreal experience seeing how much attention hot girls get. Being a J girl, they won't ever "reject" you. Its up to me to be the bad guy. oh well. The friend would dance for 2 mins w/a guy then bounce.

I ended up trying to setup my promoter (and good friend) w/this chick but she didn't seem into it. Then at the end of the night, I saw them exchange phone #s. J girls are really wishy washy.

Thank you game. This Saturday was another reminder that I am living a life others can only dream of.

[horn]

Fwiw, I think suggesting people try illegal drugs out on the town to improve their game is horrid advice. To each their own.

But I prefer to be their 'drug of choice.'

[horn]

DVY, would bang so hard Hiroshima would explode.

[DVY]

@horn- haha the pic was of the split-leg dress, but picture a 5'3 J girl w/5 inch heels. Green eyes (contacts). Petite, but w/curves because of the skin-tight dress.

My girl is arguably hotter, but wow I love the feminine swag in wearing stuff like that.

[Cyr]

(08-25-2014 06:13 PM)horn Wrote:  

Fwiw, I think suggesting people try illegal drugs out on the town to improve their game is horrid advice. To each their own.

But I prefer to be their 'drug of choice.'

Its not really about improving his game, and I made it clear that it is of course his decision. All that I said (which I stand by), is that if you're open minded and open to the experience, trying it will- a) give you a great night (not that important) and b) teach you more about yourself , c) change your perception of nightlife and music in general.

You clearly have not read my post in any detail (which you should before insulting someone), and instead of trying to offer mikado any workable advice, you lazily reply that you "prefer to be the drug of choice" which has nothing to do with his question.

[draguer]

I hooked up with an ardent feminist sorry guys.

[Cattle Rustler]

(08-25-2014 07:02 PM)draguer Wrote:  

I hooked up with an ardent feminist sorry guys.

It's coo brah, as long as it was a hate fuck.

It was a hate fuck, right?