[thegmanifesto]

(03-25-2013 12:00 AM)scotian Wrote:  

So let this be a lesson guys, if you find yourself in a similar situation of being around guys who have the potential to cock block you, even if there is no malicious intent on their behalf, you have to neutralize those fuckers before they mess everything up and everyone goes home empty handed.

The most depressing thing about this story is that you probably help create the greatest night out for them on their entire trip.

That night is the story they will be telling their buddies about back home about how they "almost hooked up with two Latinas" and ended up talking with two cool guys about soccer.

[Dulceácido]

(03-25-2013 11:24 AM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

The most depressing thing about this story is that you probably help create the greatest night out for them on their trip.

That night is the story they will be telling their buddies about back home about how they "almost hooked up with two Latinas" and ended up talking with two guys about soccer.

"Man, I met the coolest Yanks ever!" --Euro-Dudes

Muahahahahahah!

[scotian]

(03-25-2013 09:59 AM)The Pirate Wrote:  

6 weeks ago I had a situation with two guys going to a afterparty at two girls house, and I was invited. I had already made out in the bar with one of the girls before we went there. These guys however, where wannabe-players and so hungry for vagina it was written all over the face. Here is what I did ( and I think you should have done to) I totally ignored the two guys, never said hello or invited to make conversation. As akward as I feel it is, as I am a guy who takes joy in meeting new people, I knew these guys where my competitors and they would ruin my plan if I didn`t play the situation perfectly. So I was the relaxed guy not pushing for pussy but 100% focus on the girl chatting her up...guess who got laid? I did, and they guys slept alone on the couch.

You said "The guys didn't know how to engage the girls in conversation, without being aggressive or rude, we controlled the situation, we'd ask them questions and give them a chance to talk but they were socially awkward and couldn't manage to hold a conversation" I`d say this is the crucial point where you made a mistake, even if I know you just tried to be nice. Guys without any social skills or male-antennas will take this as being accepted into the group and the way you described it, its sounds like the type of guys who couldn`t have fun alone. So now they hit jackpot hanging out with you guys who is responsible for the "entertainment" and conversation, while they can sit there and secretly dream about banging some latinas. I have met people like this who litterally brings nothing to the table, and you just have to make them feel they are totally overrun and outplayed by your presence. In this situation you are not there to make friends, you are there to get laid. If they don`t take the hint, you break it to them face to face. Say "hey man let`s go and buy a drink at the bar" Then tell one of them "hey, after this drink we are gonna go with these girls soon to out hotel...and call it a night"

I think that probably would have been the best way to neutralize those guys, while we were still at the bar. At the time, it was so obvious to us that we had these girls because we were the ones singing and dancing with them while the other guys just sat there and looked on. We definitely slipped by assuming that they would get it and fuck off but they didn't, lesson learned for sure.

[Wreckingball]

Game basics teach you to kind of start being a dick.
Be a dick to girls.
Be a dick to guys that hurt your chances of putting your dick in those girls.

you should have ditched'em faster, but a lesson learned the hard way is better for the future

[scotian]

(03-29-2013 12:38 PM)Wreckingball Wrote:  

Game basics teach you to kind of start being a dick.
Be a dick to girls.
Be a dick to guys that hurt your chances of putting your dick in those girls.

you should have ditched'em faster, but a lesson learned the hard way is better for the future

I usually try not to be a dick to someone in a social situation unless they are asking for it, saying stupid things, being obnoxious, etc. Then I have no problem being a dick but it this instance, these guys seemed pretty harmless and I just let them show the girls how shitty their game was. It was obvious pretty early that these guys were boring and socially awkward so I just let them do their thing and the girls gravitated towards us.

I think there's a fine line between being a dick with people you've just met and coming off as a rude, abrasive prick and creating antagonism within the group setting. We were all drinking and having fun (except the two guys who seemed shy and out of place), the lesson I learned here was that I should have confronted the guys before we left the bar or waited to see if they'd show up at my hotel and just tell them straight up that we're trying to bang these girls and say good night, I'm sure they would have gotten the drift.