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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 07:59 PM
The article is basically "so this is how I came to slowly justify giving up on myself."
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 08:04 PM
Quote: (03-12-2013 07:39 PM)ryanf Wrote:
http://www.xojane.com/relationships/my-h...use-im-fat
Basically, wife gets fat, learns about "fat acceptance" on the Internet. Sends articles to husband thinking he feels the same way, he returns with articles about weigh lifting (genius frame control BTW). She "accepts herself the way she is" and "doesn't feel she needs to lose the weight", and is upset at her husband because he doesn't feel the same way.
Eventually they separate, but the poor beta doesn't think he can do any better and gets back with her. The most recent picture is beyond disgusting, it's actually disturbing.
Warning: this article is full of. SO. MUCH.
And why does he prefer being with a land whale to being alone? And he married her when she was 160, 5'2". She is now 200. So he was willing to marry a fat slob; he just hand second thoughts when she reached freak show proportions. God forbid she should be expected to make any effort to remain vaguely humanoid in appearance.
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 08:21 PM
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 08:23 PM
At 5'2" and 160lbs
What? 1,57 cm and 72 kg? I know girls with 15 kg less and about the sime height and even they are fat!
"Go be fat on someone else's time."
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 08:30 PM
Why Why Why Would you get married to someone who is 160 pounds??
Girls should be an ornament to the eye, not an ache in the ear.
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 08:44 PM
The comments are predictable, but get pretty funny
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Anna_Diver> gatogold•10 hours ago−
(Author here) - a little bit of both. He was definitely a dick sometimes and even he admits this now. I left out a part where he took the whole discussion to the internet and threw me to the trolls... that was not a good day
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Anna_Diver> atheologist•9 hours ago−
Yup. I suppose you could consider this piece my revenge... mwahahhahahahah.
You all are being a LOT nicer than the folks over at Testosterone Nation, though. Imagine that...
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Wonderlust> Anna_Diver•6 hours ago−
"I left out a part where he took the whole discussion to the internet and threw me to the trolls..."
The HELL?
Any man who would be so cruel, so viscous, to subject you to the wildly fat-shaming world of Internet trolls is certainly someone who has issues far more hefty than his wife's weight.
Look, it's one thing if he discretely and privately opened up about his feelings and new-found lack of attraction for his wife on a bodybuilding forum, for example. Everyone has that right. But that he made you aware of the fact that he made your private discussion public and you were eviscerated by trolls? What was that meant to prove to you? That he was right and YOU were in the wrong?
There's some serious fucked-up-edness going on here. I sincerely hope you're both still in therapy; I wish you the best personally, but I think your husband is a raging jerk for his actions.
Yet another reason not to get married; you're apparently a pretty bad person for trolling your fat wife on message boards.
And another thing, is it just me or do people who actually write out "mwhahahaha" (evil laugh) always tend to be fat?
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 08:46 PM
Wrong thread. Woops.
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 08:48 PM
I've broken up with girls for putting on 10 lbs they didn't need.
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 09:46 PM
Not sure what's more depressing: the article or the comments that are mostly supportive of her. Seriously, women read these articles and I am sure subconsciously they think it's okay to get fat.
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-12-2013, 10:04 PM
The "Healthy At Every Size" thing makes me sad. I did a quick search to see what 5ft2 and 160lbs looks like and found one where a girl compared pics of herself at 190lbs and 160lbs and the top comment was, "Weight loss is a FUTILE goal. The success rate is less than 1% LONG TERM."
What happened to the people in Pixar's Wally is depressingly accurate.
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Fat wife surprised that husband is upset that she got fat
03-13-2013, 03:20 AM
I can't feel sorry for the guy. He married his high school sweetheart who was already overweight. He couldn't prevent her from gaining more weight so he's not able to stand up to her and he's a too much of a pussy to break up with her and find a better match.
He got what he deserved and should be happy with it.
PS - I didn't read the article word for word since it was awfully painful to read so I don't know if they have kids. I can't really judge a man who want to stay around and raise his own kids. Society is best of with people being raised by two parents. Not two parents who hate each others guts and ruin the child this way.
I would still break up and try to raise the kids in a good way but then again here in Holland the divorcing rules aren't as fucked as in the US.
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