Recently I've been thinking about the whole concept of game, and I think I've hit on something.
Most game methods approach dealing with women in a results-oriented way. The objective is usually along the lines of "more sex with higher quality women" and changing your behaviour (becoming more "alpha", say) in order to achieve this. However game also espouses concepts such as "abundance mentality" - how can we reconcile having an abundance mentality with changing behaviour in order to maximise results?
I think that instead we could see dating as non-results oriented, but oriented towards principles of honesty and doing what you want, incorporating dating into an honest lifestyle where you're straight with everyone. Being honest with women and seeing which women appreciate that - the ones that do are going to be awesome to be around and deal with. Sure we might get rejected more but that was part of the game anyway and I'd personally be willing to take more rejection if it meant finding women that I really connected with and didnt have to expend a lot of effort being 'alpha' around. Abundance gives you the freedom to deal with women on your own terms once the orientation towards results has been let go of.
Thoughts?
Note to Roosh/mods: I'm not being a game denialist here, I accept that a majority of women will share preferences with regards to behaviour. I wanted to say that because I wouldn't want to be misinterpreted and then banned as a result.
Most game methods approach dealing with women in a results-oriented way. The objective is usually along the lines of "more sex with higher quality women" and changing your behaviour (becoming more "alpha", say) in order to achieve this. However game also espouses concepts such as "abundance mentality" - how can we reconcile having an abundance mentality with changing behaviour in order to maximise results?
I think that instead we could see dating as non-results oriented, but oriented towards principles of honesty and doing what you want, incorporating dating into an honest lifestyle where you're straight with everyone. Being honest with women and seeing which women appreciate that - the ones that do are going to be awesome to be around and deal with. Sure we might get rejected more but that was part of the game anyway and I'd personally be willing to take more rejection if it meant finding women that I really connected with and didnt have to expend a lot of effort being 'alpha' around. Abundance gives you the freedom to deal with women on your own terms once the orientation towards results has been let go of.
Thoughts?
Note to Roosh/mods: I'm not being a game denialist here, I accept that a majority of women will share preferences with regards to behaviour. I wanted to say that because I wouldn't want to be misinterpreted and then banned as a result.