Quote: (01-01-2013 11:55 PM)slacker Wrote:
If you could help me by writing a how to escalate for dummies or say what you do.
IMHO, the point of escalation is to make it clear to a woman that you are interested in her sexually rather than just being friendly.
Each of these moves will work in some situations and not in other situations so you must calibrate to the environment, the girl, your mood, etc...
Here are some moves that have worked in the past for me.
1. Put your arm around her.
2. Go in for a kiss out of the blue.
3. Tell her something about her that you find sexy.
4. Move close to her as you are talking to her.
5. Invite her back to your place out of the blue. (She will always say no but this can inject life into a dying conversation.)
6. Look at her intensely as you have a normal conversation.
That's all that I can think of off the top of my head but I'm sure there are countless ways you can escalate. The point is to take a risk and show her that you are a man who wants her.