[Lex S.]

Late last night I get a text from the hottest girl I've ever been with (8.5). She lives in another city, and said she was getting an itch to visit my city and straight up asked if I would be around at the end of the month because she wanted to watch movies, eat donuts, and drink a specific kind of beer. The significance of this? The first time we did the exact same thing we ended up fucking.

I ended up falling asleep mid-conversation, so this morning I answered her last message. She responds, and then goes "Ugh, I was so drunk last night". I ended up teasing her a bit about being drunk on a national holiday, and she said she needs an intervention (HOPEFULLY joking, of course). I kind of left it at that because I had no clue if she meant what she said last night about coming to my place and "watching movies". Should I ask her about it? Let it go and see if she brings it up again? Or maybe do some reverse psychology and act like I don't want her visiting?

[Avarence]

Overanalysis.

I doubt she was that actually drunk. Probably barely tipsy and not trying to come off as sloppy. Funny considering she's already banged you though. Either way, if she doesn't live in the same city and isn't around there often, you should probably be spending your time working on more local girls rather than analyzing this one. I can see why you're naturally interested if she's been your hottest lay - but you've already gotten the notch from her. I don't think it'll be that hard to bang her again when she comes to town. Just be the same smug bastard you were the first time around and her slutty feelings will return.

[Lex S.]

(07-05-2013 11:10 AM)IQVX Wrote:  

Overanalysis.

I doubt she was that actually drunk. Probably barely tipsy and not trying to come off as sloppy. Funny considering she's already banged you though. Either way, if she doesn't live in the same city and isn't around there often, you should probably be spending your time working on more local girls rather than analyzing this one. I can see why you're naturally interested if she's been your hottest lay - but you've already gotten the notch from her. I don't think it'll be that hard to bang her again when she comes to town. Just be the same smug bastard you were the first time around and her slutty feelings will return.

It's funny you mention the overanalyzing part. I just talked to a guy who's trying to bang a 10 and keeps overanalyzing every little thing she does, even though she's showing clear interest in him (Contacting him a lot, letting him do Kino, etc.). If these girls were 6's we'd have no fucking problem running game, being vulgar and sexual, etc. But once they're out of our league we think everything they say or do has some double meaning because, in our low-confidence minds, there's NO WAY chicks as hot as this should like us!

I'm actually sort of seeing a girl at the moment and not actively gaming. But when a hot girl says she wants to drink and watch movies at my place I can't resist - It's great having options! There have been IOI's all along - I haven't seen the 8.5 in months, but she'll still answer my texts immediately and she initiates contact about as much I as initiate her. I've always said that alcohol doesn't make you do/say things you never would, it's actually like a truth serum that makes you do/say what you actually want to do, but shield off from others (i.e. why people find it easier to tell others off while drunk). If she was indeed drunk, or even completely smashed, the idea of meeting up and "watching movies" didn't just pop into her head, it had to be there all along. The alcohol just made it easier for her to spit it out.

[WestIndianArchie]

What's the real problem here?

That you don't want to risk going out there and not getting sex?
Or she won't make the trip to you?

WIA

[Lex S.]

(07-05-2013 11:35 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

What's the real problem here?

That you don't want to risk going out there and not getting sex?
Or she won't make the trip to you?

WIA

The worry is about whether or not she was sincere, and whether or not I should ask/cajole her into coming or let her make all the moves and plans.

[WestIndianArchie]

(07-05-2013 11:42 AM)Lex S. Wrote:  

(07-05-2013 11:35 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

What's the real problem here?

That you don't want to risk going out there and not getting sex?
Or she won't make the trip to you?

WIA

The worry is about whether or not she was sincere, and whether or not I should ask/cajole her into coming or let her make all the moves and plans.

She was drunk, so it could go either way. (her deep feelings or her feelings in the moment)
Let your intentions be known and have her conform to them.

When chicks are far away, it's much more difficult to pin them down to anything or get them to comply. So you shouldn't really give this too much mental energy, and focus your powers on local chicks.

WIA

[Lex S.]

(07-05-2013 12:47 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

(07-05-2013 11:42 AM)Lex S. Wrote:  

(07-05-2013 11:35 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

What's the real problem here?

That you don't want to risk going out there and not getting sex?
Or she won't make the trip to you?

WIA

The worry is about whether or not she was sincere, and whether or not I should ask/cajole her into coming or let her make all the moves and plans.

She was drunk, so it could go either way. (her deep feelings or her feelings in the moment)
Let your intentions be known and have her conform to them.

When chicks are far away, it's much more difficult to pin them down to anything or get them to comply. So you shouldn't really give this too much mental energy, and focus your powers on local chicks.

WIA

Yeah, it's harder to arrange a movie night with a girl who's 6 hours away than a girl who's the next neighborhood over. But she loves my city and tries to come as much as possible (Usually on breaks from school, that's when I met her the first time), so she's going to be back eventually. I'm going to be traveling this weekend so I'll wait a few days and get back to her when things settle down.