Quote: (09-03-2015 06:08 AM)Teutatis Wrote:
While I think you do have a point I actually don't mind resurrected threads, I can't count how many times someone digs out some old dead thread that I would never have found otherwise and it has something I was glad to read.
Yeah, ElMech's original post was great to read, and helps me connect the dots with my own experience. He'd reached the realisation in Aug 2012 that I hit in September 2015 in
this post: once you reach a certain age and a deep level of emotional state control, a regular girlfriend is just going to subtract value from your life.
Roosh speaks of the same fatigue a couple of responses later:
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It's a matter of tolerance and that comes from having ten lifetimes of experience chasing women in one. I suspect that men are made to deal with a certain limit of female energy and when he goes over, he just gets tired of them. Some men can handle a lot more than others but he will hit the limit eventually and his interactions with women will actually DECREASE his horniness.
Since three very sexually-experienced men on the forum share similar observations, (as well as a few offline conversations with mates), I can see a pattern is forming. I'm relieved it's not just me.
Oddly enough, I went to Hamburg to live with an old mate to escape drama, only to have to come back to Australia with him to help with his brother's illness and, sadly, death. That's cool, I understand by now you can always expect disruption to your plans, and it'll only put me out for a short amount of time.
The difference is: I am happy to do that for him and delay my personal desires for six weeks, because it's a
genuine life trauma, not the
deliberately self-inflicted drama a woman creates for herself to make her life seem more interesting than it is. El Mech can see that drama for what it is in his original post.
So, yeah, in my opinion: good bumping.