I've met a lot of great girls the past year that passed the boner test with flying colors, and I could tell that they were good, decent people who had the misfortune of being raised in an androgynous environment.
This one girl I am currently seeing (#1 in rotation) is a sweet girl(HB7.5), she can cook and clean, keeps her body in shape, sex is good etc. but she was raised pretty much solely by her dad since she was 12, and it definitely had an impact on her. While not being outwardly masculine, she has weird masculine hobbies, such as actually knowing about sports and their rosters, hardcore video games aka beyond just WiiFit, and an interest in guns and weapons to name a few. Her dad was also super into wanting her to join and succeed in a competitive sport, and she has apparently done over 10 different ones over the course of her life (including two(!) different martial arts, which she is a black belt in one and a green in another), and hating them all because she doesn't consider herself a competitive person. She isn't "take me as I am or leave it" or challenging about these hobbies per se, in fact she tried to hide them from me for a while until I found out, which was actually pretty cute, but another issue is that she has problems having more than a couple girl friends at one time, and claims they are too much drama which I know is a masculine red flag. I also feel like her feminine behavior is a little inconsistent, like she'll clean my house and cook dinner+leftovers for me one day, and then next week she won't make any attempts to cook or anything without mention from her. I'll say things like "How about you cook up a couple of steaks I've got in the freezer?" and she'll just laugh it off noncommittally or try to initiate sex to make me forget about my hunger. It's these little things that worry me about considering her for LTR material.
Also she wears shorts/heels a lot (which is hot don't get me wrong, girl has legs for miles), but I've only seen her in a skirt or dress a handful of times, which is another thing that bothers me.
But I digress. My question is what is the best way to manipulate and encourage a girl to be as feminine as she can possibly be beyond just rewarding good behavior with attention and/or sex? She's young, only 19 so I think I still have a chance to mold her before the clay hardens. I took her v-card, so I think she'd be open to my suggestions, but I'm not quite sure how to subtly go around doing it.
Any tips on how you've improved a girl for the better in regards to being feminine? All are welcome. We should all be taking steps to make all girls we meet, not just the ones we bang, a little more feminine than before they met us, because even if it's in the slightest way possible, we've made them better for the next guy, be he alpha or beta.
This one girl I am currently seeing (#1 in rotation) is a sweet girl(HB7.5), she can cook and clean, keeps her body in shape, sex is good etc. but she was raised pretty much solely by her dad since she was 12, and it definitely had an impact on her. While not being outwardly masculine, she has weird masculine hobbies, such as actually knowing about sports and their rosters, hardcore video games aka beyond just WiiFit, and an interest in guns and weapons to name a few. Her dad was also super into wanting her to join and succeed in a competitive sport, and she has apparently done over 10 different ones over the course of her life (including two(!) different martial arts, which she is a black belt in one and a green in another), and hating them all because she doesn't consider herself a competitive person. She isn't "take me as I am or leave it" or challenging about these hobbies per se, in fact she tried to hide them from me for a while until I found out, which was actually pretty cute, but another issue is that she has problems having more than a couple girl friends at one time, and claims they are too much drama which I know is a masculine red flag. I also feel like her feminine behavior is a little inconsistent, like she'll clean my house and cook dinner+leftovers for me one day, and then next week she won't make any attempts to cook or anything without mention from her. I'll say things like "How about you cook up a couple of steaks I've got in the freezer?" and she'll just laugh it off noncommittally or try to initiate sex to make me forget about my hunger. It's these little things that worry me about considering her for LTR material.
Also she wears shorts/heels a lot (which is hot don't get me wrong, girl has legs for miles), but I've only seen her in a skirt or dress a handful of times, which is another thing that bothers me.
But I digress. My question is what is the best way to manipulate and encourage a girl to be as feminine as she can possibly be beyond just rewarding good behavior with attention and/or sex? She's young, only 19 so I think I still have a chance to mold her before the clay hardens. I took her v-card, so I think she'd be open to my suggestions, but I'm not quite sure how to subtly go around doing it.
Any tips on how you've improved a girl for the better in regards to being feminine? All are welcome. We should all be taking steps to make all girls we meet, not just the ones we bang, a little more feminine than before they met us, because even if it's in the slightest way possible, we've made them better for the next guy, be he alpha or beta.