I'll just start out by saying I am completely and utterly blown away by this city.
There's a lot of data sheets and great info on NYC already so I thought I'd focus this more on relating my experiences following a 10 night stay in the East Village to help out people who are thinking of visiting. There are plenty of RVFers who can give you great advice on where to go and what to do on any given night. A special thanks to Caligula, cellblock4 and ugslayer for tips on what to do and where to go, and a very special thanks to Shamrock for his invaluable information in real-time and being a very cool guy too, met up a few times and had some drinks (let me know when you bang that cute waitress that got us the Jamey shots). Oh and just so you know where I'm coming from – I'm 31, 5'11, look white and in my mid-20s.
To summarize NYC in one word…unbelievable.
Lodging: I rented a studio off of airbnb for $100/night. Decent sized place, great location in East Village (highly recommend to stay there). You can negotiate with the people off of airbnb too, that's what I did to get that rate. Just make sure it has AC in summer and heat in winter, and if you need wifi (I did for work). Another tip that worked out well for me by accident – if the place has a fire escape I used it every single time to get a girl back to my place, prefacing it by saying let's grab a drink and sit on my fire escape and drink it, very relaxing. Or a smoke. Whatever, just an excuse to get them back.
Also, I told girls that I was "testing out a potential move to NYC". I think that helped with them not thinking I'm there to just fuck them, though some probably didn't care to be honest. But it falls in line with the renting an apartment. The funny thing is now I'm actually considering moving out there.
Gym: NYSC has a trial membership of $30 for 30 days. Sign up online, choose a club and go. Very easy and affordable. I suggest the one in Soho off of Broadway and Spring for a few reasons. First, the street it is on is one of the best for daygame I've ever seen – tons of girls shopping. Second, the girls at the club itself are pretty damn hot, especially the ones in the classes. It's not an Equinox or any fancy gym, but it'll do fine.
Food: Caracas on 7th and 1st Ave has great Venezuelan food. Mamoun's on St. Marks between 2nd and 3rd aves has awesome falafel and schwarma sandwiches for cheap – use the hot sauce but sparingly it's pretty damn hot. Joe's shanghai in Chinatown – get the dumplings. Ruby's in Nolita – get the bronte burger seriously don't order anything else. Grocery shopping there is the Whole Foods on Houston between 2nd ave and Bowery, huge place and lots of hot girls for grocery gaming if that's your thing. One solid tip – Next to whole foods on Bowery and Houston is Bowery Wine and Spirits. They have this one sauvignon blanc for 11.99 that is awesome, called 90+ wine cellars. Used it to get girls back and they all loved it, ended up buying several bottles during my stay.
Girls: Awesome and endless. I mentioned this in the other thread – there are girls EVERYWHERE. You walk outside your apartment, girls. Subway, girls. Park, girls. Whole Foods, girls. Brunch, girls. Bars, girls. Streets, girls. It doesn't stop. You can sit on a street corner and hit on girls walking by. And not just average girls, but very attractive ones too. Coming from LA, I was a bit shocked. I don't necessarily think there is a higher percentage of hotter girls in NYC, but the sheer quantity of people in such a concentrated place amplifies the numbers – which is preferable anyway. My first day walking around Soho I started laughing at the number of model type girls walking around.
They are also very friendly, which was surprising. More than willing to talk, more than willing to invite me over to their group of friends or assimilate me after knowing me for about 2 minutes. Mix that in with the aura of independence they all want to have (aka sex and the city), and the logistical heaven this city is, and you are in serious ease of banging multiple girls. Also, they are very "seasoned" I guess is what I would say and the princess aspect is very minimal. They take subways, they deal with snow and rain, they have to get around a big city, they walk up 6 floors in heels to get to apartments without elevators, etc. These are not LA bitches that live at home and are pampered to the point they think walking half a block is an absurdity. And get ready for this, the cockblock rates are outrageously minimized. I was shocked – see stories below. My friend told me it's because unlike other cities like LA, girls here all meet up from different places and leave alone too, and since it's so easy to just jump in a cab they tend to break apart easier.
Another aspect – there are tons of foreign chicks in the city. Many many tourists, they like to go out. Met French girls, german girls, Serbian girls, uzbeki girls, and so on. You can go flag hunting here with ease. And as a related advantage, there are girls of every type here so no matter your preference you will find them. This includes both race, body type and scene.
Finally, you can pipeline the shit out of the City. I had more dates lined up than I had time and unlike LA/OC where it would take tons of effort to get them out, girls here (1) reply more often, (2) are quicker to go out, and (3) it was almost comical how many girls on okcupid when responding to the questionnaire on how often they drink, said "very often". Girls in NY let loose my friends.
As to style, I found my usual approach of cocky/funny and playful banter worked really well. When I asked girls about NY guys, they ALL said the same thing basically, that they thought they were gods and insanely cocky. So NOT flaunting yourself or trying to brag comes across as genuine.
Daygame: Whole Foods, any park, Broadway in Soho, anyplace in Nolita and I'm sure endless others. I'm not a daygamer much because I'm usually hungover or working. There was a coffee shop by my apartment called the Bean on 2nd Ave/3rd Street that had a bunch of seats and many good looking girls. Worked there one day, free wifi.
Nightlife: Really can go anywhere. Other locals probably have more info than me, but to quickly run it down…
-Le Souk on Mondays, hard door to get into, going off on a Monday night. I got rejected at first rolling solo (wanted $250/bottle or $80 bar tab and I didn't want to do neither), but got in later with a random old rabbi (see bang story below). Odd crowd of middle eastern, black and Mexican people with lots of money. Lots of bottle service going on, didn't approach because came with a girl. Went to Wicked Willy's – college bar, lots of drunk girls, approached about 5 of them nothing doing. Bitter End – live music, led to one of the crazier nights I had but also not a place to approach, I got very lucky.
-13th and Step – good almost every damn night. Have drink specials so draws in the college crowd.
-Mercury Bar in Murray Hill – gets packed late, lots of girls, dancefloor.
-Wilfie and Nell in West Village – actually lots of talent there, but it ebbs and flows. Gets very packed, girls are approachable. Went there on a Thursday eve. If you can somehow get a table (open seating), then can draw in girls to sit with you and keep chatting. Crowd starts early happy hourish and goes till 11 or so.
-Standard Biergarten – talked about a lot in other threads, tons of girls. Lots of hot girls, its almost like a meat market feel. Have good game, people are there to get hit on so it's like a revolving door of girls getting hit on. Good spots to post up are right at the entrance where people smoke and the left side of the bar that serves hard alcohol.
Date spots:
Depends on price range, but some places I enjoyed were Mayahuel (thanks Shamrock) and Winebar. Mayahuel the guy makes strong drinks, sit at the bar to allow for Kino. Winebar if you are having more than one glass each just get a bottle – I suggest the German red they have, or the New Zealand sauvignon blanc, both under 50 bucks. Girls love wine, good service. Really just choose any place close to your pad for closing purposes.
My experience: Like I mentioned, people can give way more info than I can on spots. But I just went to NYC on a whim and really didn't know what to expect. So hopefully this can give you guys more of a look at what a trip may be like. Or maybe I just had an atypical trip, but from all the people that live there…no, this was typical.
THURSDAY – get into town, meet up with some old friends. Hit Wilfie and Nell after dinner, start drinking a lot. Ended up talking to the second girl I approached for 2-3 hours, tried to get her to bounce but I can't remember what happened other than I got her #. Been texting back and forth the whole time I was there, but she was out of town basically the whole time. Or lying (who cares). Very prissy and seemed money oriented. Banging body though. Interesting thing I noted – overheard a girl tell her female friend that she was going to go home with this guy cause she found him hot…friend's response: "ok cool". Zero cockblocking.
FRIDAY – have a few drinks in East Village then take off to meet up an OKC girl at a bar in Chelsea. She's already drunk which you will find is not a surprise for girls here. She is ok, a 6, all her friends are cuter but she's a sure thing. Start making out at the bar, tell her let's get a drink at the winebar by my place and she agrees. Her friends DO NOT COCKBLOCK. When she says she's going with me they go "ok" and just continue their conversations. Unreal. I convince her to come to my place instead for wine and she agrees, get some topless time but no bang. She promises next time.
SATURDAY – meet up with this girl I almost closed the deal with in Vegas, some Aussie that happened to be in Vegas when I was there last month. Long story short, she again stopped short of banging and then she left. It being only 1am, I went out again to 13th Step. Met a girl outside smoking, she ran out of cigs and I said me too let's go buy some. So she called over her sister and her friend and all 3 of us went to get cigs then bounced to another bar down the street. Originally was trying for the girl I approached since she seemed sluttiest, then found out she has a boyfriend so concentrated on her sister who was cuter. 22yo, blonde, super thin body. Tried to convince her to stay back but her other friend was staying with them so she had to bounce. Got # and she said we'll have fun next time.
SUNDAY – OKC date, met at some rooftop hotel uptown. Had a drink there, went to the winebar by my place and got a bottle of wine. Convinced her to come back to my place for wine/smoke on fire escape. We ended up getting hammered – had another bottle of wine at my place then another bottle of champagne. Again, stopped short of closing. She had to miss work the next day, which was kind of funny given how hard we went. Never got to meeting her up again unfortunately but had a lot of fun getting hammered with a random girl.
MONDAY – my craziest and best night. This is long so bear with me… I had setup an internet date. Girl shows up, kind of ugly but thin and Ukrainian, so I was intrigued. Not that great conversation, overall a rather lackluster date. About an hour into it she said she had to go and I had no objection – it happens. I texted a bunch of guys and one girl I didn't care that much about to see if anyone wanted to grab a drink. Friday girl texted back "sure". So I told her to meet me at the wine bar by my apartment. She showed up an hour later and we had a glass of wine as she babbled about something. This time she was all for it, went back to my place, she didn't even want another drink. Bang. She had work the next morning so she left around midnight, and I walked down with her to get a falafel wearing a t-shirt and shorts. As I'm walking to the falafel shack, I see a bunch of girls out and dressed up. Stop. I make an abrupt turn head back to change and head out again for the night.
Headed to Le Souk for Mondays as it tends to go off. I show up around 1 a.m., and they want $250 for me to get in as a single guy. Obviously not paying that amount, I walk around to some other bars in the area. Meet some cute redhead smoking a cigarette, engage in some light talks with her and had a window to invite her to go have a drink with me but hesitated and she jumped in a cab. Damnit. Everytime I hesitate I regret it later. Walk into a college bar and start chatting up some girls, nothing takes. Honeybadger style, gotta keep going. Did talk to a very pretty Serbian chick. After about hitting on 5 girls and not getting anywhere I feel I should try somewhere else. I go outside and next door I see three girls standing around smoking a cigarette. So I approach them and ask them for a light. Start talking to them and they are all speaking German. One is from Frankfurt, blonde, 5'10, quite attractive. Other is Swiss, pretty cute and the other is Turkish/Swiss nothing to write home about. Smoke and chat, the German is overtly friendly with me and they invite me to come inside and watch live music with them. Obviously I say yes and we go in. Turns out the Swiss chicks are friends visiting the US, and the German girl they just met tonight who is here with her dad. Dad is an American living in Long Island and her she lives with her mom in Germany. Speaks English pretty decently though and she is way into me right from the beginning. So I buy her and her dad some beers, sit and watch live music genuinely having a great time. However, she is there with her DAD who doubles as an NFL lineman…I decide this has a 1% chance of working so I turn my attention to the cute Swiss chick. But they eventually leave having a flight to Vegas the next day. German girl asks if I want to stay with them and I say sure, what else do I have to do. We keep drinking and go outside from time to time have a cigarette.
Live music ends about 3:30 a.m. and she asks for my facebook since she doesn't have a phone and wants me to come to the beach with her tomorrow. But she's going with her family, so again what's the point. I write my email for her and as we are leaving there is a Rabbi standing by the door, old and overweight. He asks if we want to keep on going and we all say sure so he says follow me. Obviously I did not think much of it considering this old Jewish man was walking us around the streets of Manhattan in the middle of the night. We head back to Le Souk, the place that wanted $250 for me to come in. Before we even reach 10 feet from the velvet rope the bouncer removes the rope and the Rabbi walks in like a goddamn mafia king. We all walk in no IDs no cover straight into the place. That's some power right there. We go in, place is going off like a Vegas club. It has a few levels, so we go upstairs to the dance floor and German girl and I get some beers. Her dad is lagging behind.
Then she asks if I want to kiss a German girl. I say "Yes." And we start going at it right by the bar/dance floor. Meanwhile, I have one eye open to see if her dad is around as he is 250lbs and would pummel me if he made an attempt to. Don't see him, keep going at it. We take a break, and see her dad on the other side of the bar…50% chance he saw us. Damn. She goes to talk to him and comes back, all upset. Mentions to me how her dad keeps saying every guy that talks to you wants to get in your pants (true actually) and how she can never have any fun.
Whatever, we keep going at it and move to a couch where she climbs on top of me and starts grinding me, I have my hands in her shirt playing tittie badminton and trying to finger her but her jeans were too tight. Take a break, goes to check on her dad who's now downstairs, comes back upstairs. I keep trying to find the damn bathroom so I can try to bone her in there since I know there's no chance she'd leave her dad. Can't find the bathroom. I come with her to talk to her dad and I just don't say anything, they chat, we go back upstairs. Some more messing around, it's now 4:30 a.m. and we go downstairs and dad is already outside. She is very upset, says again can never have any fun since her dad is always around and she's young and vacation, etc. Obviously I agree and amplify her thoughts, say she's on the last few days of vacation, needs to be selfish, dad knows how to get home say you will meet him in awhile and we can hang out some more. Seed planted.
We go outside, Dad is fuming for various reasons - he is drunk, he wants to go home and there's a guy lurking and waiting to bang his daughter (yours truly). They talk more, she goes I'll come home stop being mad and he goes look if you want to stay go ahead. This whole time, I was the clone of a man taken in by Medusa's stare and turned to stone…imagine how silent and stiff stone is, that was me. No eye contact. No participation in the conversation. Just stand and remain still. Finally, dad turns to me and says "Do you know how to have her get back to Long Island tomorrow?" I respond "Yes I'm from there." He says "Good, I'm going home." Turns his back, gets in a cab, and is gone. The 1% chance just happened…I won the bang lottery.
Tell her let's go drink at my place, jump in a cab and go to my place. Climb out on the fire escape, have a few beers and cigarettes and she tells me about her pet bird named Burbee or something like that, how she feels bad for her family, how she's young and wants to have fun despite all her friends getting married, etc.
Go back inside, start going at it and right before sex she goes "wait…you will be the first American I fuck." I said "good, you are the first German I will fuck." Bang. Next morning, woke up took her to Penn station and showed her how to get on the LIRR back to Long Island as she thanked me for not leaving a clueless German girl in the city. 2 girls, one night.
TUESDAY – set a date with the 22yo blonde from Saturday. I'm an idiot and keep the date going too long, and when I made the move we go at it but she says she has to wake up early and doesn't want to be a cocktease. I kick myself for waiting so long. Tried to head out again but was so tired came back and passed out.
WEDNESDAY – Had nothing planned so setup another OKC date in the morning. Girl shows up, meet at wine bar and she is better looking than pictures, tall skinny blond, average face. Have a few glasses, same script back to my place for wine on the fire escape. She makes the first move and starts making out with me, get into the bed rubbing the right areas and she stops short again. Same excuse with all these girls by the way for stopping short, that it was the first night/just met me. Never got to meet up with her again given time constraints.
THURSDAY – Went to an apartment party with tons of dudes. Eventually leave and go to Murray Hill to Mercury Bar. Meet an ok girl, kinda of thick but fun personality. Again smoking a cigarette is where the approach took place. She's with a friend, we hang out and when we leave the friend just makes a bee line down the corner and says goodnight, so I'm left with my girl. Again, NO COCKBLOCK. We go to a bar by my place, she pays for the drinks, back to my place for drink/smoke on the fire escape. Again go at it and stopped short, same shit she just met me, etc.
FRIDAY – Had family dinner in Long Island and on way back 22yo blonde texted me to meet up. I said sure, she told me the address of an apartment party she was at. On my way there, she texts me unsolicited "we should just fuck". Awesome, never happened to me before I actually fucked a girl - I don't respond. Get there, she is drunk and with a couple from work. Keeps hinting to get out of there so I said sure let's go to a bar by me. On way there she is complaining about having to carry her coat so I offer to have her drop it off at my place before we go. We go in, she sits down and we immediately go at it. Bang her 4x over that night and next morning. Love her body, thin and showing ribcage gets me going.
SATURDAY – Suit up and meet up some forum guys at Standard Biergarten. Do a bunch of approaches, have this decent Uzbeki girl into me but she drove from Brooklyn and cut herself off from drinking to drive back. Useless, so I eventually bail on her, talk up some more girls who are all generally receptive but really nothing biting hard. 22yo keeps calling texting me but I'm holding out for another +1. Leave the biergarten and go back to East Village. Jump out of cab with a friend, and two girls are walking by and comment on my suit. Tell them to come with us to bar and they agree. Go in there, get some drinks but neither is as hot as the 22yo so I eventually give in and tell the 22yo where I am. She comes by, get a drink and then go back to my place for round 2 with her. Leaves in the morning and thus ends my NYC trip.
RVFers: Got a chance to meet up with some guys, all very cool. Shamrock was indispensible and really has his shit together, thanks again man. Lothario – man you are a machine I'm impressed with your lack of fear and daygaming abilities. Glad we were able to work a bit at night, you know what you are doing. Parlay – didn't really get a chance to talk much which sucks... hopefully next time I'm out there as I got distracted at the Standard. Swfter2456 – glad you came out with us that night and hopefully that helped you a bit with your night game, you've got some work ahead of you but keep going at it and you will push through.
Conclusion : I'm not one for puffery and over-exaggerating events, bangs or trips, check out my other data sheets. There are negatives - first it is fucking expensive as shit to live in the city. I was also dropping money on dates and going out, about 100/night on average. The weather is tough - it was hot as hell some days and humid, sweating your balls off. Random thunderstorms. It's a dirty city with bums, trash and the apartments are small and old.
But I was there 10 nights and absent the first night, had a girl in my bed all other 9 nights. Banged 3 of them, including 2 in one night. Outside Vegas, I've never had such success anywhere. And 2 of the 3 I boned were higher quality (I'd say 7.5 and 8), again atypical for such a short stint. If I had more time there, I would have banged the other ones as this is a very 2nd date type society. Also, I tried to rush things and get date 2s quicker than normal which is never a good thing, but I only had 10 nights. There are so many girls that meeting them and dating them one would have a harem within a month. I'm not kidding. And I've corroborated this with others I know living there. So…many…girls. With little game you'd be banging a new girl every month. Moderate game, probably 5-6 and tight game you'd have AIDS in 6 months. NYC is anything but a goddamn cockfest.
There's a lot of data sheets and great info on NYC already so I thought I'd focus this more on relating my experiences following a 10 night stay in the East Village to help out people who are thinking of visiting. There are plenty of RVFers who can give you great advice on where to go and what to do on any given night. A special thanks to Caligula, cellblock4 and ugslayer for tips on what to do and where to go, and a very special thanks to Shamrock for his invaluable information in real-time and being a very cool guy too, met up a few times and had some drinks (let me know when you bang that cute waitress that got us the Jamey shots). Oh and just so you know where I'm coming from – I'm 31, 5'11, look white and in my mid-20s.
To summarize NYC in one word…unbelievable.
Lodging: I rented a studio off of airbnb for $100/night. Decent sized place, great location in East Village (highly recommend to stay there). You can negotiate with the people off of airbnb too, that's what I did to get that rate. Just make sure it has AC in summer and heat in winter, and if you need wifi (I did for work). Another tip that worked out well for me by accident – if the place has a fire escape I used it every single time to get a girl back to my place, prefacing it by saying let's grab a drink and sit on my fire escape and drink it, very relaxing. Or a smoke. Whatever, just an excuse to get them back.
Also, I told girls that I was "testing out a potential move to NYC". I think that helped with them not thinking I'm there to just fuck them, though some probably didn't care to be honest. But it falls in line with the renting an apartment. The funny thing is now I'm actually considering moving out there.
Gym: NYSC has a trial membership of $30 for 30 days. Sign up online, choose a club and go. Very easy and affordable. I suggest the one in Soho off of Broadway and Spring for a few reasons. First, the street it is on is one of the best for daygame I've ever seen – tons of girls shopping. Second, the girls at the club itself are pretty damn hot, especially the ones in the classes. It's not an Equinox or any fancy gym, but it'll do fine.
Food: Caracas on 7th and 1st Ave has great Venezuelan food. Mamoun's on St. Marks between 2nd and 3rd aves has awesome falafel and schwarma sandwiches for cheap – use the hot sauce but sparingly it's pretty damn hot. Joe's shanghai in Chinatown – get the dumplings. Ruby's in Nolita – get the bronte burger seriously don't order anything else. Grocery shopping there is the Whole Foods on Houston between 2nd ave and Bowery, huge place and lots of hot girls for grocery gaming if that's your thing. One solid tip – Next to whole foods on Bowery and Houston is Bowery Wine and Spirits. They have this one sauvignon blanc for 11.99 that is awesome, called 90+ wine cellars. Used it to get girls back and they all loved it, ended up buying several bottles during my stay.
Girls: Awesome and endless. I mentioned this in the other thread – there are girls EVERYWHERE. You walk outside your apartment, girls. Subway, girls. Park, girls. Whole Foods, girls. Brunch, girls. Bars, girls. Streets, girls. It doesn't stop. You can sit on a street corner and hit on girls walking by. And not just average girls, but very attractive ones too. Coming from LA, I was a bit shocked. I don't necessarily think there is a higher percentage of hotter girls in NYC, but the sheer quantity of people in such a concentrated place amplifies the numbers – which is preferable anyway. My first day walking around Soho I started laughing at the number of model type girls walking around.
They are also very friendly, which was surprising. More than willing to talk, more than willing to invite me over to their group of friends or assimilate me after knowing me for about 2 minutes. Mix that in with the aura of independence they all want to have (aka sex and the city), and the logistical heaven this city is, and you are in serious ease of banging multiple girls. Also, they are very "seasoned" I guess is what I would say and the princess aspect is very minimal. They take subways, they deal with snow and rain, they have to get around a big city, they walk up 6 floors in heels to get to apartments without elevators, etc. These are not LA bitches that live at home and are pampered to the point they think walking half a block is an absurdity. And get ready for this, the cockblock rates are outrageously minimized. I was shocked – see stories below. My friend told me it's because unlike other cities like LA, girls here all meet up from different places and leave alone too, and since it's so easy to just jump in a cab they tend to break apart easier.
Another aspect – there are tons of foreign chicks in the city. Many many tourists, they like to go out. Met French girls, german girls, Serbian girls, uzbeki girls, and so on. You can go flag hunting here with ease. And as a related advantage, there are girls of every type here so no matter your preference you will find them. This includes both race, body type and scene.
Finally, you can pipeline the shit out of the City. I had more dates lined up than I had time and unlike LA/OC where it would take tons of effort to get them out, girls here (1) reply more often, (2) are quicker to go out, and (3) it was almost comical how many girls on okcupid when responding to the questionnaire on how often they drink, said "very often". Girls in NY let loose my friends.
As to style, I found my usual approach of cocky/funny and playful banter worked really well. When I asked girls about NY guys, they ALL said the same thing basically, that they thought they were gods and insanely cocky. So NOT flaunting yourself or trying to brag comes across as genuine.
Daygame: Whole Foods, any park, Broadway in Soho, anyplace in Nolita and I'm sure endless others. I'm not a daygamer much because I'm usually hungover or working. There was a coffee shop by my apartment called the Bean on 2nd Ave/3rd Street that had a bunch of seats and many good looking girls. Worked there one day, free wifi.
Nightlife: Really can go anywhere. Other locals probably have more info than me, but to quickly run it down…
-Le Souk on Mondays, hard door to get into, going off on a Monday night. I got rejected at first rolling solo (wanted $250/bottle or $80 bar tab and I didn't want to do neither), but got in later with a random old rabbi (see bang story below). Odd crowd of middle eastern, black and Mexican people with lots of money. Lots of bottle service going on, didn't approach because came with a girl. Went to Wicked Willy's – college bar, lots of drunk girls, approached about 5 of them nothing doing. Bitter End – live music, led to one of the crazier nights I had but also not a place to approach, I got very lucky.
-13th and Step – good almost every damn night. Have drink specials so draws in the college crowd.
-Mercury Bar in Murray Hill – gets packed late, lots of girls, dancefloor.
-Wilfie and Nell in West Village – actually lots of talent there, but it ebbs and flows. Gets very packed, girls are approachable. Went there on a Thursday eve. If you can somehow get a table (open seating), then can draw in girls to sit with you and keep chatting. Crowd starts early happy hourish and goes till 11 or so.
-Standard Biergarten – talked about a lot in other threads, tons of girls. Lots of hot girls, its almost like a meat market feel. Have good game, people are there to get hit on so it's like a revolving door of girls getting hit on. Good spots to post up are right at the entrance where people smoke and the left side of the bar that serves hard alcohol.
Date spots:
Depends on price range, but some places I enjoyed were Mayahuel (thanks Shamrock) and Winebar. Mayahuel the guy makes strong drinks, sit at the bar to allow for Kino. Winebar if you are having more than one glass each just get a bottle – I suggest the German red they have, or the New Zealand sauvignon blanc, both under 50 bucks. Girls love wine, good service. Really just choose any place close to your pad for closing purposes.
My experience: Like I mentioned, people can give way more info than I can on spots. But I just went to NYC on a whim and really didn't know what to expect. So hopefully this can give you guys more of a look at what a trip may be like. Or maybe I just had an atypical trip, but from all the people that live there…no, this was typical.
THURSDAY – get into town, meet up with some old friends. Hit Wilfie and Nell after dinner, start drinking a lot. Ended up talking to the second girl I approached for 2-3 hours, tried to get her to bounce but I can't remember what happened other than I got her #. Been texting back and forth the whole time I was there, but she was out of town basically the whole time. Or lying (who cares). Very prissy and seemed money oriented. Banging body though. Interesting thing I noted – overheard a girl tell her female friend that she was going to go home with this guy cause she found him hot…friend's response: "ok cool". Zero cockblocking.
FRIDAY – have a few drinks in East Village then take off to meet up an OKC girl at a bar in Chelsea. She's already drunk which you will find is not a surprise for girls here. She is ok, a 6, all her friends are cuter but she's a sure thing. Start making out at the bar, tell her let's get a drink at the winebar by my place and she agrees. Her friends DO NOT COCKBLOCK. When she says she's going with me they go "ok" and just continue their conversations. Unreal. I convince her to come to my place instead for wine and she agrees, get some topless time but no bang. She promises next time.
SATURDAY – meet up with this girl I almost closed the deal with in Vegas, some Aussie that happened to be in Vegas when I was there last month. Long story short, she again stopped short of banging and then she left. It being only 1am, I went out again to 13th Step. Met a girl outside smoking, she ran out of cigs and I said me too let's go buy some. So she called over her sister and her friend and all 3 of us went to get cigs then bounced to another bar down the street. Originally was trying for the girl I approached since she seemed sluttiest, then found out she has a boyfriend so concentrated on her sister who was cuter. 22yo, blonde, super thin body. Tried to convince her to stay back but her other friend was staying with them so she had to bounce. Got # and she said we'll have fun next time.
SUNDAY – OKC date, met at some rooftop hotel uptown. Had a drink there, went to the winebar by my place and got a bottle of wine. Convinced her to come back to my place for wine/smoke on fire escape. We ended up getting hammered – had another bottle of wine at my place then another bottle of champagne. Again, stopped short of closing. She had to miss work the next day, which was kind of funny given how hard we went. Never got to meeting her up again unfortunately but had a lot of fun getting hammered with a random girl.
MONDAY – my craziest and best night. This is long so bear with me… I had setup an internet date. Girl shows up, kind of ugly but thin and Ukrainian, so I was intrigued. Not that great conversation, overall a rather lackluster date. About an hour into it she said she had to go and I had no objection – it happens. I texted a bunch of guys and one girl I didn't care that much about to see if anyone wanted to grab a drink. Friday girl texted back "sure". So I told her to meet me at the wine bar by my apartment. She showed up an hour later and we had a glass of wine as she babbled about something. This time she was all for it, went back to my place, she didn't even want another drink. Bang. She had work the next morning so she left around midnight, and I walked down with her to get a falafel wearing a t-shirt and shorts. As I'm walking to the falafel shack, I see a bunch of girls out and dressed up. Stop. I make an abrupt turn head back to change and head out again for the night.
Headed to Le Souk for Mondays as it tends to go off. I show up around 1 a.m., and they want $250 for me to get in as a single guy. Obviously not paying that amount, I walk around to some other bars in the area. Meet some cute redhead smoking a cigarette, engage in some light talks with her and had a window to invite her to go have a drink with me but hesitated and she jumped in a cab. Damnit. Everytime I hesitate I regret it later. Walk into a college bar and start chatting up some girls, nothing takes. Honeybadger style, gotta keep going. Did talk to a very pretty Serbian chick. After about hitting on 5 girls and not getting anywhere I feel I should try somewhere else. I go outside and next door I see three girls standing around smoking a cigarette. So I approach them and ask them for a light. Start talking to them and they are all speaking German. One is from Frankfurt, blonde, 5'10, quite attractive. Other is Swiss, pretty cute and the other is Turkish/Swiss nothing to write home about. Smoke and chat, the German is overtly friendly with me and they invite me to come inside and watch live music with them. Obviously I say yes and we go in. Turns out the Swiss chicks are friends visiting the US, and the German girl they just met tonight who is here with her dad. Dad is an American living in Long Island and her she lives with her mom in Germany. Speaks English pretty decently though and she is way into me right from the beginning. So I buy her and her dad some beers, sit and watch live music genuinely having a great time. However, she is there with her DAD who doubles as an NFL lineman…I decide this has a 1% chance of working so I turn my attention to the cute Swiss chick. But they eventually leave having a flight to Vegas the next day. German girl asks if I want to stay with them and I say sure, what else do I have to do. We keep drinking and go outside from time to time have a cigarette.
Live music ends about 3:30 a.m. and she asks for my facebook since she doesn't have a phone and wants me to come to the beach with her tomorrow. But she's going with her family, so again what's the point. I write my email for her and as we are leaving there is a Rabbi standing by the door, old and overweight. He asks if we want to keep on going and we all say sure so he says follow me. Obviously I did not think much of it considering this old Jewish man was walking us around the streets of Manhattan in the middle of the night. We head back to Le Souk, the place that wanted $250 for me to come in. Before we even reach 10 feet from the velvet rope the bouncer removes the rope and the Rabbi walks in like a goddamn mafia king. We all walk in no IDs no cover straight into the place. That's some power right there. We go in, place is going off like a Vegas club. It has a few levels, so we go upstairs to the dance floor and German girl and I get some beers. Her dad is lagging behind.
Then she asks if I want to kiss a German girl. I say "Yes." And we start going at it right by the bar/dance floor. Meanwhile, I have one eye open to see if her dad is around as he is 250lbs and would pummel me if he made an attempt to. Don't see him, keep going at it. We take a break, and see her dad on the other side of the bar…50% chance he saw us. Damn. She goes to talk to him and comes back, all upset. Mentions to me how her dad keeps saying every guy that talks to you wants to get in your pants (true actually) and how she can never have any fun.
Whatever, we keep going at it and move to a couch where she climbs on top of me and starts grinding me, I have my hands in her shirt playing tittie badminton and trying to finger her but her jeans were too tight. Take a break, goes to check on her dad who's now downstairs, comes back upstairs. I keep trying to find the damn bathroom so I can try to bone her in there since I know there's no chance she'd leave her dad. Can't find the bathroom. I come with her to talk to her dad and I just don't say anything, they chat, we go back upstairs. Some more messing around, it's now 4:30 a.m. and we go downstairs and dad is already outside. She is very upset, says again can never have any fun since her dad is always around and she's young and vacation, etc. Obviously I agree and amplify her thoughts, say she's on the last few days of vacation, needs to be selfish, dad knows how to get home say you will meet him in awhile and we can hang out some more. Seed planted.
We go outside, Dad is fuming for various reasons - he is drunk, he wants to go home and there's a guy lurking and waiting to bang his daughter (yours truly). They talk more, she goes I'll come home stop being mad and he goes look if you want to stay go ahead. This whole time, I was the clone of a man taken in by Medusa's stare and turned to stone…imagine how silent and stiff stone is, that was me. No eye contact. No participation in the conversation. Just stand and remain still. Finally, dad turns to me and says "Do you know how to have her get back to Long Island tomorrow?" I respond "Yes I'm from there." He says "Good, I'm going home." Turns his back, gets in a cab, and is gone. The 1% chance just happened…I won the bang lottery.
Tell her let's go drink at my place, jump in a cab and go to my place. Climb out on the fire escape, have a few beers and cigarettes and she tells me about her pet bird named Burbee or something like that, how she feels bad for her family, how she's young and wants to have fun despite all her friends getting married, etc.
Go back inside, start going at it and right before sex she goes "wait…you will be the first American I fuck." I said "good, you are the first German I will fuck." Bang. Next morning, woke up took her to Penn station and showed her how to get on the LIRR back to Long Island as she thanked me for not leaving a clueless German girl in the city. 2 girls, one night.
TUESDAY – set a date with the 22yo blonde from Saturday. I'm an idiot and keep the date going too long, and when I made the move we go at it but she says she has to wake up early and doesn't want to be a cocktease. I kick myself for waiting so long. Tried to head out again but was so tired came back and passed out.
WEDNESDAY – Had nothing planned so setup another OKC date in the morning. Girl shows up, meet at wine bar and she is better looking than pictures, tall skinny blond, average face. Have a few glasses, same script back to my place for wine on the fire escape. She makes the first move and starts making out with me, get into the bed rubbing the right areas and she stops short again. Same excuse with all these girls by the way for stopping short, that it was the first night/just met me. Never got to meet up with her again given time constraints.
THURSDAY – Went to an apartment party with tons of dudes. Eventually leave and go to Murray Hill to Mercury Bar. Meet an ok girl, kinda of thick but fun personality. Again smoking a cigarette is where the approach took place. She's with a friend, we hang out and when we leave the friend just makes a bee line down the corner and says goodnight, so I'm left with my girl. Again, NO COCKBLOCK. We go to a bar by my place, she pays for the drinks, back to my place for drink/smoke on the fire escape. Again go at it and stopped short, same shit she just met me, etc.
FRIDAY – Had family dinner in Long Island and on way back 22yo blonde texted me to meet up. I said sure, she told me the address of an apartment party she was at. On my way there, she texts me unsolicited "we should just fuck". Awesome, never happened to me before I actually fucked a girl - I don't respond. Get there, she is drunk and with a couple from work. Keeps hinting to get out of there so I said sure let's go to a bar by me. On way there she is complaining about having to carry her coat so I offer to have her drop it off at my place before we go. We go in, she sits down and we immediately go at it. Bang her 4x over that night and next morning. Love her body, thin and showing ribcage gets me going.
SATURDAY – Suit up and meet up some forum guys at Standard Biergarten. Do a bunch of approaches, have this decent Uzbeki girl into me but she drove from Brooklyn and cut herself off from drinking to drive back. Useless, so I eventually bail on her, talk up some more girls who are all generally receptive but really nothing biting hard. 22yo keeps calling texting me but I'm holding out for another +1. Leave the biergarten and go back to East Village. Jump out of cab with a friend, and two girls are walking by and comment on my suit. Tell them to come with us to bar and they agree. Go in there, get some drinks but neither is as hot as the 22yo so I eventually give in and tell the 22yo where I am. She comes by, get a drink and then go back to my place for round 2 with her. Leaves in the morning and thus ends my NYC trip.
RVFers: Got a chance to meet up with some guys, all very cool. Shamrock was indispensible and really has his shit together, thanks again man. Lothario – man you are a machine I'm impressed with your lack of fear and daygaming abilities. Glad we were able to work a bit at night, you know what you are doing. Parlay – didn't really get a chance to talk much which sucks... hopefully next time I'm out there as I got distracted at the Standard. Swfter2456 – glad you came out with us that night and hopefully that helped you a bit with your night game, you've got some work ahead of you but keep going at it and you will push through.
Conclusion : I'm not one for puffery and over-exaggerating events, bangs or trips, check out my other data sheets. There are negatives - first it is fucking expensive as shit to live in the city. I was also dropping money on dates and going out, about 100/night on average. The weather is tough - it was hot as hell some days and humid, sweating your balls off. Random thunderstorms. It's a dirty city with bums, trash and the apartments are small and old.
But I was there 10 nights and absent the first night, had a girl in my bed all other 9 nights. Banged 3 of them, including 2 in one night. Outside Vegas, I've never had such success anywhere. And 2 of the 3 I boned were higher quality (I'd say 7.5 and 8), again atypical for such a short stint. If I had more time there, I would have banged the other ones as this is a very 2nd date type society. Also, I tried to rush things and get date 2s quicker than normal which is never a good thing, but I only had 10 nights. There are so many girls that meeting them and dating them one would have a harem within a month. I'm not kidding. And I've corroborated this with others I know living there. So…many…girls. With little game you'd be banging a new girl every month. Moderate game, probably 5-6 and tight game you'd have AIDS in 6 months. NYC is anything but a goddamn cockfest.
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