So being that I'm a young guy its in my domain to game 18 year olds (or for you Americans: chicks under 21). I also do a decent amount of online game and I find a lot of them aren't so much into grabbing drinks as they are 'hanging out'. I don't know if its because they still live with their parents or they live far away and don't want to spend the night/can't get back after a 9pm-midnight drinking sesh. I also live kind of far away from most of them, but am close to some good food, the beach, a few bars etc.
The concept is similar to Tuthmosis' first-date bang recipe, but is to be applied to girls under the drinking age or girls who don't want to grab drinks. The general concept is that you meet them somewhere in town for an activity and gradually lead her closer to your place while you are building enough comfort and attraction for her to want to bang.
Step 0: Logistics
- Check out Tuth's section on logistics.
- have a mental list of potential spots you can go to: food places, food trucks, ice cream shops, cool stores, parks, beaches, 'locals only' places.
- an extensive knowledge of your city's transit system. (I'll expand on why I think transit is better later).
Step 1: Activity #1
Because you're going the way of a day date she probably doesn't have enough trust or comfort to come over to your pad to 'watch a movie'. Ask her what area of town she's in and suggest you meet mid way either at a mall, food/drinks place. Anywhere cool where you can do something normal and just hang out.
For example I took a girl to this 50's style diner to get malted milkshakes.She said it reminds her of Grease and I make some related jokes. I also take girls to the best pizza place in the city and make sure to tell them how super secret it is. If they pick a boring slice of pizza I'll make fun of them. I've met at a mall, gotten some ice cream then walked around making fun of the different kinds of people that shop at each of the places.
I like to get them comfortable first by making jokes, making observations and all around talking about nothing before I start qualifying them as a potential partner or anything like that. From my end it makes me feel more familiar with the girl which makes everything a lot easier.
Step 2: 'Neo-Kino' and Wandering
Again read Tuth's description of his 'Neo-Kino'
After about 20-30 minutes (whenever we're done food) I like to get her out of the first location. Your knowledge of the area of town you are in is key, wander around 'aimlessly' showing her stuff and all around blabbering about whatever you want. Now's the time to start touching her, highfives, grabbing her if she starts going in the right direction, extended eye contact, whatever feels real. So far you should keep it light and playful. This shouldn't be too long maybe another 20 minutes or so.
Either here or the next step you should drop some kind of line that you can bring up later to get her to either your place or your area. Say you're talking about movies tell her "we could watch that later/sometime", you could say "its such a nice day we should go to the beach" "you like stamps I have a sick stamp collection" You know the drill.
Step 3: Location #2
I said that you're wandering aimlessly, but you're not you should have a location #2, somewhere where you can do something and get even more touchy. Wherever the place is it should be closer to your place than the last place and it should let you bounce to your place quickly after you leave. It could be a vintage clothing store where you pick out something really ugly and say it would look good on her while you hold it up to her and really insist she try it on. Somewhere where you can keep up your playful vibe. I think next time I'm going to try out an old-school 'arcade' and grab some slurpees from 7-11, highschool all over again.
You could also use this as a chance to "check out" some kind of place you've been hearing good things about.
You could also use this step as a chance to "run an errand" that is a 'DHV' of sorts. Last one I used was "hey I need to pick up some guitar strings there's a place close by, lets go" We went to the guitar store, she asked me all about me playing guitar. I browsed guitars, she wandered off to the other part of the store and I picked one up and started playing, putting it away shortly after she came back (the panties were wet at that point).
You could get some article of clothing or an item for an upcoming trip, or to replace an item you lost on the last trip. You could be shopping for a new tie because you have an interview, exclusive party to go to etc. Whatever it is don't be indecisive with your purchase, wander around for a while but don't hem and haw over what would be a good purchase indecisiveness is a huge turn-off for them.
Step 4: More wandering and bounce to your place
From here get on transit to your place. Say "lets go" and take her to a bus stop/train station. If she asks where you're going deflect or say 'wherever this bus takes us'. Assume she is interested enough at this point to at least make-out with you.
This works best if transit is ~20 minutes to your place. Sit next to her and make the tone more serious, ask about herself, qualify -- date stuff. You should have been doing this earlier too, but now you're more 'chill and relaxed' than playful and energetic. Don't go too drastic with your change, but she should kind of get whats going down. Intersperse this with commentary about people on the bus. I usually say "why is it that only one group of people talk on the bus, most people just come on and stare at their phones too scared to look up. i bet they're listening in on this conversation *looks around suspiciously*"
You should also bring up the bait from earlier "lets go watch..." or "lets go to the beach and drink a bottle of wine"
I'll do this by being really focused on some sort of story I'm telling or that she is telling, I don't look up/around until a stop that is a few before the one to my house. I'll stop and say "damn, we just missed the stop for this cool place I was going to take you to, lets just go to my place and ____"
When you get to your place follow steps 6-10 of Tuthmosis' First Date-Bang recipe and get your bang on, or at least your makeout.
Step 4.5: (optional) beach, park, aka. location #3
Worst comes to worst and she says "I don't think that's a good idea" say "k lets get off at this stop then, we'll grab a bottle of wine and go to the beach/park/wherever". If she still says no to the alcohol, but yes to the location you might be able to get a makeout, but probably not a bang. If she says no to both you fucked up somewhere along the way.
Get more intimate at the beach/park, have a few glasses of wine then makeout. Suggest you go back to your place and work your magic.
Key Points:
- meeting half-way and gradually working your way back to your place without actually saying thats where you're going until later
- the gradual transition from fun and energetic to chill and serious/'intimate' as you get closer to your place
- constantly moving/bouncing her places, don't stay in one place too long
- good conversationalist and verbally quick
- always lead
- assume attraction
- have fun
The concept is similar to Tuthmosis' first-date bang recipe, but is to be applied to girls under the drinking age or girls who don't want to grab drinks. The general concept is that you meet them somewhere in town for an activity and gradually lead her closer to your place while you are building enough comfort and attraction for her to want to bang.
Step 0: Logistics
- Check out Tuth's section on logistics.
- have a mental list of potential spots you can go to: food places, food trucks, ice cream shops, cool stores, parks, beaches, 'locals only' places.
- an extensive knowledge of your city's transit system. (I'll expand on why I think transit is better later).
Step 1: Activity #1
Because you're going the way of a day date she probably doesn't have enough trust or comfort to come over to your pad to 'watch a movie'. Ask her what area of town she's in and suggest you meet mid way either at a mall, food/drinks place. Anywhere cool where you can do something normal and just hang out.
For example I took a girl to this 50's style diner to get malted milkshakes.She said it reminds her of Grease and I make some related jokes. I also take girls to the best pizza place in the city and make sure to tell them how super secret it is. If they pick a boring slice of pizza I'll make fun of them. I've met at a mall, gotten some ice cream then walked around making fun of the different kinds of people that shop at each of the places.
I like to get them comfortable first by making jokes, making observations and all around talking about nothing before I start qualifying them as a potential partner or anything like that. From my end it makes me feel more familiar with the girl which makes everything a lot easier.
Step 2: 'Neo-Kino' and Wandering
Again read Tuth's description of his 'Neo-Kino'
After about 20-30 minutes (whenever we're done food) I like to get her out of the first location. Your knowledge of the area of town you are in is key, wander around 'aimlessly' showing her stuff and all around blabbering about whatever you want. Now's the time to start touching her, highfives, grabbing her if she starts going in the right direction, extended eye contact, whatever feels real. So far you should keep it light and playful. This shouldn't be too long maybe another 20 minutes or so.
Either here or the next step you should drop some kind of line that you can bring up later to get her to either your place or your area. Say you're talking about movies tell her "we could watch that later/sometime", you could say "its such a nice day we should go to the beach" "you like stamps I have a sick stamp collection" You know the drill.
Step 3: Location #2
I said that you're wandering aimlessly, but you're not you should have a location #2, somewhere where you can do something and get even more touchy. Wherever the place is it should be closer to your place than the last place and it should let you bounce to your place quickly after you leave. It could be a vintage clothing store where you pick out something really ugly and say it would look good on her while you hold it up to her and really insist she try it on. Somewhere where you can keep up your playful vibe. I think next time I'm going to try out an old-school 'arcade' and grab some slurpees from 7-11, highschool all over again.
You could also use this as a chance to "check out" some kind of place you've been hearing good things about.
You could also use this step as a chance to "run an errand" that is a 'DHV' of sorts. Last one I used was "hey I need to pick up some guitar strings there's a place close by, lets go" We went to the guitar store, she asked me all about me playing guitar. I browsed guitars, she wandered off to the other part of the store and I picked one up and started playing, putting it away shortly after she came back (the panties were wet at that point).
You could get some article of clothing or an item for an upcoming trip, or to replace an item you lost on the last trip. You could be shopping for a new tie because you have an interview, exclusive party to go to etc. Whatever it is don't be indecisive with your purchase, wander around for a while but don't hem and haw over what would be a good purchase indecisiveness is a huge turn-off for them.
Step 4: More wandering and bounce to your place
From here get on transit to your place. Say "lets go" and take her to a bus stop/train station. If she asks where you're going deflect or say 'wherever this bus takes us'. Assume she is interested enough at this point to at least make-out with you.
This works best if transit is ~20 minutes to your place. Sit next to her and make the tone more serious, ask about herself, qualify -- date stuff. You should have been doing this earlier too, but now you're more 'chill and relaxed' than playful and energetic. Don't go too drastic with your change, but she should kind of get whats going down. Intersperse this with commentary about people on the bus. I usually say "why is it that only one group of people talk on the bus, most people just come on and stare at their phones too scared to look up. i bet they're listening in on this conversation *looks around suspiciously*"
You should also bring up the bait from earlier "lets go watch..." or "lets go to the beach and drink a bottle of wine"
I'll do this by being really focused on some sort of story I'm telling or that she is telling, I don't look up/around until a stop that is a few before the one to my house. I'll stop and say "damn, we just missed the stop for this cool place I was going to take you to, lets just go to my place and ____"
When you get to your place follow steps 6-10 of Tuthmosis' First Date-Bang recipe and get your bang on, or at least your makeout.
Step 4.5: (optional) beach, park, aka. location #3
Worst comes to worst and she says "I don't think that's a good idea" say "k lets get off at this stop then, we'll grab a bottle of wine and go to the beach/park/wherever". If she still says no to the alcohol, but yes to the location you might be able to get a makeout, but probably not a bang. If she says no to both you fucked up somewhere along the way.
Get more intimate at the beach/park, have a few glasses of wine then makeout. Suggest you go back to your place and work your magic.
Key Points:
- meeting half-way and gradually working your way back to your place without actually saying thats where you're going until later
- the gradual transition from fun and energetic to chill and serious/'intimate' as you get closer to your place
- constantly moving/bouncing her places, don't stay in one place too long
- good conversationalist and verbally quick
- always lead
- assume attraction
- have fun