Quote: (06-22-2012 02:34 AM)Vicious Wrote:
Personally I've gotten into relationships at the point when I found I was expending far less energy in keeping them straight than when I was recruiting new talent. So obviously we are seeing different kind of women. Despite your assertion about "quality girls" it seems your experience is from women that require a lot of maintenance and create drama.
Sounds more like a fling than an LTR.
In a LTR, there are shared resources and sacrifices. Your life changes as you join another person in a quest towards mutual goals and aspirations. A LTR involves substantial give-and-take.
The higher quality female, the more she'll demand and the more you'll need to push back. This is basic. It's also perfectly acceptable and is not behavior endemic to women.
If you're a guy with his shit together, you won't hang out with loser guys or mooches. You'll have high expectations for your friends. If a friend is a dead beat or whatever, you cut him off. Virtue attracts virtue. Steel sharpens steel. Women in relationships are the same way.
There is no guy here in a LTR with a PhD Russian supermodel that he refuses to marry, and she just stays home while he goes out and gets strange pussy. It simply doesn't happen.
Even Jay-Z had to marry Beyonce.
In all relationships, people will assert their will. The higher your value, the stronger your will.
If a girl is a 9 with family wealth, intelligence, and a great personality, then you're simply not going to fuck other chicks and refuse to marry her - at least not for any appreciable amount of time.
Claiming otherwise is bravado.