[polymath]

(08-13-2012 11:22 AM)Lucky Wrote:  

About two weeks ago I number closed a chick on the street while I was day gaming. I go to a town about 35 minutes away to day game because there are way more girls. We made plans for a few days later and she flaked:

Girl (5:26pm): Hey Lucky, I’m afraid I have to cancel. Just came home from swimming and now sth is wrong with my shower…need to find someone who can fix that…could be a quick or a longer operation, I don’t know….good timing. I’m reeeeally sorry. But lets find another day next week!!!
Me (6:27pm): that sucks. ok good luck with your shower.
Girl (6:34pm): Yes it sucks….still not working…
Girl (6:35pm): What about next week? Do you have a free day?
Girl (6:36pm): Or better: evening
Me (7:59pm): sure how about thursday evening?
Girl (8:13pm): Thursday is perfect. 9pm? And this time I will be there Sorry again!
Me (9:35pm): yeah sounds good.
Girl (10:12pm): Great

So we met on thursday and had a good time, went to a cafe then a bar and used all of my usual first date material. We went for a walk after the bar and I kissed her. We made out for another 5 minutes or so when we walked to the parking garage where we parked. During the date I found that she lived in a town about 30 min away (I set up the date in the town where we met because I thought she lived there) and I live in a town about 35 min away so I was unsure of how to bounce to a place to fuck. She said she had to get going, that she had to work in the morning. So, like a pussy, I said good night and left. I texted her the next day.

Me "hey weirdo what are you doing tonight?"
Girl "Hey I'm visiting a friend what about you??"
Me "i'm at a party at a friend's house...hey can you hang out later this week?"

No response.

I texted her 2 days later.

Me "hey how was your weekend?"

No response.

I guess this doesn't really count as a flake but I am still a bit pissed. I know I should have at least attempted to get to her place but I thought that the make out at the end of a first date was a good sign for a second date where I could figure out favorable logistics. Fuck.

Occasionally a girl will ignore a text of mine. I think that's pretty unkind. In those cases, I may say something like, "you know, it's rude to ignore people." Usually gets a laugh and a positive response.

[rationalize_this]

"Hey so they actually planned a work thing for us tomorrow night and it's a coworkers birthday. Can we do it next week?"
"Off work early. Gonna head home. Wanna rain check? Im sorry im just soooo tired. I'm free this weekend."
"Haha what a tempting offer. I'm busy the next two weekends but maybe when things free up!"
All three offering reschedules. Not going to respond to any of them. I fucking hate this city. IMPOSSIBLE to get a chick out even ONE day of the week.

[Juan Antonio]

(08-22-2012 06:58 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  

"Hey so they actually planned a work thing for us tomorrow night and it's a coworkers birthday. Can we do it next week?"
"Off work early. Gonna head home. Wanna rain check? Im sorry im just soooo tired. I'm free this weekend."
"Haha what a tempting offer. I'm busy the next two weekends but maybe when things free up!"
All three offering reschedules. Not going to respond to any of them. I fucking hate this city. IMPOSSIBLE to get a chick out even ONE day of the week.

Why are younger girls always soooo busy? I'm convinced it's an ego powertrip thing.

[rationalize_this]

(08-22-2012 07:02 PM)Juan Antonio Wrote:  

(08-22-2012 06:58 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  

"Hey so they actually planned a work thing for us tomorrow night and it's a coworkers birthday. Can we do it next week?"
"Off work early. Gonna head home. Wanna rain check? Im sorry im just soooo tired. I'm free this weekend."
"Haha what a tempting offer. I'm busy the next two weekends but maybe when things free up!"
All three offering reschedules. Not going to respond to any of them. I fucking hate this city. IMPOSSIBLE to get a chick out even ONE day of the week.

Why are younger girls always soooo busy? I'm convinced it's an ego powertrip thing.

All three are 25, its a Miami thing. I swear I'm just going to start sending pics of money, the view from my appartment, or bottles of alcohol with the caption "me + you tonight"

[Tuthmosis]

Got flaked on tonight. Was supposed to meet up with this cute gymnast chick I met in a routine day-game approach. I figured the number was dead-on-arrival when I got it but, true to my game, I did the due diligence and texted her. Imagine my surprise when she texted back, with no bullshit, and was down to make solid plans.

Those plans were tonight. I did the early-in-the-day ping (to set final details) and got radio silence.

[Giovonny]

(08-29-2012 12:03 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Imagine my surprise when she texted back

Sometimes a girl who seemed uninterested actually was! I love it when that happens. Sadly, the reverse is also true.

(08-29-2012 12:03 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

I did the early-in-the-day ping (to set final details) and got radio silence.

I think she'll text you tomorrow, she was probably late from the gym, hungry, had nothing to wear, and her hair was all messed up; and her friend Amy wanted to get dinner at their usual spot. She didn't really have the time to get ready and do her hair and makeup, she thought about it for a few minutes, which only caused her brain to scramble, which is when she took the path of least resistance and just put her phone back in her bag, put "text tuthmosis" on her mental to do list, and then went to have a salad with her girlfriend.

She'll text tmw..

"so sorry, i had family in town and was away from my phone but def wanna hang out soon" ~~

Sometimes these work out okay because you can give her a little attitude about it and make her chase you from this point.

All you have to do now is.........nothing! If she wants you, she will text you, if not, oh well! And, you can still consider sending her a re-start text in 2-3 weeks??? What's your "re-start text" philosophy?

(08-22-2012 07:06 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  

I swear I'm just going to start sending pics of money, the view from my appartment, or bottles of alcohol with the caption "me + you tonight"

Shit, why not? Nobody else is sending them that type of photo-seductive-"notes on bottles"-condos with views type of shit! I like to take chances with crazy stuff like that. Girls are funny and you never know what will make them tingle. I've found that crazy stuff like this can work. The average girl might think you are a little intense but the freaks will respond to it. Its different, its ballsy, no one else is doing it! I know your joking about the money but views and bottles with notes could work. What have you got to lose? I want you to do it just to see what happens. I bet those Miami girl would go for that shit.

"Look girl, this is his condo on the 24 floor"
"oooh with a nice view, you should go see him, is he cute"
"yes girl, with a nice body too"
"and he sent me this"
"oooh my god, a bottle with a little note on it"!!!
"he is on some other shit girl"!
"i told you he looked like a boss, i could tell"
"he could be your new fuck buddy"
"ssssshhhhhh"!!!
"haha lol lol"

[rationalize_this]

(08-29-2012 12:48 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(08-29-2012 12:03 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Imagine my surprise when she texted back

Sometimes a girl who seemed uninterested actually was! I love it when that happens. Sadly, the reverse is also true.

(08-29-2012 12:03 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

I did the early-in-the-day ping (to set final details) and got radio silence.

I think she'll text you tomorrow, she was probably late from the gym, hungry, had nothing to wear, and her hair was all messed up; and her friend Amy wanted to get dinner at their usual spot. She didn't really have the time to get ready and do her hair and makeup, she thought about it for a few minutes, which only caused her brain to scramble, which is when she took the path of least resistance and just put her phone back in her bag, put "text tuthmosis" on her mental to do list, and then went to have a salad with her girlfriend.

She'll text tmw..

"so sorry, i had family in town and was away from my phone but def wanna hang out soon" ~~

Sometimes these work out okay because you can give her a little attitude about it and make her chase you from this point.

All you have to do now is.........nothing! If she wants you, she will text you, if not, oh well! And, you can still consider sending her a re-start text in 2-3 weeks??? What's your "re-start text" philosophy?

(08-22-2012 07:06 PM)rationalize_this Wrote:  

I swear I'm just going to start sending pics of money, the view from my appartment, or bottles of alcohol with the caption "me + you tonight"

Shit, why not? Nobody else is sending them that type of photo-seductive-"notes on bottles"-condos with views type of shit! I like to take chances with crazy stuff like that. Girls are funny and you never know what will make them tingle. I've found that crazy stuff like this can work. The average girl might think you are a little intense but the freaks will respond to it. Its different, its ballsy, no one else is doing it! I know your joking about the money but views and bottles with notes could work. What have you got to lose? I want you to do it just to see what happens. I bet those Miami girl would go for that shit.

"Look girl, this is his condo on the 24 floor"
"oooh with a nice view, you should go see him, is he cute"
"yes girl, with a nice body too"
"and he sent me this"
"oooh my god, a bottle with a little note on it"!!!
"he is on some other shit girl"!
"i told you he looked like a boss, i could tell"
"he could be your new fuck buddy"
"ssssshhhhhh"!!!
"haha lol lol"

I'm going to start a new thread with details of what i'm actually sending, and results. This could be some next level shit.

[R Smoov]

Chick that approached me flaked the shit out of me.

So heres the text:
Me: Hey
Me: *Her name*'s # right @ 3:25 PM
Her: Yup! @ 4:59 PM
Her: *said her name correctly*
Me: Thats a hard nane to remember/spell @ 6:33 PM
Her: Noo @ 6:35
Me: *My name* is even harder to spell than *Her name* @ 6:59 PM
Me: What time you free tomorrow @ 7"03 PM
Me: Cuz I was planning to get something at da Freez (ice cream place). You should come along @ 7:05 PM

And she hasn't said anything back. Damnit.

[rationalize_this]

It just amazes me that girls will ask me to hang out, then flake. This girls is probably an 8, i've made out with her and fingered her but couldn't get into her appt last time i was in NYC. Now this... If I had managed to bang her this wouldn't be happening probably.

Tuesday:
Me: How about drinks tonight

Thursday:
Her: Thanks for the invite but I was in bed at 6:30 haha. I'm trying to get over this terrible cold. Maybe want to get drinks with me at xx tonight? Its my go-to place because its so nearby
Me: I can do around 9, you improving
Her: I'm a little better. Going to pilates class this evening (maybe) 7-8, so 9 could work
Me: Sounds good
30 min before
Her: Post pone till tomorrow? I'm really tired.
Me: k

Does every bitch have a cold this time of year? Which alpha is fucking spreading it among these hoes?

[jerome]

(08-29-2012 12:03 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

Got flaked on tonight. Was supposed to meet up with this cute gymnast chick I met in a routine day-game approach. I figured the number was dead-on-arrival when I got it but, true to my game, I did the due diligence and texted her. Imagine my surprise when she texted back, with no bullshit, and was down to make solid plans.

Those plans were tonight. I did the early-in-the-day ping (to set final details) and got radio silence.

Day game was solid,

text game was solid,

bitch was not....

Whiskey!!!

[rees0306]

Got the kiss from this 6 maybe 7 on friday night just gone at a nightclub in my city. As she was leaving she says "you should definantly message me" Ok I think just gotta not fuck up and this should be easy. so the next day ( too soon i know )

me: Hey X nice to meet u last night! what r u up to today

her: Hey! not too much, just getting ready for a friends 21st how about you?

Me: cool.not much having a lazy day. Want to catch up sometimes next week? say wedesday night..

Her: sounds good ill prob be at "pub" on wedesday if youd like to meet up there?

me: Hmmm i was thinking mini golf

Her ( over 24 hours later) hey sorry had to check my good friend wasnt doing anything for his bday! but if offer still stand mini golf sounds great

Me:no probs what time is good for u im free after 6. You need a lift?

her: sounds good how about 7, lift would be great

Me: 7 is good where do u live again, hope its not *shithole*

Her: haha no, i live at XY

Me: your not a pro golfer or something are you? i can be a sore loser.

Her: haha dont have to worry about that, im pretty gumby

Me: well in that case we should put some money down send me your address ill see you tomorrow at 7

Her: haha youre on *address*

So up to here i thought id done ok. Wasn't happy with how many emoticons i had used but i thought my texting was pretty tight ( criticism appreciated) there were large gaps between texts and i made sure to take my sweet arse time replying back. I did msg her too early i feel but i thought given here level of interest the night prior i would be ok.

So gets to this arvo and there's rain clouds overhead.

Her: hey its raining here, might put a damper on mini golf! maybe we could reschedule.

Me: yeh looks like it! how about a movie or pool?

Her: haha im not going to lie. i was excited for mini golf! maybe we could reschedule for a sunnier day?

Me: ok no probs.

So thats how i left it. i feel i made an effort to suggest something else we could do so its on her to re schedule. I'm only a newbie and its not exactly raining pussy for me but i don't think i should have to chase anymore?

Is it worth throwing a text out there sometime next week or should i leave it to her.

[blackglasses]

Just fucking got up and drove to the lesser part of town and when I'm already there she says she has to go somewhere. Fuck! I hate the suburbs

[Doulos2Game]

I have been afraid to enter this thread my whole life. FLAKING the number one issue in america. Tied for first with COCKBLOCKING.

[Doulos2Game]

I think that giving a girl you haven't bang a prime night increases your chances of getting flaked. They have other shit to do much more important than seeing a stranger at a bar.

[Gemini]

Brazilian girl from POF just flaked on me. Haven't met her yet but from pics she is a 6 at best (who knows). Very friendly and interested via pof/text messages going back and forth since last week.

We were supposed to meet tonight for a drink around 8pm and she texted me saying that her boss made her work till 7pm instead of 6pm and therefore she cannot make it... so weird.. if that's an excuse it is lame beyond words. If it's legit, then it is also SUPER LAME. I mean we can always meet later at 8:30 - 9pm right? blah blah blah.. bs

Anyways, I don't give a shit actually, gonna watch some hockey with a buddy.

I haven't reply to her yet and I don't think I will. Should I?

[_GQ_]

Nah, don't. Game more chicks and if she wants to meet you she'll initiate. If I were you I'd ask her to come right over to your place if she does want to meet.

[booshybish]

Had a girl lined up for long distance travel. Plans for her to meet in my city last night at 2030 hrs. No text all day, and then finally a text at 2000 with all sorts of gibberish about not catching a bus and how perhaps I should come visit her. This is the flakiest flake I've ever experienced.

No worries. Me indifferent long time. Tried to shit test me by saying she was going to some party around 0200. My response: cool.

Executing pullback maneuvers.

[Thatdude]

I love when they flake and don't give another date to hang out. Fuck em, she's out of her mind if she thinks I'm gonna re-initiate. On to the next. She doesn't know she's only making my game stronger.

[_GQ_]

3 OkC chicks in the last two weeks have flaked on me. Was going to meet a 25 year old 7-7.5 brunette tomorrow for drinks. She texts me today saying she tested positive for strep. I'm calling bullshit on that one. She asks if we can reschedule. Umm, nope. I'll send you a picture of my massive cock in a month or two.

[Matt3B]

(04-02-2013 07:50 PM)_GQ_ Wrote:  

3 OkC chicks in the last two weeks have flaked on me. Was going to meet a 25 year old 7-7.5 brunette tomorrow for drinks. She texts me today saying she tested positive for strep. I'm calling bullshit on that one. She asks if we can reschedule. Umm, nope. I'll send you a picture of my massive cock in a month or two.

Why not? It may be legit so you may as well at least give her a chance.

[Divorco]

I don't remember where, but Roosh wrote he has never banged a girl who initially flaked. That matches my experience. Sure, I may have rescheduled for a temporary recovery. But when I had to compromise just to see her then she just wasn't very attracted to me.

Has anyone here banged a girl who initially flaked?

I scheduled an online date tonight without much text/phone rapport. I was not in the mood at all, and the woman was running 25 minutes late. Logistics were poor, so I didn't see much upside. I talked briefly to a "7" at the bar, walked out, and then bumped into my scheduled woman. She was a "6" in the pictures, and a "5" in person. I showed her to the restroom and left. Why am I going out of my way for an average woman? To be fair, it takes effort to find an average single woman in D.C. But I'm just not currently desperate enough to tolerate tardiness and multiple dates to score a "5". I guess I flaked.

[MrXY]

Quote:

Posted by _GQ_ - Today 09:50 PM
3 OkC chicks in the last two weeks have flaked on me. Was going to meet a 25 year old 7-7.5 brunette tomorrow for drinks. She texts me today saying she tested positive for strep. I'm calling bullshit on that one. She asks if we can reschedule. Umm, nope. I'll send you a picture of my massive cock in a month or two.

I expect an online flake rate of 50%, so it's no biggie when it happens. I sometimes double book for that reason and always have a back up plan if i want to go out that evening

She did offer to reschedule so it may be legit. girls who have no interest usually don't offer to reschedule. Even if it wasn't, so what? I always give a girl two flakes before I even consider dropping her, as long as she stays in contact with me

Quote:

Posted by Divorco - Today 11:16 PM
I don't remember where, but Roosh wrote he has never banged a girl who initially flaked. That matches my experience. Sure, I may have rescheduled for a temporary recovery. But when I had to compromise just to see her then she just wasn't very attracted to me.

Has anyone here banged a girl who initially flaked?

I have- not sure how many times but it's been several. Example-3 weeks ago I banged a chick i met online probably June of last year. She flaked on me maybe four times and refused date offers several times. I would text her once or twice a month, sometimes she wouldn't respond, but a few times she sent me sexy pics. Finally she showed up and i banged her that night. She called me two hours ago wanting to "hang out" (fuck) tonight and I told her I was too tired and staying home. Hehe. But I'll bang her again-this time on my terms.

It is true that if a girl flakes on you, your chances of banging her are drastically lower, but they are not zero. I just keep my time and effort investment in these girls very low and my emotional investment at nil. But I will keep texting them and sometimes this results in a bang

[_GQ_]

The reschedule might be legit but I have doubts. I sent a sort of 'are we still on?' text and that is when she told me she was sick. So I doubt she'd have said anything at all if I didn't text her first.

Doesn't matter, if she's interested she'll text. Just weird that I'm all of a sudden on an OKC flake streak. Getting numbers is no problem. Options are important.

[_GQ_]

Another just flaked lol. I must have angered the pick up gods.

[lurker]

I went on two dates with this girl in two weeks. She was easy to pick up and hit a lot of slut red flags in my mind: her dress, the way she kissed, her seeming ease in coming over to a guy's house she barely knew, etc. In two dates she didn't even pretend to make a move to buy a round, even when I announced nonchalantly that I had run out of cash on a cheap round at the third bar of night two and looked over at her. She waited until I pulled out the plastic.

Date two I fucked her. She seemed completely at ease with getting it raw, so I wrapped it. She slept over, snugly cuddled in my chest. Morning after date two I fucked her again, harder, with some light choking and hair pulling. She seemed into it. Once again, I made the condom move after no prodding or trepidation on her part.

Sunday I texted her to set up date three today, one of her days off. Radio silence until yesterday evening, when she responded with "wont be able to make it."

This is the third girl in a row to flake on me post-fuck. One of the three was a booty call from another city, met an actual boyfriend she's happy with, and tends not to cheat on them in the early/infatuation parts of relationships, so that explains that. The other two are odd. I'm confident my sexual abilities are up to par, so I'm somewhat curious as to what's driving the hamster. Usually, fucking a girl cements things for me, as long as it's not just a drunken ONS.

Must be other guys. Oh well. All three were in a month. Easy come, easy go. Time to refill the pipeline.