[Akula]

(07-09-2014 05:27 PM)soup Wrote:  

I saw this blobby woman give some good points

Those are pretty interesting especially for the workplace interpersonal stuff.

I'm wondering about the downward versus upward palm move with regards to the ladies though. Seems that if you're upward like she says it's more of the beggging mode which would not be good for game. But the downward palm makes you look like you're trying to order someone around so I would be careful with those gestures in general unless you're berating your kids or trying to boss someone around. (ban bossy!! )) I guess if the girl is giving you a lot of shit testing and/or LMR it's effective, but would be careful early on in with it and use sparingly.

The first video I thought was pretty interesting and I learned some things. First thought was that it's such a controlled situation with a 50-50 guy-girl ratio in the bar. We all know that doesn't happen often and even when it does it usually corrects itself pretty quickly. Realize it's a controlled 'experiment' but you need to be aware of ratios and their affect on game always.

Second, the ladies are let into the 'bar' first and were loosening up en masse and then seemed like the guys slowly filtered in. That can happen, but also seems like it's an ideal situation for the guys. Just sayin'

Third, the two friends fighting over the balding guy was very intriguing. But once the competition came in it was up to the guy to establish his frame and show that he was not bothered by them (not necessarily show dominance IMO though, he just needed to act more cool and calm and 'assume the sale'). Instead, he seemed to get flustered, more reserved and less talkative. Actually I think he'd built up enough attraction with the one girl and earlier on should have escalated by touching a bit, giving her some clearer signals, etc. By the time the other dudes came in felt like it was almost too late for him. I think you're going to come across this type of situation a ton in bars and clubs and you've only got so long to make your mark so his reticence and assumption clearly was not ideal. When she came back to him and her friend he should have been all over that immediately (or made a move for the more 'sure thing' with the other girl - what was he waiting for?)