[Blunt]

So I've ran into this situation several times now and I'd like to get your strategies on it. My main entertainment is the laptop since I can barely understand the TV, so when I get a girl back to my flat, and she knows that I'm a foreigner one of the first things she says is 'show me some pictures!'

I never realized until I was abroad that I've never really taken pictures in my home city. I don't take pictures really that often, but now I'm realizing that its useful to have pictures ready to show girls that continue the vibe. I don't use facebook, nor do I want to, but having photos aggregated is pretty crucial.

So my plan now is:

-take lots of pictures while I'm traveling
-when I go back take pictures of touristy shit in my city that I otherwise ignore
-make a playlist of pictures with some music to show
-keep a solid supply of pop/europop on the computer
-make a playlist of funny youtube videos to show

What do you guys show girls on your laptop when you're traveling?

[phoenix101]

My memory is very foggy, there was an acquaintance who happened to have his laptop on him at a party. At one point he busted it out showing his work/pictures. The #1 thing that got girls sappy and into him was entertainment on there for kids, especially the backstory to it that he had it on there (also created or collaborated on it) to entertain his nephews, some kids at a hospital or something like that.

Of course it could backfire in a foreign country where they have kids at a relatively young age, as they might assume you have a wife/kids back home.

[scotian]

Are you trying to bone these girls or trying to convince them to visit your city? If it`s the former then get some portable speakers, louder the better. Forget the pics and the stories, put on some music and get the girl dancing. If you don`t already have a solid play list of whatever the hottest local music is (you should have this lined up for future reference), let her pick songs of off youtube that she likes.

As she`s selecting songs, you should be preparing drinks from your well stocked fridge or bar, if she asks to see pictures, say I`ll show you tomorrow, here`s a drink, let`s dance. You should be kissing her within 15-30 minutes of drinking and dancing, after that, its up to you but I`m sure you can figure it out.

Of course, if you really want to sit down and show her pics and tell her your life story, that`s up to you, but dancing with drinks works for me. Having a chick back at your flat, you`re already 95% in her pants, you just have to set the right mood and escalate quickly, you don`t want to get in some stupid drawn out conversation about your trip to Italy, or even worse, have her go on about some dumb trip she took.

I`ve fucked situations up like that in the past by going overboard on the pics and vids so I`m speaking from experience.

[Deb Auchery]

I get them to come back to my apartment and watch a film, it's has been Black Swan lately, never get very far into it before i'm boning her

[Blunt]

(03-21-2012 01:32 AM)scotian Wrote:  

Are you trying to bone these girls or trying to convince them to visit your city? If it`s the former then get some portable speakers, louder the better. Forget the pics and the stories, put on some music and get the girl dancing. If you don`t already have a solid play list of whatever the hottest local music is (you should have this lined up for future reference), let her pick songs of off youtube that she likes.

As she`s selecting songs, you should be preparing drinks from your well stocked fridge or bar, if she asks to see pictures, say I`ll show you tomorrow, here`s a drink, let`s dance. You should be kissing her within 15-30 minutes of drinking and dancing, after that, its up to you but I`m sure you can figure it out.

Of course, if you really want to sit down and show her pics and tell her your life story, that`s up to you, but dancing with drinks works for me. Having a chick back at your flat, you`re already 95% in her pants, you just have to set the right mood and escalate quickly, you don`t want to get in some stupid drawn out conversation about your trip to Italy, or even worse, have her go on about some dumb trip she took.

I`ve fucked situations up like that in the past by going overboard on the pics and vids so I`m speaking from experience.

Touche. Last night the girl asked that and I told her I had pics on the other computer and put on some stupid comedy, she was naked 20 minutes later.

I think most of the time you can just sidestep it, ignore it, or lie about it if she is asking but it can't hurt to have a few pictures to flip through that show you can afford to travel to different places and do cool shit.

[germanico]

Instead of touristy shit, try to take pictures of yourself doing something cool or unique. That way, you wont have pictures of you just standing in front of a landmark.

Everytime I travel, I plan to go a little out of my way just so I can do something for the cool factor.

[Roosh]

Youtube is very good. Trade songs you like and make comments on the videos.

Sometimes I just put on the music video channel. My laptop has too much incriminating content so I try not to use it much.

[assman]

(03-21-2012 09:29 AM)Roosh Wrote:  

Sometimes I just put on the music video channel. My laptop has too much incriminating content so I try not to use it much.

Dual-boot. One operating system has your work. The other has what you want chicks to see.

[Parlay44]

Girls are big on YouTube. I hung out with a girl while in Taiwan and we traded favorite song on YouTube. I hang out with local US girls and they do the same thing. I think it's universal.

[Giovonny]

You need to create a date "play-list".

Videos, websites, songs, movie scenes, etc. that you have pre-selected. Obviously, choose the stuff that best allows you to get the bang.

Here is what I do..

1) I "Google" her astrology sign. This will list her strengths, weaknesses, passions, fears, etc. We discuss over drinks. Then we "Google" mine. This alone could take 2 hours.

2) I play my favorite songs and hers. Go on Youtube to find videos. Continue drinking.

This should be all you need to get things going and get physical!

If you need more material, here are some more options..

3) Ask her about her favorite movies, documentaries, and books. Google them, Youtube them, Wikipedia them. Watch, drink, discuss..

4) Playfully sexualize things. Things like "Hot or Not", "Ashley Madison" "Craigslist", Sports Illustrated "Swimsuit edition", The Miss Universe website. Pretend that you just accidently stumbled across an article about one of these websites. Pretend to make fun of them. Say, "do people really do this stuff". This is just to sexualize the conversation

Shit, I might start pretending to accidently come across the Roosh Forum and start making fun of pick up artists!

I have a "date file" on my laptop. It has all the songs, websites, YouTube videos, documentary clips, and other stuff that I might need to use on my date. I don't wait until she is back at my place and then just start searching around online. I have this all organized before she ever enters my condo! I love high tech seduction. We don't need to entertain her all by ourselves anymore. We have Youtube, Google, etc. to help set the mood for us.

[pitt]

Giovonny nice post, i have accidently done that with many girls but i dont think i have ever used it as game or noticed how effective this strategy can be.

That is what i call game - first entertain and then you fuck them.

[Parlay44]

I've been dazzling them with a tumbling icons app called Barrel and different colored pop up messages on my iPhone. You have to jailbreak it to get the cool free apps. They always call me to hook up their phones. It pays to be a nerd sometimes.

[Vicious]

(03-21-2012 03:52 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

You need to create a date "play-list".

Videos, websites, songs, movie scenes, etc. that you have pre-selected. Obviously, choose the stuff that best allows you to get the bang.

Here is what I do..

1) I "Google" her astrology sign. This will list her strengths, weaknesses, passions, fears, etc. We discuss over drinks. Then we "Google" mine. This alone could take 2 hours.

Woah! I can imagine how this is GOLDEN in asia. Asian chicks just eat this up!

[tjuan]

Use different browsers to hide your history, most visited, etc.
Using the laptop is much better than going for 'the movie'; there's breaks, you get up to change a video and reposition yourself she leans up to load a video and you catch her when she leans back (movies, she's settled and not moving as much), if I have her positioned well and the kino is good I'll play a longer video to avoid a break. I hate doing movie and her body language is, sitting away legs pointed to me, makes me want to turn the movie off and walk her out, if that's her body language starting the youtube, no big deal, it's easier to change and you can change the videos to suit what mood you want.

[BortimusPrime]

Remembering to turn off my bittorrent porn d/ls is always an issue.

[speakeasy]

(03-21-2012 03:52 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

You need to create a date "play-list".

Videos, websites, songs, movie scenes, etc. that you have pre-selected. Obviously, choose the stuff that best allows you to get the bang.

Here is what I do..

1) I "Google" her astrology sign. This will list her strengths, weaknesses, passions, fears, etc. We discuss over drinks. Then we "Google" mine. This alone could take 2 hours.

2) I play my favorite songs and hers. Go on Youtube to find videos. Continue drinking.

This should be all you need to get things going and get physical!

If you need more material, here are some more options..

3) Ask her about her favorite movies, documentaries, and books. Google them, Youtube them, Wikipedia them. Watch, drink, discuss..

4) Playfully sexualize things. Things like "Hot or Not", "Ashley Madison" "Craigslist", Sports Illustrated "Swimsuit edition", The Miss Universe website. Pretend that you just accidently stumbled across an article about one of these websites. Pretend to make fun of them. Say, "do people really do this stuff". This is just to sexualize the conversation

Shit, I might start pretending to accidently come across the Roosh Forum and start making fun of pick up artists!

I have a "date file" on my laptop. It has all the songs, websites, YouTube videos, documentary clips, and other stuff that I might need to use on my date. I don't wait until she is back at my place and then just start searching around online. I have this all organized before she ever enters my condo! I love high tech seduction. We don't need to entertain her all by ourselves anymore. We have Youtube, Google, etc. to help set the mood for us.

Giovanni, can you share some of the things on your list? I think this is good to have as a reference. I once used the hel-looks.com site that Roosh often links too on his twitter. Have have some great laughs with that.

I did something pretty fun recently. I was telling a girl about personality types and she was really intrigued. We then sat next to each other on the couch and I opened my laptop and she took the test(meyer briggs). Took maybe 20 minutes and there's plenty of opportunities to joke at the way she answers questions. Then I guessed what her personality would be by the way she answers things and I came pretty close to right. Of course I was working heavy kino while this was going on and we were drinking wine.

As for showing photos, I've found that it's more effective to take maybe 30 of your proudest travel photos and have them printed out. There's something so much more personal about having something she can hold in her hand than viewing on an LCD screen.

[Blunt]

(03-21-2012 03:52 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

You need to create a date "play-list".

Good ideas Giovonny. I need to organize my bookmarks anyways and this sounds like a good idea.

What kind of movie scenes do you put on there? I think if I just went with my favorites they'd all be violent or crime-related.

[Cr33pin]

As juvenile as it may sound i travel with my xbox360 an kinect an it has been golden for banging chicks. I bring it cause its my dvd player, i can stream movies, an i have all my music on it. But i also have the Karaoke games (which ofcourse here in Asia has been a hit) and i have the kinect Dance Central 2 game which you both dance an it so breaks the ice (keep in mind i bang young chicks) I have girls texting me after i bang them asking if they can come over an play xbox. An ofcourse i always bang again or get head. The kinect has the voice recognition shit so i talk to my xbox an it does what i tell it to an these girls look at me like im George fucking Jetson an i just flew to asia in a spaceship.

Its a easy way to get them back to the apartment to, im like hey wanna come over an sing some karaoke, or challenge them to a dance off...... just the way im doing it here in Asia.. altho it was a hit back in the USA to, i always had a house full of bitches getting wasted an dancing an singing

[Giovonny]

(03-21-2012 11:44 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

Giovanni, can you share some of the things on your list?

sure.

(03-22-2012 01:00 AM)Blunt Wrote:  

What kind of movie scenes do you put on there? I think if I just went with my favorites they'd all be violent or crime-related.

Well, it depends on the girl. Violence is not always a bad thing, alot of girls like to see guys fighting, either mma/boxing or street fights. Nothing too extreme though. I like to show girls videos of my own amateur and backyard boxing matches.

It sounds like you might be better off with something funny. Maybe a short clip of your favorite comedian telling a good joke. But keep it short, just a minute or two, you want to get back to talking.

Don't look at the computer for more then 2-3 minutes, use the computer to make her laugh or feel excitement, but don't let the computer capture her attention. Sip your drink, after a little while, play another one.

Also, funny scenes from your favorite movies and documentaries. Keep the mood "light", nothing to serious. A couple of minutes, tops!

Real pictures are better then online pics. Obviously, pre-select your best 40-50 pictures and have them ready . Be sure to include lots of family photos and shots of you as a kid.

I usually go in this order..

1) Astrology

2) Some of her/my favorite songs.

3) Videos of myself boxing.

(If you don't have an video of yourself doing something "alpha", I suggest you create some video like that, even if you have to stage it a little bit.

4) Movie scenes.

This should keep you occupied for an hour or 2, at which point you should be on your couch drinking and starting to fool around.

[dotbiz]

Great posts Giovonny! Too bad there's no function to favorite/save posts!

[speakeasy]

(03-22-2012 08:38 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

1) Astrology

2) Some of her/my favorite songs.

3) Videos of myself boxing.

(If you don't have an video of yourself doing something "alpha", I suggest you create some video like that, even if you have to stage it a little bit.

4) Movie scenes.

This should keep you occupied for an hour or 2, at which point you should be on your couch drinking and starting to fool around.

Very good stuff. I love the idea of having a video of you doing something alpha. Wish I had something recorded back when I was doing Krav Maga but too late now.

[Giovonny]

(03-22-2012 10:45 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

I love the idea of having a video of you doing something alpha. Wish I had something recorded back when I was doing Krav Maga but too late now.

Every man should have a collection of photos and videos that show him doing alpha shit. Especially, nowadays with social media giving us the opportunity to display our "alphaness" without even getting off the couch.

Here is what I would do:

1) Join an MMA/Boxing/Krav Maga gym

2) Get yourself into great shape.

3) Take photos and video of yourself sparring and training.

4) When you are absolutely in the best shape that you can get in, take off your shirt and do an interview, make up the questions yourself so that you can give great answers. do this right after a workout so that you are sweaty and ripped. Maybe have on a headband, have a cut on your face, or be bleeding just a little to add some flavor!

5) Be creative and have fun with it. Set it to music and use your video editing software to make it as "Hollywood" as possible.

6) Post short clips of this on your Facebook, etc. and have photos and videos ready for when girls come to your place.

Advanced techniques:

1) Get your amateur license and get real fights. This is alot easier then it sounds. It cost about 50 bucks for the license and after about a month of training they will match you up with another beginner. Obviously, take alot of video and photos. This will do alot for your confidence and also get you alot of p*ssy if you find ways to casually display the pics and vid.

2) Bungee-jump, skydive, do extreme sports and of course, get it on video.

3) Stage a fake fight. Grab a few friends and pretend that your a filming a fight scene for a movie. Plan it out and practice it - just like it was professional wrestling. Purposely make the video shaky and lower quality so it looks more authentic. Keep it short and sweet. Girls won't know it's staged!

[bface]

LOL at the wanna-be fighter thing

Don't step into a ring unless you are training seriously. And no good coach will let you fight after one month (unless you are in Thailand of course).

Why fake being alpha? What about having a life and doing this stuff for real?

[Parlay44]

(03-24-2012 09:25 AM)bface Wrote:  

LOL at the wanna-be fighter thing

Don't step into a ring unless you are training seriously. And no good coach will let you fight after one month (unless you are in Thailand of course).

Why fake being alpha? What about having a life and doing this stuff for real?

[Giovonny]

(03-24-2012 09:25 AM)bface Wrote:  

LOL at the wanna-be fighter thing

Don't step into a ring unless you are training seriously. And no good coach will let you fight after one month (unless you are in Thailand of course).

Why fake being alpha? What about having a life and doing this stuff for real?

This is not about beating up guys! This is about beating up pussy!

I'm trying to give guys some ideas on good videos/pictures to show girls. I think the best videos/pics to show are of yourself doing something alpha.

If you don't have any videos like that, you might want to produce some yourself. It doesn't matter if you are really alpha or not, it only matters if you get the pussy! Appearing as alpha is actually a big part of game..

Half the guys with tattoos are not alpha, they got tattoos to appear more alpha..

Half the guys with nice cars are not alpha, they got the car to appear more alpha..

Half the guys with fancy clothes are not alpha, they got the clothes to appear more alpha..

Half the guys with big muscles are not alpha, they got those muscles to appear more alpha..

Half the guys with game are not alpha, they learned game to appear more alpha..

Isn't it really just about how you present yourself?

In this case, we are talking about a short, 3-4 minute video clip that you will show to a girl while you are both sitting on your couch drinking and flirting.

(03-24-2012 09:25 AM)bface Wrote:  

And no good coach will let you fight after one month (unless you are in Thailand of course).

So, the Thai coaches agree with me on that.

So on one hand, you were sort of suggesting that my idea was invalid..

but on the other hand, you probably paid thousands of dollars to go to Thailand and what happened?

The Thai coaches agree with me!

I would have told you for free..