In an ideal place where we are all rockstars, this doesn't come up.
But, for those of us who aren't Ultra-Macs yet, this tends to pop up often (in my experience at least).
At first, when "My Ex-boyf blah blah" would come up, I'd think "Ok, it's over," because anytime those words were uttered, I never got to see her utters.
But, it comes up so often, I now have a hunch that it is a conscious shit test.
Like tonight.
I was walking on the street and "day"-gamed a girl with an elderly opener- "Do you know what time it is?
She pulled out her iphone, so I went into my iphone ramble.
She wasn't the best beauty in the barn, but eventually, she started dropping bait on me like: "when I was in France blah blah"
I suggested that we walk together, and when we got to her block, I asked if I could use her bathroom.
She said: "Ok, but just so you know, I live with four girls."
YESSSSSS
We get upstairs, I actually use the bathroom, and we start chatting. She shares a room with another girl.
The front door opens, and, lo and behold, it's a much hotter girl- the roommate.
Body language hints from the roommate that she's attracted to me, or is at the very least, jealous or curious as to who the mysterious (she got a little "scared" when she first saw me) stranger is with her less attractive friend.
I talk with both of them, and soon after the hot girl mentions her ex.
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I think the timing of the response to this is crucial, because if you have to think about what to say, it means she's ahead of you.
So, I need a go-to/guick response for when a girl mentions the ex.
My sense is that the thing that shuts it down also opens her up.
But, for those of us who aren't Ultra-Macs yet, this tends to pop up often (in my experience at least).
At first, when "My Ex-boyf blah blah" would come up, I'd think "Ok, it's over," because anytime those words were uttered, I never got to see her utters.
But, it comes up so often, I now have a hunch that it is a conscious shit test.
Like tonight.
I was walking on the street and "day"-gamed a girl with an elderly opener- "Do you know what time it is?
She pulled out her iphone, so I went into my iphone ramble.
She wasn't the best beauty in the barn, but eventually, she started dropping bait on me like: "when I was in France blah blah"
I suggested that we walk together, and when we got to her block, I asked if I could use her bathroom.
She said: "Ok, but just so you know, I live with four girls."
YESSSSSS
We get upstairs, I actually use the bathroom, and we start chatting. She shares a room with another girl.
The front door opens, and, lo and behold, it's a much hotter girl- the roommate.
Body language hints from the roommate that she's attracted to me, or is at the very least, jealous or curious as to who the mysterious (she got a little "scared" when she first saw me) stranger is with her less attractive friend.
I talk with both of them, and soon after the hot girl mentions her ex.
------
I think the timing of the response to this is crucial, because if you have to think about what to say, it means she's ahead of you.
So, I need a go-to/guick response for when a girl mentions the ex.
My sense is that the thing that shuts it down also opens her up.