Quote: (03-21-2012 03:17 AM)jerome Wrote:
Samseau is right on...he understand alpha on a deep level...he understand the relationship dynamics between a alpha man and a women.
Either the guy dominates the relationship or the women will run free...
Thats just how it is...I wish it wasn't true. I wish I could be nice to girls...be romantic and tell her how much I adore her....Than again that could be my feminist programming speaking....blocking my male alphaness.
I learn along time ago, like Samseau, that you have to dominate the girl in order to get what you want. If you don't...hell will break loose...
you must bend her over!
When you say you learned a long time ago..... 10 years ago? 20 years ago? what is a long time ago? Last year?
I just graduated New York Film Academy for Acting.... there are many parallels to real life in acting. For example, there is a saying, "Don't act, Be." All of us can tell bad acting, someone who is trying to act brave but isnt really, or someone who is acting confident but we all know isnt. Or a Tranny who is trying so hard to act feminine that he/she comes out way over the top. Confident, dominant guys dont act confident/dominant they just are.
This happens in the PUA community, guys feel like they have to out "alpha" other guys, they go around acting all cocky and confident which in turn makes them look very "beta".
Lets stay with the movie theme for a moment and pick Oceans 11. Brad pitt, George clooney, Matt damon, Bernie mac, Andy Garcia, and a host of other very "alpha" males. Do you think they were going around on set and trying to "out alpha" each other? Of course not. Do you think they Dominated the women on set? Did they have to Dominate Julia roberts? (which if you want to bring up some preselection jargon, she already has just as high value as they do) Of course not. Thier natural dominant state of being is what attracts women.
The thought process that you have to dominate a woman is a novice thought. A beginner thought. Like a person who first learns a bit of martial arts then thinks he is a bad ass, and needs to go around and prove it.
I dont have to dominate a woman(just like I dont have to or want to fight, but after 20 years of various martial arts I can), most men on this board who are really good with women are dominant. You dont impose that on other people, its a state of being. The fact that you feel like you have to dominante women, or even other men in the room, proves you are not dominant. Thats insecurity.
In fact, you will find as you mature, you can be a very dominant male, and still be a nice guy. About 7-8 years ago I used to travel with one of my jiu jitsu instructors(a grace cousin) we talked about game a bit. He used to ask me why I played these games, and to just be nice. He was regularly shaggin 9's. He suggested for a week that I play no more of my PUA games and do only 3 things. Be nice, be confident, be true to yourself (ie honest and say what you think). It worked very well, even better then my PUA games. I learned then, nice does not = weak, Nice + dominant/confident male= a lot of pussy, and quality pussy, not some slut I picked up in a bar, that went home with a different guy every night that week.
@ Handsome Creepy Eel, I will be the first to argue that anything can be done. People have been hit by lighting twice and survived. Saying you have seen it happen and saying it is easily repeatable are 2 completely seperate things.
I am even a fan of having unobtainablevirtually impossible goals. Its the flippancy and ease of which Sam thinks his fantasy is going to be had. Its like a kid graduating from college thinking they are going to create world peace and that all people can be reasoned with. Its just not reality. In most of your situation type examples that I have seen there are major mental issues involved with the girl. Usually daddy issues, or molestation issues. That type of girl is just as likely to cut his balls off one day when she loses it and realizes he is a man whore
Any way, I have too much time on my hands today.