Quote: (01-26-2014 11:09 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:
As a guy from a Russian family who immigrated to the Stares as a kid. What I can tell you is this. They will warm up to you if you are colder than them. Always act cold, distant, and in deep thought. Also NEVER break that composure ever. At most add in a smile or a chuckle here and there. It helps to be stoic with them. Thought I might give in some input even though this thread is dead.
We have a winner!!!!
As a dark skin black guy who likes eastern euro chicks (slavic girls, russia/ukranie) I can tell you that what did said is one of the key factors. Being an "Ice Queen" yourself which I was aware of about 5 years ago since I couldn't accept the fact that the RUSSIAN GUYS were with such hotties. If you notice their demeanor they are more "ice queen" than the woman AND then you see the woman trying to entice them but they aren't even fazed.
The other key factors I've noticed in my own personal experience...
- If you are an approval seeker, validation junkie, IOI fiend, or professional calibrator you will simply be in a SHIT SITUATION. Most russians maintain a "ice queen" demeanor BUT so much shit is going on in their head. Just let them mindfuck themselves and be you.
- Be CONGRUENT to how you are especially if you give off that uncontrollable and unpredictable vibe. Eastern euros FAV LINE is "your crazy" which basically means I FUCKING LIKE YOU!!!!!
- CHALLENGING CHALLENGING and o yea CHALLENGING!!! I guess you can say this is the equivalent of being a strong man. I tend to call women out alot and sorta test them. Most women are not used to this ESPECIALLY russian chicks who are used to men thinking "she doesn't like me" due to her ice queen demeanor
Once they realize they can be comfortable you'll start to see more expression BUT thing is to always remain YOU. For instance, an estonian chick I met about a month ago one night I got very drunk and didn't even know I ran into her. She called me the next day apologizing for slapping me and revealing I couldn't even walk, she just simply escorted me out and left me.
WELL, she sorta flaked one night and I ran into her that night. My glasses were foggy so she took them off started cleaning them. I'm just chilling there "poker face" looking around. She starts kissing me on the cheek and holding me as I'm chatting people. She was also apologizing for leaving me that night when I was blackedout. I realized she had realized however I was acting WAS NOT ME AWARE.
P.S...One thing I used to do that NO ONE DOES is go directly in these type of women face and just kiss them. Funny thing is whether they accept or not they have the same "poker face" demeanor haahhaha. I personally love women who have a "poker face".
P.S.S...To give you a visual, this is a rarity to see her "expressive" in such a manner. I have video of us having a hilarious back and forth that you'd NEVER NORMALLY SEE from a woman like this since she's used to being an "ice queen".