I go back and forth between hating and loving internet game. I'll go in a cycle as follows:
Get way too absorbed, frustrated by lack of quality, then deactivate account.
Try to get laid with residual numbers before I deactivate, usually get laid 1/3.
Get my shit together all week, reactivate account because I feel like I'm too strong to get absorbed again.
Have solid frame, message 15 girls, get 10 responses within two days, get laid by Thursday.
The cycle continues when I associate getting online with why I got laid, rather than the momentum giving me a great frame of mind. I get outcome oriented, become a refresh button zombie, cycle continues.
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If you use Roosh's Day Bang model and experiment a bit, you'll probably land where I did. No reason to reinvent the wheel; successful Internet game is just exacerbated day game with the ego boosting of night game. With a solid profile, indirect works tenfold over direct because every dude grows a pair of balls when all you have to do is wiggle your fingers on a keyboard.
I've gotten probably 200-300 numbers and 40 notches from okc in the past 2.5 years, mostly 5-7 quality. Most notches were first date. Several were basically internet booty calls, especially after quick IM convos, in which case a more direct approach can actually be fruitful, since it satisfies their
need for charged, rapid fire entertainment.
Keep in mind I have a very good written profile, with above average picture quality (photos are cell phone, Instagram is awesome for making shitty quality pictures look cool that's why girls do it). I agree with above poster that decently long descriptions are important. Don't look at girls profiles for examples, scope out the competition and learn from writing styles of good dude profiles, same as you would learn from alphas in person.
I also work with animals, and girls seriously eat that shit up. I haven't gotten good enough at rambling in person to big bait drop, but if how hard it hooks at night and Internet is any indication, it's gonna kill.
Here is my system:
1) The classic MM 3-second rule applies. Within three seconds of looking at her photos, make a funny observation/confused question. Do not read her profile at all.
2) Use whatever texting timing rule you are mos comfortable with, I like Roosh's +/- 25% response time.
3) Conversation combines 1 and 2. If you get a reply quickly check the time elapsed and then close out, when enough time passes read her most recent message only and apply 1.
4) Go for number after she gives a couple solid IOI's, usually after 3-4 replies from her side, continue convo for about a sentence.
"We should grab a drink and chat."
Another short sentence about a thing to chat about.
6) She'll respond with definitely/sure/I'd like that/etc, maybe give you her availability.
7) Cool what's your #? I'm busy with [intersting project] all week but I should be good by Sunday. I'm BarkChompson btw.
8) This last part I'm not sure about how because it goes into text game which I'm mediocre at, at best. She gives her number, I text her within 24 hours (48 is too long, with lack of physical interaction it's important you're still fresh in her mind, haven't found sweet spot yet).
Make a fake girl profile, you'll learn quickly how shitty 95% of dudes are at this (not exaggerating). Whereas they usually just open their laptops, type up some words and then get rewarded with pornstars with jizz on their faces and then expect all girls to want their dicks because the last computer girl did.
A solid conversation during the date will be their experience with Internet dating experience so far. Either they haven't actually met up with someone ever, which is common once you get good, or they have been on a couple shitty dates. They may have had some one night stands, but they won't tell you even if they are totally dtf (there are a lot of other signs that are pretty obvious so it's not that important). Then it's really easy to separate yourself from the shit-crowd and go from there.
Happy Hunting
Get way too absorbed, frustrated by lack of quality, then deactivate account.
Try to get laid with residual numbers before I deactivate, usually get laid 1/3.
Get my shit together all week, reactivate account because I feel like I'm too strong to get absorbed again.
Have solid frame, message 15 girls, get 10 responses within two days, get laid by Thursday.
The cycle continues when I associate getting online with why I got laid, rather than the momentum giving me a great frame of mind. I get outcome oriented, become a refresh button zombie, cycle continues.
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If you use Roosh's Day Bang model and experiment a bit, you'll probably land where I did. No reason to reinvent the wheel; successful Internet game is just exacerbated day game with the ego boosting of night game. With a solid profile, indirect works tenfold over direct because every dude grows a pair of balls when all you have to do is wiggle your fingers on a keyboard.
I've gotten probably 200-300 numbers and 40 notches from okc in the past 2.5 years, mostly 5-7 quality. Most notches were first date. Several were basically internet booty calls, especially after quick IM convos, in which case a more direct approach can actually be fruitful, since it satisfies their
need for charged, rapid fire entertainment.
Keep in mind I have a very good written profile, with above average picture quality (photos are cell phone, Instagram is awesome for making shitty quality pictures look cool that's why girls do it). I agree with above poster that decently long descriptions are important. Don't look at girls profiles for examples, scope out the competition and learn from writing styles of good dude profiles, same as you would learn from alphas in person.
I also work with animals, and girls seriously eat that shit up. I haven't gotten good enough at rambling in person to big bait drop, but if how hard it hooks at night and Internet is any indication, it's gonna kill.
Here is my system:
1) The classic MM 3-second rule applies. Within three seconds of looking at her photos, make a funny observation/confused question. Do not read her profile at all.
2) Use whatever texting timing rule you are mos comfortable with, I like Roosh's +/- 25% response time.
3) Conversation combines 1 and 2. If you get a reply quickly check the time elapsed and then close out, when enough time passes read her most recent message only and apply 1.
4) Go for number after she gives a couple solid IOI's, usually after 3-4 replies from her side, continue convo for about a sentence.
"We should grab a drink and chat."
Another short sentence about a thing to chat about.
6) She'll respond with definitely/sure/I'd like that/etc, maybe give you her availability.
7) Cool what's your #? I'm busy with [intersting project] all week but I should be good by Sunday. I'm BarkChompson btw.
8) This last part I'm not sure about how because it goes into text game which I'm mediocre at, at best. She gives her number, I text her within 24 hours (48 is too long, with lack of physical interaction it's important you're still fresh in her mind, haven't found sweet spot yet).
Make a fake girl profile, you'll learn quickly how shitty 95% of dudes are at this (not exaggerating). Whereas they usually just open their laptops, type up some words and then get rewarded with pornstars with jizz on their faces and then expect all girls to want their dicks because the last computer girl did.
A solid conversation during the date will be their experience with Internet dating experience so far. Either they haven't actually met up with someone ever, which is common once you get good, or they have been on a couple shitty dates. They may have had some one night stands, but they won't tell you even if they are totally dtf (there are a lot of other signs that are pretty obvious so it's not that important). Then it's really easy to separate yourself from the shit-crowd and go from there.
Happy Hunting