Quote: (09-13-2012 05:34 AM)starmaze Wrote:
Can you give an example of GQ style you talk about?
This is the look I went for yesterday..
Instead of yellow, my sweater was purple. I love these cardigan sweaters with nice slacks and shoes.
This is my usual look..
The better I dress, the more girls are open to talking. The better I dress, the more value I project. The better I dress, the more girls open me, the better I dress, the more ioi's I get. The better I dress, the better the responses I get. The better I dress, the better I feel. The better I dress, the more numbers and dates I get.
THE BETTER I DRESS, THE BETTER MY GAME!!!
Clothes make a huge difference! From now on, I will almost always dress with GQ style like the guy in the first picture.
Quote: (09-13-2012 10:17 AM)Way Cool Jr Wrote:
What does really mean "dressing sharp" or the "GQ look"?
Do you guys mean casual chic look? Should I go out dressed like this?
This is pretty good. With the jacket on, he will look even better! I like the watch and bracelet. Gotta have good accessories!
Quote: (09-13-2012 10:17 AM)Way Cool Jr Wrote:
This is okay, but not GQ enough! I mean, its not bad, but, it doesn't really pop! You can do better then this. He needs a nice sweater and a skinny tie or something. This is too simple and plain.
Quote: (09-13-2012 11:07 AM)Thug Muffin Wrote:
The Yad Stop( run from behind) to me embodies what a dominant masculine male would do when a hot girl walks by him.
Girl catches me eye while I'm out. I turn around and run after her because I'm a man and go after what I want. I get in front of her because my presence commands attention. The stop alone conveys you have a huge set of balls.
I will experiment more with this.
Quote: (09-13-2012 11:07 AM)Thug Muffin Wrote:
More or less they are the same model but Krauser seems to go with a more masculine feel which I identify more with. There were parts in Krauser's book where I would have liked to seen more examples. The blueprint helped fill in the blanks for me.
http://www.daygame.com
http://forms.daygame.com/wp-content/uplo...-Model.jpg
Thanks
Quote: (09-13-2012 10:34 AM)slubu Wrote:
Gio, break down some of those college campus approaches. I can see style making a huge difference.
The difference was amazing!
Here are the 10 approaches I did yesterday while dressed up in slim slacks, nice shoes and cardigan sweater..
#1
Got out of my car, saw a cute half asian-half white girl walking, I timed it so we would get to the corner at the same time. I walked along side her, just in front of her for a few seconds to let her observe me. As we approached the corner, I slowed down to let her catch up..
me: nice dog tag
her: oh this (touching her necklace)
me: ya i have the same one (showing her my similar black dog tag)
her: we have good taste
me: haha what class do you have?
her: english
me: do you like english
her: no i hate it
me: what class do you like?
her: im a math person
me: well, you can't be great at everything i guess
her: what class do you have
me: im doing a workshop for some athletes
her: oh cool
me: are you from san francisco?
her: no im from the east bay
me: are you freezing over here?
her: yes!
We walked onto campus and chatted. She was giving me good eye contact and asking me questions. Then she stopped walking..
her: my class is in this building
me: oh okay, im going this way
her: nice talking with you
me: we should do it again something
her: it was really nice chatting with you but im with someone
me: oh too bad, are you sure you don't need a friend like me?
her: haha its probably better if i don't
me: k see you around.
Maybe I could have pushed it further. But, I let it go. I felt good because this was my first approach of the day, literally seconds after I got out of my car. She gave me a good response. I knew the clothes were helping already.
#2
I was in the library. A group of 4 girls walked past me, one of them smiled at me. We held eye contact for a second or two. They went to sit at a table. I stood in front of a coffee stand and pretended to be texting, I kept my eye on her trying to think of a way to approach. She got up and went to get some napkins by herself. I walked right over and met her face to face. When we locked eyes, we both kind of smiled again..
me: hey
her: hey
me: what are you guys studying?
her: we are just brainstorming for english
me: oh thats nice its always more fun in a group
her: ya and less work
me: i though maybe we knew each other?
her: i don't know
me: maybe i just smiled because you looked cute
her: thanks
me: where are you from
her: la
me: ya how long have you been up here?
her: this is my first year
me: how you liking it?
her: its great so far
me: sf is a fun place, so much to explore
her: its very interesting
me: what are you italian?
her: no im persian
me: persian? you look white
her: i know im mixed with german
me: oh shit persian and german watch out!
her: haha what are you?
me: latin and white
her: good mix
me: ha thanks whats your name
her: vanessa
me: im gio. im thinking we should hang out sometime
her: sure
Gave me her number. Energy was good. Good prospect.
#3
Beautiful brown skin girl. Dressed in all white. Great body. Walking through the library. She goes into an elevator by herself, I'm right behind her. Perfect! I enter the elevator..
me: hi
her: what floor?
me: 4th please
her: ok
me: thanks, you look nice today
her: thank you
me: what nationality are you
her: palistinian
me: oh i see, palistinaieans are pretty
her: you think so?
me: i do now!
The elevator door opened. She started to get off.
me: im gonna get off here because i want to ask you something
her: ok
me: i know this is crazy but are you single? i'd like to call you sometime.
her: well, actually im not, but im flattered, thank you
me: really? (pretending to be disappointed)
her: yes
me: oh well
Again, even though she claimed to have a bf, I knew the clothes were helping. I was getting pretty good responses from these girls.
#4
I was walking through the dorms. I see a cute filapina with a hot little body..
me: excuse me
her: ya
me: where is the gym around here?
her: oh its just around the corner
me: ok thanks
her: sure
me; i can see you have been working out, you are in great shape
her: oh haha i ran track in high school
me: where at?
her: in la, eaglerock
me: oh thats a nice part of la right?
her: ya i guess
me: are you asian?
her: ya filapina
me: you are kind of cute
her: thanks
me: wanna hang out sometime
her: oh i don't think so
me: do you think im too old for you or something
her: no its just you know
me: thats ok i was just kidding!
her: haha
me: but now im serious, can i call you later
her: sorry
No luck. She was cute. On to the next one.
#5
I'm exiting the dorms. A girl opens me..
her: nice cardigan
me: thank you
We both stop. There is a little tension and chemistry. Perfect!!
me: i was just gonna stop you and tell you nice skirt
her: oh i read your mind
me: you are psychic
her: maybe
me: you look great, i can tell you've been working out
her: thank you
me: are you done for the day
her: yes and im a little sick so um going home to nap
me: oh yes go eat and rest.
her: i need to
me: make some juice
her: i just got a juicer
We chat a little more about school and music. Then I say..
me: are we going to see each other again?
her: i think thats a good idea
I take her number. Another good prospect.
#6
About 2 minutes later, I am crossing the street, I see a cutie, I do a Krauser type approach..
We are walking opposite directions. I touch her arm..
me: excuse me
her: yes
me: the reason i stopped you is because you look very nice today, whats your name?
her: angela
me: angela, im gio where are you from?
her: riverside
me: oh you must be cold up here
her: actually i like it
me: you like or natural air conditioning?
her: yes, i was sick of the heat
me: well you came to the right place
her: i know
me: are you latina?
her: latina and asian
me: interesting
Blah, blah, blah.
me: I like to take you out sometime
her: i don't know
me: you think you are too young for me?
her: no its just that, well..
me: no worries
She wasn't interested. But, I love that style of approach.
#7
Girl is smoking a cig, she has on a weird but cool sweater. Its a little crowded so I walk right in front of her and almost brush against her..
me: i like your shawl
her: oh thanks, its a poncho
me: haha thats the old fashioned way of saying it
her: haha i still say poncho
me: its different
her: thats why i like it
me: you remind me of fleetwood mac
her: the singer?
me: ya
her: why?
me: you dress like her, mysterious and sexy
her: i need to check her out
me: ya you would love her
her: do you like her music?
We talk for about 10 minutes about music and groups that we like. We make a connection based on music.
me: when are we gonna drink beer and listen to music together
her: you wanna take my number
Another good prospect in the funnel.
#8
Hot white girl. Yoga pants. I time it so we arrive at the walking path at the same time..
me: what are those furry things on your bag?
her: oh those are rabbits feet.
me: they match your bag
her: ya they do huh
me: were you exercising?
her: no i just like to be comfortable at school
me: you have an accent
her: im from the ukraine
me: oh how long have you been here?
her: 10 years
me: oh you are almost american then
her: not really
We chat about school and ukraine. She is giving me good eye contact and not trying to end the conversation. I help her find an office.
me: should we hang out again sometime
her: thanks but i have a bf
Whatever! Next!
#9
Another cute latina walking past me. Another Krauser type approach..
me: excuse me
her: yes
me: you look nice today, i love your feminine walk and your funny style.
her: haha thank you
She just looked at me waiting to see what I would say next.
me: are you from around here.
her: no fresno
me: oh i have alot of family there
her: really?
Blah, blah, blah
me: lets grab a beer together something
her: only as freinds
me: oh no
her: i have a bf
Fuck! Next!
#10
I'm at the store. Cute white girl. Blond. Tight jeans. I do what I always do when I see a cute girl at the store. I grab whatever item she is looking at. She is looking at lunch meat. I step right in next to her and grab some salami..
me: you eat this stuff?!?
her: well, not the salami, i get turkey
me: oh ok, i was gonna ask you how you stay in such great shape
her: I just eat the turkey plain
me: you look like you have good genetics also
her: i hope so
me: where you from?
her: san diego
me: i love sd, i have fam in ocean beach
her: ha ocean beach is crazy
me: ya we are crazy people haha
her: ha what do you do with all that salami?
me: its for my dad, he likes salami sandwiches
her: oh
me: what are you studying?
her: literature
me: oh, what are your reading now?
Yadda, yadda, yadda
We had pretty good energy and a decent connection.
me: wanna have coffee or a beer together sometime?
her: sorry, im with someone
I didn't push it.
The main thing with these approaches is that I got a great response from almost every girl. I was direct without being aggressive and forceful. I simply stated my intentions and observations as a man. I went after what I wanted without being needy.
I got a few good prospects. This was 100% better then my recent day out with Slubu.
The difference? My clothes! And, my approach!
With Slubu, I was all over the map, direct, indirect, neutral. I didn't have a game plan. I think girls could sense the uncertainty in my mind. I was mostly hiding my intentions. Then I would reveal my true intentions a few minutes into the conversation. I was inconsistent and incongruent. When I did go direct, my appearance and wardrobe did not match up to my forwardness.
The GQ look made everything seem to work. The more direct approaches matched my wardrobe. I came across as more attractive. Shit, I felt more attractive. Girls responded better.
Now, I need a new watch and a few new outfits.
I'm telling you guys, DRESS NICE AND USE A KRAUSER TYPE OF APPROACH!!! IT WORKS!
I am finally breaking through to higher level of day game..