Quote: (08-04-2015 08:30 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:
There are only 168 hours in a week.
After you subtract out
- sleep
- work
- school
- eating
- working out?
- hobbies
- errands?
1) How much time do you have to go out and talk to women? 8-10 hours per week? Concentrated on the weekend?
WIA
Barely any, so I speak to whichever women look attractive where-ever I am.
This is because I am in a relationship so I don't go out at nights looking for pussy when I got pussy at home. I also just roll with my homies on weekends if not with the missus.
My personal time is my personal time, teaching myself skills to be my own boss and playing music and stuff.
If I have a few gigs and stuff at clubs, then this takes up my weekend time but I have been too busy even for this.
- In queues, in elevators, grocery stores, at the gym -> speed game (false time constraint implied) + stupid question to open and use it to hook into a number. This way I just incorporate it into my daily routine.
Total per week: 3 hours, business days. 8 hours if you want to count gym and yoga.
- Coffee shops, markets etc. -> normal indirect game but takes longer so not so much. This used to be my forte, sit next to the hottest girl and ask her to look after my shit when I smoke (compliance) and then take it from there. 1 hour session of writing and flirting, escalate and insta-date or day2.
Markets: Usually with girlfriend so freebie hustle. This keeps her mouth shut as well.
Coffee-shops: Alone and do it with students really.
Total per week: 4 hours, depending on who I am with.
I used to be quite direct but I switched to indirect verbals (plausible deniability) and direct body language and eye contact. More disarming and fits into 'day-game'. Really, just comes down to your calibration and how multifaceted you can be + how fast you can distinguish down girls from spectators.
In a relationship, I am quite satisfied that I don't really spend time anymore. It's been over a year now that I stopped making a distinction between night game and day game.
I just flirt and enjoy myself with any women I see. If I notice a chink and can get laid with minimal effort, I will take digits and 'water the plants' -> take it from there. Normally though, I just get free haircuts, discounted prices etc. from girls I meet like this.
I either a) fuck them by being 'around' (VK's python game) or b) use them to claim 'benefits'
My girl will occasionally question me as to how I know girls who work in certain places and get free shit and stuff, that's as big as a bonus as getting laid in my eyes.
Considering how anal I am with my time, I am quite happy with my current set-up.
Got a free haircut lined up with an 20yo 8 who just broke up with her bf.
Got a free pass for a +1 for my yoga class.
This is how I spend my time. Fuck where I want based on my normal routine and leveraging my game with girls I can trust, hence I don't spam approach or be super direct, especially during the day. Where I cannot keep it on the downlow, I leverage it into value to those around me.
This takes up 12 hours if gym included (get gym buddies where my girl doesn't have access) or 6 hours on the side.
Weekends reserved for sports, family, activities with girlfriend, my own shit.
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2) Do you incorporate modern technology to increase your exposure?
Not to increase exposure as I deleted Tinder and never bothered with online dating (I don't trust online as much nor will I find my future 'wife' at a bar/online. I like to see what I am getting).
I use technology to 'water the plants' to keep me fresh in the minds. I did a post on social media game elsewhere (brazilianguy's thread) where I touched on how I use technology.
Technology (whatsapp) will take up 20 minutes a day. Facebook a bit more but that's not with bitches, just mates overseas.
I Skype some of my girls overseas once every 2 months, ends up being a 2 hour discussion or so. 'Watering the plants' so when I travel, I got places to crash.