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11-12-2013, 12:49 AM
Only 80% of men? That means a lot of men have ED. How do you not orgasm during sex?
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11-12-2013, 03:39 AM
Quote: (11-12-2013 12:49 AM)J.J. Wrote:
Only 80% of men? That means a lot of men have ED. How do you not orgasm during sex?
It isn't hard to imagine.
1. You're drunk (whiskey dick)
2. Girl you brought home to hookup with isn't that hot (you brought her home anyway because of your beer goggles and the fact that you just wanted a notch)
3. You're using protection (undermines experience for a lot of men and makes keeping excitement slightly more challenging, but usually has to be tolerated for safety's sake during sex outside of a relationship).
4. Girl is also drunk and/or just not that good at sex (ex: starfish in bed, poor BJ, etc), further undermining experience.
In a given hookup, it is easy for a guy to face all of the above and therefore fail to orgasm and/or have a hard time keeping it up throughout the encounter. Been there.
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11-12-2013, 04:07 AM
It makes sense to me. Just like women usually have to feel some sort of emotional connection to want to fuck, where as men will stick their dicks in anything that looks good (and many men don't even have that high of standards).
Regarding 20% of men not having orgasms. I can see it. I don't have ED, but sometimes I just have trouble reaching an orgasm, grant it 75% of the time it's because I'm drunk, but even sober, unless I'm really feeling the girl, sometimes it's just not easy for me to bust. I've found at certain times it's easier than others. For example, when I've had a long hard day at work and I'm exhausted, I can bust a nut fairly easy and usually those nuts feel the best. The women love it though when I can fuck them for an hour of two straight. I feel like I've owned their pussies.
When it comes down to it, I also enjoy sex more with a girl I have a strong connection with. I've had better sex with girls I've really liked than girls who looked better than them.
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11-12-2013, 05:14 AM
Now let's pass some laws where a woman not having an orgasm from one night stand = rape.
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11-12-2013, 05:15 AM
These women haven't hooked up with me yet.
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11-12-2013, 05:55 AM
Quote: (11-12-2013 03:39 AM)Athlone McGinnis Wrote:
Quote: (11-12-2013 12:49 AM)J.J. Wrote:
Only 80% of men? That means a lot of men have ED. How do you not orgasm during sex?
It isn't hard to imagine.
1. You're drunk (whiskey dick)
2. Girl you brought home to hookup with isn't that hot (you brought her home anyway because of your beer goggles and the fact that you just wanted a notch)
3. You're using protection (undermines experience for a lot of men and makes keeping excitement slightly more challenging, but usually has to be tolerated for safety's sake during sex outside of a relationship).
4. Girl is also drunk and/or just not that good at sex (ex: starfish in bed, poor BJ, etc), further undermining experience.
In a given hookup, it is easy for a guy to face all of the above and therefore fail to orgasm and/or have a hard time keeping it up throughout the encounter. Been there.
Or mid-coitus (raw dog) she conveniently reminds you she isn't on the pill. Orgasm killer moment and my reaction:
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11-12-2013, 06:12 AM
Fast sex is somewhat similar to fast food. Tempting, spontaneous, cheap, no cooking involved, but you sometimes feel shitty afterwards.
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11-12-2013, 06:44 AM
Interesting survey. I disagree though that the finding is obvious.
We know that girls' hookups tend to be more attractive than their boyfriends - so its not obvious that they'd orgasm less with a hookup. Plus orgasms aren't everything for a woman. She'd still enjoy fucking say a male model even if she never came.
Alternately you could have said that sex in relationships is boring while sex in hookups is more dynamic and it would be plausible.
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11-12-2013, 09:30 AM
The guy with the hugging blonde landwhale looks like he is contemplating suicide. XD
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