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01-23-2012, 09:21 PM
I missed out on the 80s (I'm Simon's age) because I was too busy being a nice guy and also had a LTR that ultimately resulted in marriage.
However, after my divorce in 2001, I've done pretty well. South Florida is a fun place even now.
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01-24-2012, 07:31 PM
I estimate I'm in the 330s somewhere, but only in the last 10 years or so did I up my standards, I have nailed every bus station skank, but I have also banged the most beautiful, debutante, bus station skanks ; )
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01-29-2012, 04:19 AM
Too bad Blowjobs don't count.
I've had a lot of problems with Catholic chicks.. Anyone have advice on getting past all of their sex anxieties? Lot of LMR tonight. And it wasn't just a front. This girl was just not DTF. Her pussy was just not consistently wet like it should be.
I got tired of dealing with her LMR, so I settled with blowing in her mouth. Where do you guys draw the line with regards to effort? Is there a point that you reach where if she's not putting out, you're attempts begin to become DLVs?
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02-19-2012, 04:20 PM
P4P should count as triple
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02-19-2012, 10:14 PM
Quote: (01-29-2012 04:19 AM)soup Wrote:
Too bad Blowjobs don't count.
I've had a lot of problems with Catholic chicks.. Anyone have advice on getting past all of their sex anxieties? Lot of LMR tonight. And it wasn't just a front. This girl was just not DTF. Her pussy was just not consistently wet like it should be.
I got tired of dealing with her LMR, so I settled with blowing in her mouth. Where do you guys draw the line with regards to effort? Is there a point that you reach where if she's not putting out, you're attempts begin to become DLVs?
I think we all prefer instant hot and heavy chemistry. Most would put in some long term effort if there were a reasonable expectation of consummate reward. And a dry pussy is a hint that the reward won't be as great as if there were an instant hot and heavy chemistry.
You may put in a month of effort only to gain tepid sex. Or it may take months of tepid sex just to awaken her sexuality up to the level of moderate sex.
Is that worth it? Sure could be, if she doesn't get too much in the way of you seeing other girls in your agenda. The danger - even more than mediocre sex - is that she eventually eclipses your other options, without being better than your other options.
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02-20-2012, 10:34 AM
Age needs to be considered as a qualifier for this poll. Someone over forty with 100 notches might be considered average, but if you are under thirty and have over 100, then you are in a different league.
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02-20-2012, 02:21 PM
Quote: (02-20-2012 10:34 AM)jdelisi Wrote:
Age needs to be considered as a qualifier for this poll. Someone over forty with 100 notches might be considered average, but if you are under thirty and have over 100, then you are in a different league.
Good point about average per year being a better measure of notch count, but some people take years off of a player lifestyle at a time with bouts of serial monogamy. I think it's not so common for anyone to sustain a player lifestyle for decades. I've never heard of it actually - has anyone here? I think it's more common to at least alternate with bouts of monogamy, if not actually eventually stick with one girl.
And what is the lifetime average for men? Isn't it something like 8, or 12, or something quite low? The vast majority of men - the vast, vast majority, have no experience of either playing around, or non-monogamy. Am I wrong about that?
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10-03-2012, 05:28 PM
notch count =5 since losing virginity in february i am 19
Said she only fucked like 4 or 5 niggas so you know you gotta multiply by three
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10-04-2012, 03:05 AM
Something like 54:
2010 - 11 total
2011 - 21 total
2012 - 22 so far
in the past three years since I started reading up on the game. There was a whole bunch before that but I didn't keep track. My total is probably somewhere between 70-90.
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10-04-2012, 10:21 PM
Quote: (01-20-2012 01:29 PM)SimonRierdon Wrote:
Actually, if you were in the right place (Atlanta, Ft. Lauderdale, San Diego etc.) it was so damned easy to get laid in the eighties that me and my buds had a name for it, "Overlaid" [. . .] this was before AIDS [. . .]
Quote: (01-21-2012 09:18 PM)SimonRierdon Wrote:
1979 to 1990.
Simon Rierdon: Based on your statement about your approximate age, you're roughly the same age I am; and while I realize that the following is a harsh judgment, I have to say it anyway: A person would have to be a bit dense, and not have been paying attention to the news back then, to think that the period 1979 to 1990 was "before AIDS". AIDS was discovered and announced to the world in 1981, and while in the United States the disease was initially mostly restricted to gays, it was known pretty much from the start that there were other places, particularly sub-Saharan Africa and Haiti, where the disease had made significant inroads into the heterosexual community, and that a breakthrough into the American heterosexual community could come at any time. It was also immediately obvious that a lot of transmission of the disease had occurred in the several years prior to 1981. And it was only four years later, in 1985, that heterosexuals in the United States really started worrying about AIDS, based on increasing reports of heterosexual cases there.
I'm glad to hear you came down with nothing worse than a couple of cases of crabs during the period 1979-1990, but it sounds as if yours was a case of "ignorance is bliss". I turned down a lot of sexual opportunities during that time period because of my concern about AIDS (and also about herpes, which used to be a scarier disease than it is now). That may have been foolish of me, or it may not have, for various reasons that I won't take the time to discuss here.
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12-03-2012, 07:19 PM
bump
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12-04-2012, 04:09 AM
20-40, I'm actually lost right now on my count and will go through the numbers I've done throughout this year, it's been my most productive.
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12-04-2012, 11:01 AM
In my 20s - been to a series of LTRs for the past several years and starting to roaming again.
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07-03-2013, 11:11 PM
In 1995 I got out of the military and made a list of all the girls I had sex with whose names that I could remember. I was at 183. Those were the girls that I remembered. It helped a lot that I had photos with their names written on the back. I went into the Army 3 days after my 18th birthday, and anybody that's ever served will tell you that there are a lot of sluts around bases.
"Feminism is a trade union for ugly women"- Peregrine
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07-12-2018, 07:30 PM
First girl was when I was 18, and started to really get into game around 22-23 yrs old. I stopped keeping count around notch #60. I'd say it's now in the 80-100 range.