[Mo1337]

Hello all,
Quick question for everyone

Situation:
a girl that likes me came over to my room today apparently to chat, but ended up having sex with me. She ripped my clothes off and took her own bra and panties and threw them on the floor. After 45 min of banging she slowly stops me and says that "it hurts" and that she's tired and needs to go study (college). After we stopped, we cuddled and kissed and then she left. During this I did not actually CUM.

1- Why would a girl leave if she was enjoying it?

2- Have I committed a mistake as the alpha male in allowing her to control the sex when I was not satisfied?

3- Is this normal among girls to do this from your experience?

Thanks to all for your contribution.

[CJ]

1. That is pretty bizarre. How young was the girl? Was this the first time you banged her? You may not have been exciting her enough and she could've gotten dry or *yikes* bored.

2. Sounds like she is a control freak, and girls like that often like it when someone controls them. So you did make a mistake, but not a major one.

3. No, this is not normal. I've never had a girl stop because she said it "hurt." Any girl that indicated it "hurt" to me was always hurting in a good way and wanted more.

[The Duke]

45 mins of continuous banging is too long. there's a time and place for the 45 min of non-stop banging, but usually you want to time it so that you come after 10 to 15 minutes of banging. if you dont make her come during this window, she's probably not going to come. going longer runs the risk of it getting boring for her, or her getting sore. just get you nutt and stop. if you want to bang more, rest for a short while then go for a second session. IMO, girls prefer multiple 10-15 minute sessions over one super long session.

[Mo1337]

(01-17-2012 12:25 AM)CJ Wrote:  

1. That is pretty bizarre. How young was the girl? Was this the first time you banged her? You may not have been exciting her enough and she could've gotten dry or *yikes* bored.

2. Sounds like she is a control freak, and girls like that often like it when someone controls them. So you did make a mistake, but not a major one.

3. No, this is not normal. I've never had a girl stop because she said it "hurt." Any girl that indicated it "hurt" to me was always hurting in a good way and wanted more.

Thanks CJ for your input.
1- Yes it was the first time I bang her (second time of her actually having sex in her life - 20 years old). How do you prevent her from becoming dry and how do you avoid BOREDOM?

2- Should I push more next time, because she is controlling (wants to study and work all the time)

3- How do you get her to "good pain"?

Please be patient with these questions as I am a quite new to this and require advice.

[Mo1337]

(01-17-2012 12:40 AM)The Duke Wrote:  

45 mins of continuous banging is too long. there's a time and place for the 45 min of non-stop banging, but usually you want to time it so that you come after 10 to 15 minutes of banging. if you dont make her come during this window, she's probably not going to come. going longer runs the risk of it getting boring for her, or her getting sore. just get you nutt and stop. if you want to bang more, rest for a short while then go for a second session. IMO, girls prefer multiple 10-15 minute sessions over one super long session.

Thanks for your input.

I will try the 10-15 min period. On that, any special moves to get her to come this fast? (frequency of thrust, depth, longer foreplay...)

[wolf]

Was she Asian?

[Mo1337]

(01-17-2012 11:37 AM)wolf Wrote:  

Was she Asian?

No she is eastern European.

[WesternCancer]

ive had girls complain a few times from it hurting. usually a combo of dryness and banging extremely fast/hard.

i find they'd complain after a hefty fingerbang session.

[Parlay44]

Lube is your best friend. Keep some handy.

[CJ]

(01-17-2012 11:30 AM)Mo1337 Wrote:  

Thanks CJ for your input.
1- Yes it was the first time I bang her (second time of her actually having sex in her life - 20 years old). How do you prevent her from becoming dry and how do you avoid BOREDOM?

2- Should I push more next time, because she is controlling (wants to study and work all the time)

3- How do you get her to "good pain"?

Please be patient with these questions as I am a quite new to this and require advice.

Ok, this makes more sense now. I'm quite surprised she was that spontaneous in only her second sexual encounter. Anyway, that's why it hurt her.

Next time, I'd probably have a drink or two, just so she's more relaxed. Other than that you can try a variety of lubricants, like KY.

Try focusing on yourself too, so you at least get your nut. With you being only her second sexual experience she's probably not going anywhere anytime soon.

[Iceinthewater]

If you take a long time to cum, your challenge will be girls drying up after 20-30 minutes.

work on your sex talk game so that she won't dry up. when I say good stuff while I'm banging it makes girls gush:

"you turn me on so fucking much - you feel how hard I am for you?"
"Take this dick. get it in you sexy little woman"
"fuck your pussy is tight. I can feel you splitting open for me."

...some of the shit I say.

[Duke Castile]

Ice sex talk keeps it wet and pushes her over the edge to cum as you know.

Stuff I say:

"You were made for me to fuck"

"I love this tight pussy"

"are you going to be a good girl and cum for me?"

"I'm going to fill you up with my cum"

Stuff like that

I have also said freaky shit with good success

"I'm going to fucking get you pregnant"

"you want to have my babies don't you"

Of course the classic is "is this daddy's pussy?"

or "Is this my pussy baby?"

They love that shit. Gonna take a shower after telling dudes this haha

[Smitty]

(01-24-2012 06:33 PM)Fisto Wrote:  

Ice sex talk keeps it wet and pushes her over the edge to cum as you know.

Stuff I say:

"You were made for me to fuck"

"I love this tight pussy"

"are you going to be a good girl and cum for me?"

"I'm going to fill you up with my cum"

Stuff like that

I have also said freaky shit with good success

"I'm going to fucking get you pregnant"

"you want to have my babies don't you"

Of course the classic is "is this daddy's pussy?"

or "Is this my pussy baby?"

They love that shit. Gonna take a shower after telling dudes this haha

While I agree with everything Fisto says above, I ESPECIALLY agree with "I'm going to fucking get you pregnant." I've used a variation of this one many times and it always works. Women fuck harder and meaner (with passion) when you say that. And they don't even want to get pregnant. Use it the next time you're talking trash when you're fucking her...it works.