[thegspwarrior97]

Hi,
So this chick I just met, we made plans to go out this weekend. I am so friggin pissed, she tells me today that she can't hang out because she is going out of town and that she completely forgot about our plans. But she did apologize and said she will make it up to me next weekend.

Should I respond to this? Will that make me seem needy and desperate? If I should respond to this, what should I say? Or, should I just ignore her and wait for her to make contact?

Help appreciated.

[kerouac]

Were you born in 1997?

[thegmanifesto]

"I am so friggin pissed"

First off never get "friggin pissed".

Next more really depends on how hot she is, how many other girls you have cooking, what you have going on etc.

Please elaborate.

You could say "that's great, because I actually have to go to a Playboy Mansion party this weekend, so lets touch base the following week when I get back"

or

"Cool. I actually have tons of big biz deals to close this weekend. But you have to make it up to me next weekend starting with a massage over at my crib."

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

[charmer]

she is flake,and you are needy.

after she goes out of town..she will flake more,she wont meet you up even after that.

girls who leaves town and come after long period...they tend to get flaky on you with or without attraction.

[VonDoogan]

keep more than one bullet in the chamber, that way when you meet a new girl she is just vying for a spot on the rotation. this should help ensure you don't get "friggin' pissed." you've already put yourself in a terrible spot with that type of mindset, regardless of how you handle it.

[Trotter]

I have to point out that if she "forgot" about your date then it's because your game wasn't strong. You should have left a strong impression on her to where she's going out of her way not to miss the date.

Or.

She's just a bitch and giving you the run around. As the mantra goes move on.