[Parlay44]

(12-30-2011 09:38 AM)at350zguyy Wrote:  

update:

she comes over and i have how i met your mother on in the basement with the fireplace running. parlay, i tried to pull your moves on her by doing the massage, but she was having none of it. so i backed off for a while, then tried again about 15 minutes later. after that she fires back and tells me shes dating someone, so i told her to leave. she got really defensive and said she valued our friendship, so i told her im not in this to be friends, so go ahead and see yourself out. she left in tears. deleted her number for good.

You did good. You didn't give a fuck about her anyway so no loss on your part. Plus you didn't play by her rules.

I wouldn't have deleted her number though. The girl that pulled that shit with me texted me a few months later out of the blue and was DTF. So you never know.

It's funny how they'll let you massage them then suddenly drop that she's dating someone. You may have rushed her a little. No biggie. Lesson learned for the next one.

[at350zguyy]

this one played way too many games for my liking, so im better off not wasting my time with this one. as such there is another girl ive been with a few times who is way more open and always inviting me up to her place no questions, no resistance, just straightforward and to the point.

[esperar]

She wanted to put you in the friend zone, and you told her to fuck off. Good for you.

[Handsome Creepy Eel]

I tried the "You don't owe me anything" thing on a girl that was getting distant today, but even if she didn't get back to me (not enough attraction in the first place) I still think the line is genius and will be very useful later.

Kudos to at350guy for not falling for her games.

[Parlay44]

(12-30-2011 11:57 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  

I tried the "You don't owe me anything" thing on a girl that was getting distant today, but even if she didn't get back to me (not enough attraction in the first place) I still think the line is genius and will be very useful later.

Kudos to at350guy for not falling for her games.

Thanks man

The trick to that line is this: Most guys pursue girls and buy them shit hoping they'll get laid because the girls feel a sense of obligation ...like they owe you sex for dinner.

By saying she doesn't owe you anything subconsciously it gets inverted in her mind and she starts to feel that she does owe you something because you took the pressure off.

I learned that from studying psychology. If you give people 2 options and make it seem like it's ok to choose either they'll be more open to choose the one you wanted them to. It's fucked up but it works.

Pick up any book by Milton H. Erikson. Good stuff.

[Parlay44]

Handsome Creepy Eel ...try this one sometime as well:

"I'm not really into blowjobs ...I've never been able to cum from one."

You have to say it with a straight face though. Watch what happens

[at350zguyy]

i remember this concept from psychology classes in college, parlay. problem is that i only recently started to think more like this. appreciate all the help and feedback here from you guys.

[Parlay44]

(12-30-2011 02:43 PM)at350zguyy Wrote:  

i remember this concept from psychology classes in college, parlay. problem is that i only recently started to think more like this. appreciate all the help and feedback here from you guys.

Classes are one thing man. You have to take it upon yourself to put that knowledge to work. Read as much as you can in your spare time...this forum, books, anything that peaks your interest. Some books that I have ..I've read multiple times. It will sink in eventually. The concepts will become your beliefs and the words will just flow out of your mouth. It's a beautiful thing.

[at350zguyy]

no i definitely believe it. my years in grad school certainly didnt help me develop enough game.