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Do girls tell you that you seem judgmental?
11-27-2011, 04:01 PM
We're all judgemental to a certain extent. We have to make decisions about people in different contexts every day. The problem is that no one wants to be in the position of being judged, especially if they think your judgement is wrong. I do my best not to make snap judgements about people - I make decisions based on what people show me, and study how they interact with others to get an idea of who they are. My guess is that this chick meant it in a negative sense, but then again, chicks think everything is about them. Chicks are the most petty creatures alive, and they're ALWAYS making snap judgements about others. Tell her to stop whining.
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Do girls tell you that you seem judgmental?
11-27-2011, 04:17 PM
don't look at what she says, look at who she fucks. If it's judgmental men, you're on the right track and its a good thing.
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Do girls tell you that you seem judgmental?
11-29-2011, 03:09 AM
I get that often due to my job and the people around me.
I usually just diffuse it by saying that I have high standards.
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Do girls tell you that you seem judgmental?
11-29-2011, 06:04 AM
are you bad-mouthing people?
Are they fucking you after these comments or disconnecting?
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Do girls tell you that you seem judgmental?
11-29-2011, 08:21 AM
I get this all the time and I playfully agree with them.
If you qualify strongly you will come across as judgmental to some girls. Nothing wrong with that. But if you feel it's holding you back you may have to calibrate better and tone it down a bit.
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11-29-2011, 01:16 PM
I get told a lot, and not in a good way. I've lost a few 8 pieces through my offensiveness. I never tone it down even after we're banging and I don't hide the fact I'm very critical of women's bodies.
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11-29-2011, 01:55 PM
Yeah, this is most likely a self image issue. Working hard for the body you want and expecting a woman to = judgmental in their book.
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Do girls tell you that you seem judgmental?
12-09-2011, 01:47 AM
i've been called judgemental before.
today this girl (psych major) told me i was a psychopath whilst pounding away at her.