I know someone there is wondering why would you look to people as reprehensible as Pimps for advice on women? Don't they beat and kill women and force innocent girls into a life of slavery? I first of I will admit some who live what is called "The Life" that are sociopathic and indeed are evil. But one can make that claim about select individuals in many professions. However just as some of the business tactics and models the criminal underworld (say the, Mafia) use are somewhat practical and beneficial in the legitimate business world, so are some of the tactics and philosophy of pimps in the world of mating and dating. While some of the viewpoints and understanding I bring may upset some let me make my point by delving to the understanding of The male female dynamics here in America.
The Pimp's View of Sex in America
Many would argue it's a man's world but Pimps would argue the opposite. To them the average American male is raised to be a "Trick" or one who is "tricked" into paying for sex from infancy. Just as tricks pay prostitute outright for sex, the average man goes thru a long drawn out process of pamper a women with gifts, money and attention all with hope of winning her affection and ultimately... getting sex. And just most American men
are raised to tricks, many women to are raised to give themselves away (under heavy stipulation) to the highest bidder. Depending on there physical attractiveness,social class and others things most women can act as if like she's a prize to won.
The Pimp makes it his chief aim in life to turn this game on it's head. His chief concern is not the getting of sex but splurging on himself in the same way a supposed suitor (trick) would do to a woman that caught his eye. So he makes it his business to master the arts of profiling, seducing ,Pecocking (see Mystery), manipulation, cunning and Finesse (and some cases physical force) in order to procure women and convince them that there best course of action is to selling themselves to the public as prostitutes. (Sounds, easy doesn't it?)
There many Pimps that do you violence. However you have to consider there are many different kinds of pimps. It's the"Gorilla" Pimp that are most often associated with violence And in Pimp circles there is saying "If you have use your hands , then you're no longer pimping".The is the whole point to is get want you using cunning style and finesse not violence. As Rosebudd says, "I'mma Pimp, not boxer".
One other thing that can't be overlooked is the racial element. Most pimps that live 'The Life" are Black but most tricks tend to White. Without digressing into reasons why this is the case, there seems to be is an some underling area of racial bias and hypocrisy that exist against the pimping subculture. The same folks that patronized the services of prostitutes seem to a distain for those who procure and pander. This hypocrisy along with the most American's males enslavement to his penis and to women is seen as a major character flaw by Pimps.
What You Can Learn From a Pimp
What can you take home from a pimping your dealings with women? Here is a short this list of takeaways that should upgrade your game.
1) Keep your Penis in your Pocket- Don't let the Desire for any one Female take you out of your zone. Here's another suggestions learn self control and the of being desireless. distance yourself form sexually stimulating material. If a nice looking women walks by you don't be so quick to look. Try being empty and mysterious.See women as a means to an end.Be the opposite of a trick.
2) Cop and Blow- In the Game they say "She comes to pay not to stay".Don't be so quick to fall in love. Keep in mind you lady friend can leave you at anytime,especially IF you slacking on your job. This can also apply to catching (Approaching girls). Just a lion doesn't sulk when misses it's attended prey a player shouldn't when misses out on his attended target.
3) It's a Skull game- Just as a good predator is always one step ahead of this prey,a good pimp is thinking ahead. In If you have a particular type of girl you're target calibrate your dealings with to her to her sensibilities. The ever read the book "Pimp" by Iceberg Slim The character talks about selling "Air Castles" to whores. Try to her throw off guard. Know what she's thinking before she does. Don't let subtle changes in behavior slip buy you. Remember it's all a skull (mind) game.
4) Be Confident- Most important of all you must have the DEEP SEEDED belief that no female is above to you .Any Woman can be attained. Recently, a retired Pimp (one of the best) told me of a friend of his that would pull high class women ( very pretty types that work as corporate execs corporate and with CEO dads etc.) and turn them into streetwalking whores. When I asked how he was able to do this he simply said "confidence, his confidence was unreal" Now I know it's not your goal to turn any female corporate exec or otherwise into streewalkers but I think you see my point about confidence. The biggest weapon in a pimps arsenal isn't a gaudy get up or and outlandish car but his confidence that he can win on his own terms.
The Pimp's View of Sex in America
Many would argue it's a man's world but Pimps would argue the opposite. To them the average American male is raised to be a "Trick" or one who is "tricked" into paying for sex from infancy. Just as tricks pay prostitute outright for sex, the average man goes thru a long drawn out process of pamper a women with gifts, money and attention all with hope of winning her affection and ultimately... getting sex. And just most American men
are raised to tricks, many women to are raised to give themselves away (under heavy stipulation) to the highest bidder. Depending on there physical attractiveness,social class and others things most women can act as if like she's a prize to won.
The Pimp makes it his chief aim in life to turn this game on it's head. His chief concern is not the getting of sex but splurging on himself in the same way a supposed suitor (trick) would do to a woman that caught his eye. So he makes it his business to master the arts of profiling, seducing ,Pecocking (see Mystery), manipulation, cunning and Finesse (and some cases physical force) in order to procure women and convince them that there best course of action is to selling themselves to the public as prostitutes. (Sounds, easy doesn't it?)
There many Pimps that do you violence. However you have to consider there are many different kinds of pimps. It's the"Gorilla" Pimp that are most often associated with violence And in Pimp circles there is saying "If you have use your hands , then you're no longer pimping".The is the whole point to is get want you using cunning style and finesse not violence. As Rosebudd says, "I'mma Pimp, not boxer".
One other thing that can't be overlooked is the racial element. Most pimps that live 'The Life" are Black but most tricks tend to White. Without digressing into reasons why this is the case, there seems to be is an some underling area of racial bias and hypocrisy that exist against the pimping subculture. The same folks that patronized the services of prostitutes seem to a distain for those who procure and pander. This hypocrisy along with the most American's males enslavement to his penis and to women is seen as a major character flaw by Pimps.
What You Can Learn From a Pimp
What can you take home from a pimping your dealings with women? Here is a short this list of takeaways that should upgrade your game.
1) Keep your Penis in your Pocket- Don't let the Desire for any one Female take you out of your zone. Here's another suggestions learn self control and the of being desireless. distance yourself form sexually stimulating material. If a nice looking women walks by you don't be so quick to look. Try being empty and mysterious.See women as a means to an end.Be the opposite of a trick.
2) Cop and Blow- In the Game they say "She comes to pay not to stay".Don't be so quick to fall in love. Keep in mind you lady friend can leave you at anytime,especially IF you slacking on your job. This can also apply to catching (Approaching girls). Just a lion doesn't sulk when misses it's attended prey a player shouldn't when misses out on his attended target.
3) It's a Skull game- Just as a good predator is always one step ahead of this prey,a good pimp is thinking ahead. In If you have a particular type of girl you're target calibrate your dealings with to her to her sensibilities. The ever read the book "Pimp" by Iceberg Slim The character talks about selling "Air Castles" to whores. Try to her throw off guard. Know what she's thinking before she does. Don't let subtle changes in behavior slip buy you. Remember it's all a skull (mind) game.
4) Be Confident- Most important of all you must have the DEEP SEEDED belief that no female is above to you .Any Woman can be attained. Recently, a retired Pimp (one of the best) told me of a friend of his that would pull high class women ( very pretty types that work as corporate execs corporate and with CEO dads etc.) and turn them into streetwalking whores. When I asked how he was able to do this he simply said "confidence, his confidence was unreal" Now I know it's not your goal to turn any female corporate exec or otherwise into streewalkers but I think you see my point about confidence. The biggest weapon in a pimps arsenal isn't a gaudy get up or and outlandish car but his confidence that he can win on his own terms.
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