[stateofnature]

Most of the posts here (and Roosh's advice) seem to be focused on generating interest, but I have a question about strategy once you've already built interest.
I've already gone on one date with this girl (last tuesday, a week ago from today). Earlier this week I left her a message saying we should go out this Wednesday, and she leaves me a message in return saying that she's busy Wednesday, but suggested we could do something Tuesday, Thursday or this weekend. I'm busy Tuesday and Thursday.
I could do something on the weekend, but I'm concerned that it might be too early for a weekend date with this girl (we have not kissed yet, yes I know Roosh, I failed and broke your rule.) But if we wait until next week to do something (would be two weeks after initial date), would I be losing momentum? That's my dilemma.

[Roosh]

You've built some interest, but until you get the bang I wouldn't say she's truly interested.

Yes you would be losing momentum, and that's a problem, especially when all you have done is an innocent date. This is one reason why kissing on the first date is so important.

You have no choice but to wait and see. Just don't get needy until then and contact her often.

[College Game]

(06-23-2009 06:36 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

You've built some interest, but until you get the bang I wouldn't say she's truly interested.

Yes you would be losing momentum, and that's a problem, especially when all you have done is an innocent date. This is one reason why kissing on the first date is so important.

You have no choice but to wait and see. Just don't get needy until then and contact her often.

I find myself running into this problem as well, the question as to if the girl is worth a weekend spot, and if so do I want her to know that she is worth my weekend time. First of all, how busy can you be? For tuesday and thursday you could bust out the spontaneous card and say hey lets meet up here, I know its late but... (your vagina) (note: doesnt work if she is from long island and you are in queens)

Second is to for the weekend to either not make concrete plans with her, ie. tell her where you are going, as if you already had plans, and that maybe you should meet up (ie. downtown, unless you live in hickton, where downtown = wheat field), or hang out with her but if she is there with all her girl friends, check her out for a bit and then bail, b.c that situation will derail any attempt at the vagina.

[chakri]

(06-24-2009 12:24 AM)College Game Wrote:  

Second is to for the weekend to either not make concrete plans with her, ie. tell her where you are going, as if you already had plans, and that maybe you should meet up (ie. downtown, unless you live in hickton, where downtown = wheat field), or hang out with her but if she is there with all her girl friends, check her out for a bit and then bail, b.c that situation will derail any attempt at the vagina.

I'm bumping this because lately I've been getting multiple girls all saying they're busy and suggesting that we meet on the weekend (these are for first time meetings). I'm not sure if they're just testing me or if that's truly the case.

But anyways, I was thinking of sticking to the hardline approach (even though it may push the meeting out too far in the future and risk killing momentum).....but now I'm contemplating trying what you're suggesting here

Any thoughts guys?