[Private Man]

I get a whole bunch of marketing emails from the folks selling PUA and attraction systems. For the most part, they get it right when it comes to the tactics of PUA. Of course, their marketing hype is usually way over the top. Worse, the PUA marketers have the process quite backwards:

1. The tactics of approach and attraction
2. Hopefully the social skills are built after about 1,000 rejections.
3. The successes build up a man's confidence.

Actually, it should be:

1. A man works on his confidence independent of being attractive to women
2. Social skills are improved
3. Charisma (Game) tactics are learned and applied.

Yeah, I blogged about it:
http://theprivateman.wordpress.com/2011/...-expanded/

[Gmac]

Just kidding. You're right.

[XXL]

They know very well what they're doing. When you realize that there is already tension between men and women and by definition that tension is sexual then classic routine based gurus are out of business. simply as that. if people knew that then there would be no demand. So how simple is to come up with some bullshit and say that this is you're missing piece in you're game you need to get to the next level.

Of course they got it backwards but it was done purposefully. They know it. They know that there will always be guys looking for their FIX that will get them some ass as fast as possible.

So because there is demand for quick fix solutions (who doesn't love thaht right?) then there're suppliers. After all who wants to work on their personality and put in the work? It's too demanding. How sweet is learn a bunch of lines, go out and recite them right? The marketers are very well aware of that. They will never go.. "you should be the shit! don't worry about spending money today, just be the shit". can you imagine some advertisers saying "do you realize that if you were the shit.. you wouldn't need all of this fucking bullshit that we're selling you? thank you.." : ))

[MiXX]

I keep reading on these forums that almost all of these pickup "GURUS" are actually virgins. I actually met one (shall remain nameless and I was not there as a student), and he did not pull women as much as me, and I bring on disciples for free...

Mixx

[Gariell]

Mixx it wasn't Sinn by any chance?

[kbell]

I responded to it.