[thoughtgypsy]

(01-13-2016 11:30 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

BGC rents are $800+ ?! For a one bedroom, furnished? Utilities incuded or not included?

Yes, near market market and the strip. Not sure about utilities

[rvlefty]

Dude. Going out to her place an hour or more into the unknown is not something a lot of guys here would be up for. Props to you for that.
And props to her girl game too for trying to get wifed up.

Don't overthink things too much when you're there or worry about a different life after leaving. After going out a lot eventually I just was kind content with any experience in itself, whether it be a crazy night or something more laid back. After a prolonged trip away for so long you sort of decide that any night going out was OK regardless of the outcome.


IIRC The ice bar is like a below zero type chain place where people go for a drink and then bounce somewhere else. Not to stay.

[RagnarLothbrok]

(01-15-2016 07:16 AM)rvlefty Wrote:  

Dude. Going out to her place an hour or more into the unknown is not something a lot of guys here would be up for. Props to you for that.

Dude, those are always the best nights.

I once tagged along with a girl, her gay best friend and her Ladyboy friend to - what I thought was my targets house - at 3am. I met them in Bangkok and when I asked where they lived, they said they live in Pinklao. I only knew that name from the Pinklao Bridge so I assumed they just live somewhere across the river and joined their taxi. Turns out that Pinklao is a village somewhere in the boonies. After a one hour taxi ride we finally arrived at a house which seemed to be the Ladyboy's. Now the crazy part comes. They had all kinds of animals in the house. A couple of dogs and cats and a big ass fish that looked like a shark. When I went to the kitchen I saw two big plastic boxes and couldn't help myself but look into it. What did I see when I opened it? Of course, two huge snakes chilling on a thursday night in a kitchen in Pinklao. That was shock
#1. Later I went to the bathroom and a fucking chamaeleon (or whatever the name of that animal is) attacked me and when I tried to go on the balcony I saw what seemed to be an alligator, though I am not sure if it really was one or one of those water monitors. I was too drunk and couldn't take a longer look because the Ladyboy threatened to kick me out if I took a pic of the alligator.

When I tried to fuck the girl on the couch (the Ladyboy and the gay guy were passed out on the only bed) she screamed "jeb jeb" which means pain. She woke up the Ladyboy and they talked in Thai. Now, my Thai is not the best but when I could understand the words kuay (dick), yai (big) and jeb (pain) I knew what was going on and bursted out laughing.

Next day around noon I sneaked out and tried to go home but there were no taxis. So I went back inside and told my girl to call a taxi for me.

Some digital memories:

[Roccker]

As always comments appreciated, here or by pm.

G29
Storeclerk taco bell. She is a cute young girl. 19yr I think it was. Buy her and me a burger, I enjoy eating with girls. It’s great multitasking – eating and dating. Yes, it costs like 2-3 euros. Then we go to condo, we kiss, but she is not up for more for now.

Exploration in find out what girls I like:
At the beginning I was just like ‘more girls’. Of course if on the first look she is hotter, prioritize her in meeting. And I specifically looked at their height and weight in online dating, I looked for small girls. Then after some dates I began to look more at the pictures and the arms, trying to filter better against ‘good picture, not so good in real’. (although later i fucked a fatter girl and it was super great sex cause she was submissive and horny and skilled and dirty)

A ‘feeling’ generalization (without really counting the girls and stuff): Younger girls give it up less easily to me, 30 year olds are more experienced in fucking, know the value of it, know how to get good feelings out of it, are more seldom virgins (doh) and because of all that they give it up more easily for me. And for me the 30 year olds are only a tiny fraction less hot than the 20 year olds, make it up by far with the sexual experience.

Another realization:
Unless I have sex with a girl I will not know how good the sex is gonna be.

Before I thought: how horny I get when I imagine sex with this girl = how great the sex is gonna be. Basically my ‘sexy’. And I liked: small and slim. So I was thinking the smaller and slimmer, the better the sex.

Her attractiveness to me is one factor that makes a difference, but it’s just one of many.
How dirty she is. How into it she is. How much pleasure she can get out of it. How good she can dirty talk. How good her pussy feels, how good it feels in the ass. How good our private parts fit together.

All this thinking about what I really want kinda only begins now, at the end of the trip.
Interesting how many girls I have to date to really find out slooowly what I like. And which girls I want to see again.

Also I am a bit cured of the big cock fantasy:
Before I had the fantasy that with superbig cock, and her having tiny vagina, you press that thing in, it just needs a bit more foreplay and slower entry, and she lights up in ecstacy, it just has a big effect on her, and for you of course it feels supergreat tight. Now I don’t think that anymore. Her being too small or me being too big is just that – ‘too big’ for best pleasure. For me (not being able to go all in, weird tightness that does not feel good, having to go superslow..) and for her (pain, uncomfortable, pain). Yes, I use best lube like cracy and lick 15 minutes before going in.

Daygame
I buy a burger, she asks what else i want, totally spontanous it comes out ‚you‘. She cracks up, she tells all the others, they laugh, i ask if she is single but she ignores that and just serves me. Ask 3 if single and get numbers, all store clerks, but most beautiful doesn’t write back although she was eager giving me her number.

I am kinda sucking at approaching customers. They run around fast and always seem to be in company of boyfriend, daughter or mother.

Mobile phone battery dries up much faster – probably because of the heat here.
Texts sometimes just don’t send right away. Eg you get a grabcar (this app grabtaxi is highly recommended, you see the exact price beforehand and you just chose where you are and where you go in the app instead of having to tell the driver). And you want to text the driver something like ‘am at the back of the building’, and it just doesn’t send but it takes like 1-2 minutes.. while the driver is texting you ‘where are you’. Perhaps it’s just my phone, but I don’t remember this being the case in my country.

Philipinas asking if i already ate, like ‚Eat baby, it’s lunchtime!‘ is like a thing, like even the most supercool girl i met was one of the ones that did that once


By the way, is it not welcome here on rooshvforum to talk about whores - or is it ok? Need the info for my next post.

[~wrIghter~]

I remember the thing about eating, all the time from my ex, lmao. They're big on making sure their men has a full stomach.

[Jason55]

(01-17-2016 02:09 AM)Roccker Wrote:  

As always comments appreciated, here or by pm.

Philipinas asking if i already ate, like ‚Eat baby, it’s lunchtime!‘ is like a thing, like even the most supercool girl i met was one of the ones that did that once

I have been chatting online with philipinas and I get this too. "What are you having for lunch?" "Oh it is not enough for you."
But one disturbing thing I have also heard from several now: "I want to get fat"
Er, what? One girl was eating like 5 times a day trying to get chubby. I tried to explain that this is not a good idea, but she tells me thin is ugly.
Is this a cultural thing in the Philippines maybe? Is being more chubby mean you have more money, and if you are thin you are poor and starving? This is not a good trend for them I think. Like I said I have heard it from more than one.

Anyway Roccker really enjoy your thread, as a new guy I like reading these kind of stories.

[Roccker]

(wait for answer to last post but regarding the chubby topic):
Yes, i also had one wanting to be more chubby. I told her i don't like her anymore then
But others said 'Why do you like me, i am not sexy, i have a small tummy' (better would be no tummy)
One wanted me to get chubby.
I also saw a few fat asian guys with hot asian girls, i remember being surprised by it.

[Roccker]

Flakes
Girl wanted to make birthday party at my place with 4 of her girlfriends, she like re-affirms the three days before that every day, then she flakes . This one was no biggie, I was in my condo waking up anyway.
But then I confirmed meet with another favorite 4h before the meet and later she flakes. Argh. That sucks, when you have 3 good options, choose the best one and then she flakes (she said she was oversleeping because she was sick).

Girl number 3 on that day flakes also. She was supposed to come 3am in the night, she somehow had to work even longer.


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So after some waiting and her not coming I think about what to do. Call me cracy pervert but I wanted to see the local whore street. Quez ave. Grabcar driver warns me to not take street hookers cause they are not tested. He recommended me a house. I went there and it was like in the movies – like 15-20 girls sitting there, one after the other, all having a number. Went outside and there were some aggressive street hookers. There were older women 'showing' women. Went home.

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On my way home i go to 24hour McDonalds, then to my local shitty bar. I go up the first floor, somehow some staff members are just dancing having fun, I join a bit dancing too, all are euphoric. Then the usual ‘do you like her?’ to some girl. I say yes. Then whenever I say something overly cheesy in dramatic way they all laugh and shriek. Also when I touch girls they shriek. The whole thing is just very fun. We roleplay marriage, one does the vow. The girl was not really attracted, but she was fun. This is like for an hour. Later they ask if I can take all of them to condo. I say yes. But they don’t have id with them, so it doesn’t work. They still walk home with me, I bring some chocolate down, then they go, like 8 people. Fun.

I did not hit the online so much, this shows in lesser dates.
Will not post report tomorrow because of the whore issue, it's ok.

[thoughtgypsy]

(01-18-2016 09:49 AM)Jason55 Wrote:  

(01-17-2016 02:09 AM)Roccker Wrote:  

As always comments appreciated, here or by pm.

Philipinas asking if i already ate, like ‚Eat baby, it’s lunchtime!‘ is like a thing, like even the most supercool girl i met was one of the ones that did that once

I have been chatting online with philipinas and I get this too. "What are you having for lunch?" "Oh it is not enough for you."

If I had to guess, I think this is their attempt at 'girl game'. Many are familiar with the phrase "The way to a man's heart is through the stomach", so they're trying to plant seeds that get you to think she's the nurturing type of woman. She can say things that make you think she's sweet, without having to make any actual effort. All just the way they market themselves, like all those fake virgins.

Or they're just trying to fatten you up to lower your options with other girls.

[Roccker]

Better for last days: Hit up all the girls I really liked and do 3 a day.
That would be much better. But now it’s too late. Should have asked them like a week ago.

Tomorrow last day.
I feel sorrow.
The last few days were not the ‘best’ I feel.


Last day
First girl flakes, I kinda expected this.
Doing a last little shopping in the mall I got melancholic. Suddenly I saw extra-much hotties. Saw the store where I approached, the burger girl where I said I want her with my burger, the way out on the sides the cinemas that feels like home, the shitty bar on the side, seeing waitress I did direct on, see other I danced with.
Second girl came later but it was niice. Former virgin can be super-dirty I guess because they just take my lead on how sex is supposed to be. Ok, in general virgin / less experienced women are less fun for me but this recent virgin was great.
3rd girl suddenly has end of work sooner and has to go to province - I manage to find another great girl on short notice. I could fit a bitchy girl (who wanted to meet also) in between them but she is jealous and I would have to explain why I meet another girl later and stuff (+one girl eg comes 1-2hours late is totally common, that would ruin careful planning), so I went the less stressy route.
I clean the floor the last time.. with my flint remover.. and it’s the last stripe, flint remover is empty! That is destiny.

So 2 favorites on last day, could be more cracy but was very fine, next to packing everything it was not too stressful.
One tells me she loves me while sex, and asks me jokingly if I am her boyfriend. I don’t say anything encouraging.

Now I am adding all girls I like on skype. And also facebook, which is probably not good idea. One posted lovey-dovey stuff. I made it so nobody can post on my wall and nobody can go through my friends list. Still on the ‘facebook live ticker’ I guess whenever I am mentioned this shows up in the live ticker of my facebook friends for a short amount of time. I guess I want to get a bit of Philippine newsfeed.. could be a bad idea for my mentality.


One thing that works my mind. A friend of mine was in bangkok and he slept with 90% of the girls he met from online in the first like 30minutes of meeting them. I slept with like 66% and basically all of them (short of like 2) needed a date beforehand. Either thais are more fun or he is just more successful.

Flying out from Manila looking out of the window it was amaaazing. Regret not having filmed it. The islands of skyskrapers in the sun.

There will be a time when my body is too old and no girl will want to sleep with me, well, the quality is going to go down and down and down as life progresses. And whores will be not in exciting mode. Gotta make peace with that.


Going home:
No more terminal fee at Manila airport! It’s super-cracy cold in Manila airport for some reason. Me and others had big Winter-Jackets on, headwear, scarves, people were coughing. Perhaps I was also sleep deprived.

Homecoming:
First day was fine, dinner with family. Also coming back to my place. It is winter here and cold, but surprisingly I found it very fine. The dry humidity I think just feels great to me.
Second day I saw a hot girl on the bus. Thinking if I was in Philippines I would approach with certainty. Here I don’t approach because I have the certainty of not getting anywhere. I need to be in the ‘mode’ to even try. I had a little bit melancholie there.
And I find myself stuffing myself with food and the little bit of alcohol that is in my fridge.
Gonna go get back to my drinking water, cooking myself + healthy and training, how I did it before the journey.

I did some final thoughts already here in this thread: thread-52354...pid1185093
Perhaps there will be another final thoughts in like 3 months.

I guess i will concentrate more on work now. I think i still have 2 fb's (not young, not tiny, not supersexy..), 'sex is sex' is right a little bit, it's good for my (mental) wellbeing.

In my country since depressed teenager i dreamt about abundance of sexy pussy. Tried to reach it with raising self-confidence and social skills (with low income, lot of freetime lifestyle). Designing my life to raise self-confidence and social skills. Success was there (some girls at same time) but also not totally (only 10% sexy girls). Now i had the abundance. Now should i redesign my whole lifestyle towards 'more money, more philippines vacations'? Sounds very weak. (Location independence is not even in sight)

So.. that was it i guess.. 1 month in the philippines.. there is the option of giving me a Rep-Point, just saying , this will be my last contribution for a long time here, i have no concrete plans, just vague plans to travel in 3 years again (holiday and money issue and getting my life forward or something instead of making holiday). Thanks for your input, take care.

[the Thing]

Hey man. Great report overall. Just by jumping on a plane and going there, you're already better than 90% of people who just talk about traveling and never take action.

I really wanted to meet you while I was still there but on my last day that I PM'd you but I've been kind of busy. Anyway if you ever make it to Sweden hit me up and we'll roll.

(01-21-2016 08:55 AM)Roccker Wrote:  

Now I am adding all girls I like on skype. And also facebook, which is probably not good idea.

NOT a good idea. Do your due diligence and decide for yourself if the girls you banged would go for manipulative / extortive stuff but this shit happens: thread-34766...pid1197797

[Hafran]

I read your all of your stories. I thoroughly enjoyed them. The transformation from first to last posts is indeed striking.

The melancholia when going back West is always there.
More money and more PH travels sounds like a solid plan to me.

Best of luck.

[Shimmy]

They couldn't come in your condo because they need to register with the desk? Next time remember that the people working there probably make next to nothing and you could have easily dropped them 200-300 pesos and you would have no problem.

[Robert Plant]

A couple of thoughts:

5 months ago, I did Bangkok and The Philippines back to back. Bangkok was the opposite of Manila, amazing for night game but online was a huge waste of time/ energy. Other forum members I met there confirmed this. I wonder how your friend got so many easy lays from online "game" in Bangkok? Comparing oneself to others is a slippery slope that can be detrimental to your confidence. Be the best you, you can be.

Second, when I got back from my bang trip, I brought my confidence with me and have been getting much younger, hotter women at home. I've especially noticed a difference with night game which I improved on in Bangkok. Sounds like you dramatically improved your day game in Manila. With a few minor tweeks, I bet you can be extremely successful in your country too.

[RagnarLothbrok]

(01-22-2016 09:04 AM)Robert Plant Wrote:  

A couple of thoughts:

5 months ago, I did Bangkok and The Philippines back to back. Bangkok was the opposite of Manila, amazing for night game but online was a huge waste of time/ energy. Other forum members I met there confirmed this. I wonder how your friend got so many easy lays from online "game" in Bangkok? Comparing oneself to others is a slippery slope that can be detrimental to your confidence. Be the best you, you can be.

For me, Online Game in Bangkok is also easier and better than in the Philippines. I already made a post about that in another thread. Why was it a waste of time for you in Bangkok?

I believe that it has a lot to do with how well you know the culture of the country you are in. Online Game works well in Bangkok if you are young (say 18-35) AND if you know a lot about Thai culture and language. If you don't meet those 2 requirements, the high amount of foreigners who are in shape and live in Bangkok will make online game hard for you. In the Philippines however, I feel like it is not so much necessary to be familiar with country and culture, simply because there are less white dudes who are in shape.

[Roccker]

Home for 1 week now.

Instead of just feeling great by getting laid by sexy girls in phil I am now back to my usual mode at home:
Trying to regulate/keep my mood up by eating healthy, working out, not cumming, setting goals, being proud of myself when I work hard. Also just a tad of ‘having fantasies of goals that I reach and then my life and mood will be better’ or that I will get hot girl.
(although I did not start to work out and am still a bit in the habit of just buying unhealthy street food (which is too pricey for my current lifestyle)).
To be fair, it’s also coming back from holiday to working, and I am not doing too bad.
(and I was just diagnosed with being a sex addict by a professional )

Already dreaming about hot tiny girls again, but kinda hopeless getting them.
This ‘non-longtermness’ was an expectation (and I guess a fear) before I started the trip.
It’s weird, it’s a little bit like nothing happened.. which is I guess of course logical.
Still, I got the memories, now I know how it is. And I experienced it. Still funny to think about it – I mean I could probably go 6 months instead of 1 - just eating sleeping dating fucking - and I would come back and it would be the same. It’s just consuming. And I guess I did not change.
I experienced approaching very hot girls while being totally relaxed in phil. Perhaps this experience can be useful.

Here in my home country in central europe, if I found one of the sexier girls that I met in phil, I would probably try to get in a relationship with her (this although in the last like 8 years I never had relationships, always multiple fuckbuddies) to grab her, because she is so sexy to me.

And I find myself taking notes on what to do better next time, so I am already thinking about a next time (eg don’t care about notches but do repeats with girls where sex is fabulous).

Had a new girl over yesterday, kinda by accident, I sensed an opportunity, I escalated for 2 hours but it was only a near hit… this is all ok, but I guess it was depressing because this girl was nowhere near the tiny sexy phil-girls (‘and’ I did not even lay her).
On the other hand it’s my fault for going for her instead of girls I really find sexy.

I guess I will leave one fuckbuddy because the difference to hot-phil-girls is just too drastic. I’ll see in a few weeks, I have a feeling I will re-adjust .
But I am looking forward right now to meeting another fuckbuddy who is good in bed.

[Roccker]

Hm. Regarding the adding girls on facebook thing:
Right now i think it was a bad idea for one reason:
I like to get some content from these phil girls in my feed and i made my friends-list hidden and noone can just post stuff on my page, but i cannot 'stop' them liking stuff from me and others seeing that. (Also i cannot delete likes other than deleting the whole post or content, and cannot stop friend from liking)

[the Thing]

(02-05-2016 08:30 PM)Roccker Wrote:  

Hm. Regarding the adding girls on facebook thing:
Right now i think it was a bad idea for one reason:
I like to get some content from these phil girls in my feed and i made my friends-list hidden and noone can just post stuff on my page, but i cannot 'stop' them liking stuff from me and others seeing that. (Also i cannot delete likes other than deleting the whole post or content, and cannot stop friend from liking)

You can't prevent them liking if they can see the post. But you can hide the post completely from certain people. Create a fuck group in Facebook. Add all the plates, then when you're posting you click the visibility option and set a visibility option like "Friends, except Manila Plates and Restricted"

[Jason55]

(02-05-2016 08:30 PM)Roccker Wrote:  

Hm. Regarding the adding girls on facebook thing:
Right now i think it was a bad idea for one reason:
I like to get some content from these phil girls in my feed and i made my friends-list hidden and noone can just post stuff on my page, but i cannot 'stop' them liking stuff from me and others seeing that. (Also i cannot delete likes other than deleting the whole post or content, and cannot stop friend from liking)

Yes, this! Haha. I have several phils girls that I am chatting with, and two have noticed each other liking things. Now I see they have recently friended each other. This might start to get interesting if they start chatting...