[BalanceLife]

Hi,

Not sure if it's my imagination, but female colleagues are responding to my regular office banter more.

I used to crack jokes in the office, often times lame jokes. I realized recently that two of my colleagues tried to slapping/hitting my shoulder or arm, which is a nice subtle way of responding to an opposite sex's humor. I am definitely not gaming them so this came as a surprise.

Is it me or does it happen to you too after doing game?

[Anchor Man]

It did happen to me . There are multiple possibilities:
1- They were into you from the beginning but you didn’t pick on the signs because you weren’t aware of them .

2- You made improvements and now they notice it .

I improved my style a lot and now all of sudden female coworkers always want to chat with me

[BalanceLife]

(05-06-2019 05:43 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:  

It did happen to me . There are multiple possibilities:
1- They were into you from the beginning but you didn’t pick on the signs because you weren’t aware of them .

2- You made improvements and now they notice it .

I improved my style a lot and now all of sudden female coworkers always want to chat with me

It’s a nice thing to discover. I don’t think I’ll ever game any work colleague but still really nice to know that my presence and banter is enjoyed by work friends.

[Arturbala]

Then I took break from "gaming" - things work out very well. I think then you game.. as you approaching in your mind you want to fuck her. So you need her, her pussy etc. But when you just social, you don't give a fook. You need nothing from her. This takes pressure off of her. I see clear difference when I was gaming and when I was just social.

And then I watch some PUAs on youtube I feel... not creepy but mixed feelings you know. But then I watch pranksters who just social I don't feel this mixed feelings.. because they're not gaming. Imo pickup sells to their audience a dream what you can somehow control most of the interactions (through techniques etc).

So in your office you not gaming (idk your reason... maybe you dont want drama in workplace) you're just social, cracking a joke etc. I bet you behave like you're with your hommies. You're not creeping on them so they feel little to no pressure. Ofc they like you because you're not like others guys who're trying to get them. So it's not your "game" experience that makes them attracted but change of perspective towards more social. Although "game" helped you because in order to game you have to push yourself inspite of fear - it's not the main reason.

This is my opinion based on experience, english is not even my second language so sorry hah.

[melikey]

(05-06-2019 06:27 PM)BalanceLife Wrote:  

(05-06-2019 05:43 AM)Anchor Man Wrote:  

It did happen to me . There are multiple possibilities:
1- They were into you from the beginning but you didn’t pick on the signs because you weren’t aware of them .

2- You made improvements and now they notice it .

I improved my style a lot and now all of sudden female coworkers always want to chat with me

It’s a nice thing to discover. I don’t think I’ll ever game any work colleague but still really nice to know that my presence and banter is enjoyed by work friends.

One of my friends who taught me most what I know in game always did this and pushed me to do it. It is a really good way to pracctice even if you have dont have any desire of fucking them. Also makes you stay sharp when good opportunities comes up. It gives you a bunch of experience and momentum

[BalanceLife]

The challenge is how to enjoy chats and banter with collagues without sounding to game LOL