[Unkown_Killa]

I’ve been pondering this recently. If a girl has had oral sex with a man before (she sucked his dick and he ate her out) is she still a virgin?

[PapayaTapper]

What do you do in your spare time?

[partyfowl]

I know a lot of people say "no" because it's not penetration and A LOT of women especially cop out with that argument.

While I can see their point (it does make sense in a lot of ways) I am in the camp that sucking a dick = sex. It's called oral sex for a reason. However, I would take a woman who has sucked a dick but never put out fully over a woman who has had 12 partners before 30.

[Black Kitten]

(05-04-2019 11:41 AM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

What do you do in your spare time?

lmfao

The only definition that matters is your own.

[Teo72]

(05-04-2019 11:23 AM)Unkown_Killa Wrote:  

I’ve been pondering this recently. If a girl has had oral sex with a man before (she sucked his dick and he ate her out) is she still a virgin?

Virginity means vaginal penetration.
Therefore, you could still be a virgin even after you had anal and oral sex
After oral sex you are still a virgin for sure
Justsaying

[Sgt Donger]

A girl that has sucked 20 dicks and been fucked in the arse by 10 different guys is hardly a virgin.

[Teo72]

(05-06-2019 02:40 AM)Sgt Donger Wrote:  

A girl that has sucked 20 dicks and been fucked in the arse by 10 different guys is hardly a virgin.

Well, I do not know many girls who have been fucked "only" in the arse by ten guys but technically, yes, she is a virgin to me.
Again, extreme example.
For sure, sicking dicks only does not un-virgin you

[AOC's Missing Boyfriend]

UK: as you know, or maybe don't: virginity is a nearly completely subjective thing depending on the bird in question.

Why? The girls all have different definitions of it. Trying to manage the hamster, I might add.... ;P

But seriously, have you ever heard of the girls that are vaginal virgins, yet who take it in the arse with any guy? Women are tricky...

[Teo72]

(05-06-2019 03:21 AM)AOCs Missing Boyfriend Wrote:  

UK: as you know, or maybe don't: virginity is a nearly completely subjective thing depending on the bird in question.

Why? The girls all have different definitions of it. Trying to manage the hamster, I might add.... ;P

But seriously, have you ever heard of the girls that are vaginal virgins, yet who take it in the arse with any guy? Women are tricky...

Most girls I know dislike, if not openly hate, take a dick over their arse.
This is the last thing they do after oral and vaginal.
So I know no girl who had arse sex before vaginal
And I do not know how this could happen.
Maybe in some Muslim countries where you have to end up as vigin before marriage..

[PapayaTapper]

(05-06-2019 03:24 AM)Teo72 Wrote:  

(05-06-2019 03:21 AM)AOCs Missing Boyfriend Wrote:  

UK: as you know, or maybe don't: virginity is a nearly completely subjective thing depending on the bird in question.

Why? The girls all have different definitions of it. Trying to manage the hamster, I might add.... ;P

But seriously, have you ever heard of the girls that are vaginal virgins, yet who take it in the arse with any guy? Women are tricky...

Most girls I know dislike, if not openly hate, take a dick over their arse.
This is the last thing they do after oral and vaginal.
So I know no girl who had arse sex before vaginal
And I do not know how this could happen.
Maybe in some Muslim countries where you have to end up as vigin before marriage..

For ass hoe / pussy virgins you should travel to Brazil or Puerto Rico

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(08-05-2015 10:38 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

First girl I banged when I moved to CA years ago was Puerto Rican I met at a real estate office. Came off as all prim proper and conservative. Went out a few times and when I finally got her into bed I reached for a condom and she said:

"You wont need that but you can only fuck me in the ass because I'm staying a virgin until I get married"

First time I ever ran unto a chick that could orgasm through anal.

I did end up plowing that pussy any way.

[Montrose]

The hymenoplasty (hymen reconstruction surgery) business is booming in France, Germany and the Netherlands. Most of the patients are Muslim.

[Greyman]

(05-06-2019 03:21 AM)AOCs Missing Boyfriend Wrote:  

UK: as you know, or maybe don't: virginity is a nearly completely subjective thing depending on the bird in question.

Why? The girls all have different definitions of it. Trying to manage the hamster, I might add.... ;P

But seriously, have you ever heard of the girls that are vaginal virgins, yet who take it in the arse with any guy? Women are tricky...

It was called going Greek for a reason with highly catholic women once upon a.....

[Donfitz007]

There’s levels to it in my opinion. With that being said a virgin by definition means she hasn’t been penatrated vaginally.

Catholic high schools gave me a new understanding as there were many of these types...to me the levels go as follows.

1. Ho virgin-does everything BUT have vaginal sex. Anal, head, hand jobs, etc.

2. The I tried it virgins. The ones who probably gave head and maybe TRIED to have sex but it wouldn’t go in or she chickened out.

3. The innocent one. The girl who sometimes thinks about sex but very scared and somewhat innocent. They haven’t done anything besides kissing and MAYBE nudes . I’ve met girls in their twenties that are like this and they’re VERY attractive. Usually very feminine.

4. The prudes, these are the girls who find sex disgusting.

[MikeS]

I can only see one reason why men would care about a woman's virginity, and that is that he wants to be the first and only man she has any kind of sexual relations with, and additionally that statistics seem to show that virgins are less likely to file for divorce x years later (though personally I would always have the suspicion that in this day and age in the west, and many other parts of the world as well, a virgin much older than 18 is such an oddity that she would most likely start wondering sooner or later what she might have missed out on compared to her female friends. Unless you have her "locked away" in a small religious community in the countryside - not how I'd imagine wanting to live my life neither now nor when I was 20 years younger).

As such I would consider that virginity lost at a maximum of a blowjob, probably even a handjob.
Being 42 and never having banged a virgin - nor ever having cared much about it, since I wasn't looking for wife material until... well, really only been giving it a bit of thought in my few long relationships since my mid 30s - I guess I'm just stating my opinion since I was reading the thread anyway.

[questor70]

(05-07-2019 11:34 AM)MikeS Wrote:  

I can only see one reason why men would care about a woman's virginity, and that is that he wants to be the first and only man she has any kind of sexual relations with

This. Virginity isn't about the hymen as much as it's an innocent attitude. You can lose that attitude without having intercourse.