Hello guys, I am by no means a pro but here's what i believe is missing in ALOT of newbies and even veteran player's game. Warmth, and no I do not mean being a pussy. I mean the fiery hot spice that cuts through and complements the cool calmness that every man should possess. Before I delve deeper I should give an example fo warmth. You ever meet a person that just looks extremely happy to see you everytime you see them? A person that can bring back all the good memories and positive vibes with one look. Maybe that one waiter or waitress that makes you want to tip more but you can't really put your hand one why? My favorite example is why we see James Bond as charming although he uses compliments and nice words very sparingly. This is all due to warmth.
For about 4 months now I've gamed 100 or so girls. Very weak results online and very positive results cold approaching. I've also set around and watched other people game, Videos online, Movies and interviews with "charming" leads, and read 4 books on the subject. The most successful people have 2 common traits. One being they have a boyish childlike charm, the other is they warm the hearts of others (I know this sounds extremely corny)
Boyish charm=Negging (teasing), Adventurous (best shown through ambition), very hesitant to talk about negative things(keeps the conversations light but interesting) Somewhat mischievous(usually has a bad boy aura about them), all about fun, makes the conversation fun. Carefree and it shows in their body language and walk. Think a young Will Smith.
DON'T CONFUSE BOYISH CHARM WITH IMMATURITY
Wamth= Intimate (gets just a tad bit closer than usual), Smiles with eyes (I think Daniel Craig and Idris Elba does this the best), Makes every touch meaningful (You'll be surprised how a platonic touch on the shoulder or arm can make a girl go crazy) Use compliments sparingly and uniquely (Saying a woman has an artistic beauty is better than saying she's beautiful) USE EYE CONTACT CORRECTLY. (Hard to explain but look into a girl's soul through her eyes, Corny and lame I know but it eats them alive).
No scientific evidence but I personally believe the boyish charm unlocks some part of a woman's mind that makes them want to nurture you or cuddle you. As if you really were a boy. An all players both in media and in real life seem like little boys (Chris Hemsworth, drake, and Leo DiCaprio are my favorite examples) Before you say "well they're celebrities" I've seen the same luck using these tactics mainly because they come off as more genuine. A fun splash of youth can bring back a nostalgic happiness to a woman or anybody.
So let me be the one to deliver the bad news, the better you look the better this works. The next bad news is Presence and frame are VERY important when using warmth as a gaming strategy. You don't want to come off looking like a clown or Spongebob and if you're insecure then that warmth can turn into clinginess and make women take advantage of you (story of my life). Confidence and a cool mindset are still a higher priority to obtain.
To end this off this may be common sense but I've noticed MANY GUYS online come off as creepy cold, and weird. Even worse are the newbies who try to use tactics learned online but lack the inner game to pul it off. This is simply a trait that all of us have within us but can be exploited to get better results NATURALLY.
P.S sorry for the horrible grammar mistakes, still working on them.
For about 4 months now I've gamed 100 or so girls. Very weak results online and very positive results cold approaching. I've also set around and watched other people game, Videos online, Movies and interviews with "charming" leads, and read 4 books on the subject. The most successful people have 2 common traits. One being they have a boyish childlike charm, the other is they warm the hearts of others (I know this sounds extremely corny)
Boyish charm=Negging (teasing), Adventurous (best shown through ambition), very hesitant to talk about negative things(keeps the conversations light but interesting) Somewhat mischievous(usually has a bad boy aura about them), all about fun, makes the conversation fun. Carefree and it shows in their body language and walk. Think a young Will Smith.
DON'T CONFUSE BOYISH CHARM WITH IMMATURITY
Wamth= Intimate (gets just a tad bit closer than usual), Smiles with eyes (I think Daniel Craig and Idris Elba does this the best), Makes every touch meaningful (You'll be surprised how a platonic touch on the shoulder or arm can make a girl go crazy) Use compliments sparingly and uniquely (Saying a woman has an artistic beauty is better than saying she's beautiful) USE EYE CONTACT CORRECTLY. (Hard to explain but look into a girl's soul through her eyes, Corny and lame I know but it eats them alive).
No scientific evidence but I personally believe the boyish charm unlocks some part of a woman's mind that makes them want to nurture you or cuddle you. As if you really were a boy. An all players both in media and in real life seem like little boys (Chris Hemsworth, drake, and Leo DiCaprio are my favorite examples) Before you say "well they're celebrities" I've seen the same luck using these tactics mainly because they come off as more genuine. A fun splash of youth can bring back a nostalgic happiness to a woman or anybody.
So let me be the one to deliver the bad news, the better you look the better this works. The next bad news is Presence and frame are VERY important when using warmth as a gaming strategy. You don't want to come off looking like a clown or Spongebob and if you're insecure then that warmth can turn into clinginess and make women take advantage of you (story of my life). Confidence and a cool mindset are still a higher priority to obtain.
To end this off this may be common sense but I've noticed MANY GUYS online come off as creepy cold, and weird. Even worse are the newbies who try to use tactics learned online but lack the inner game to pul it off. This is simply a trait that all of us have within us but can be exploited to get better results NATURALLY.
P.S sorry for the horrible grammar mistakes, still working on them.
