[Unikorn]

I started in game 1,5 years ago and since then i started being pretty successful with girls. Game + improving my shape (aesthetics and fitness) made me pretty decent on it

AFTER a while of having sex pretty easily i realized that sex meant nothing to me.
I just wanted to improve and becoming better and better in GAME. I "like" sex because it means i am doing decent in game and for ego reasons but now sex means "nothing" to me, i do not enjoy it as much as i did before.

Sometimes it is frustrating but others makes me feel great because i am not as sex dependent as i was back in the days

I guess this is not normal, so what are ur advices about it? Is this a big problem i need to fix?
Do some of you go through this at any time?

Thank you in advance GUYSS

[RatInTheWoods]

Once you get confident you can get bangs, you start aiming for quality, and then for me the best experiences from women is a relationship with a quality woman.

The sex you can have with a quality woman inside an authentic relationship is a hundred times better than masterbating into a tinder slut, in my humble opinion.

I'd rather develop a tantric 2 year LTR with an 7 than SNL a 9.

[Obermarschall]

I think OP you really have to ask yourself what you exactly want in your life.
There is nothing that can 'fix' your problem. Some women give you great sex, while others don't. And those who don't are just bad or they just don't have the skills. You can teach them and show them what you like, if you want to do so and IF she shows that she is worth it.

Do you want to live with someone and have a LTR or is living alone still good for you?

What about your job/career, is there something you can improve? Perhaps, this might be a good time to start doing it, as you are not so much 'sex dependent' as you say.

I wish you good luck OP!

[Unikorn]

(04-02-2019 05:27 AM)Obermarschall Wrote:  

I think OP you really have to ask yourself what you exactly want in your life.
There is nothing that can 'fix' your problem. Some women give you great sex, while others don't. And those who don't are just bad or they just don't have the skills. You can teach them and show them what you like, if you want to do so and IF she shows that she is worth it.

Do you want to live with someone and have a LTR or is living alone still good for you?

What about your job/career, is there something you can improve? Perhaps, this might be a good time to start doing it, as you are not so much 'sex dependent' as you say.

I wish you good luck OP!

The thing is i am not into relationships at all (at least not yet)
As you said i am focused in my goals and things are working pretty well

Thank you for your help!!!

[Barron]

(04-02-2019 04:34 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

I started in game 1,5 years ago and since then i started being pretty successful with girls. Game + improving my shape (aesthetics and fitness) made me pretty decent on it

AFTER a while of having sex pretty easily i realized that sex meant nothing to me.
I just wanted to improve and becoming better and better in GAME. I "like" sex because it means i am doing decent in game and for ego reasons but now sex means "nothing" to me, i do not enjoy it as much as i did before.

Sometimes it is frustrating but others makes me feel great because i am not as sex dependent as i was back in the days

I guess this is not normal, so what are ur advices about it? Is this a big problem i need to fix?
Do some of you go through this at any time?

Thank you in advance GUYSS

Stop fucking 3s and 4s and start fucking 7s and 8s.

[Cr33pin]

I actually don't enjoy sex that much either really.... an after I bust a nut I feel sad and depressed. But then I wake up the next day with this strong urge to bang some new chick.... its gotten me a notch count well over 100 and nothing else other then emptiness and stories of debauchery.

"We are all just prisoners here, of our own device"

We are programmed to receive
You can check out any time you like
But you can never leave

[debeguiled]

(04-02-2019 04:34 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

I started in game 1,5 years ago and since then i started being pretty successful with girls. Game + improving my shape (aesthetics and fitness) made me pretty decent on it

AFTER a while of having sex pretty easily i realized that sex meant nothing to me.
I just wanted to improve and becoming better and better in GAME. I "like" sex because it means i am doing decent in game and for ego reasons but now sex means "nothing" to me, i do not enjoy it as much as i did before.

Sometimes it is frustrating but others makes me feel great because i am not as sex dependent as i was back in the days

I guess this is not normal, so what are ur advices about it? Is this a big problem i need to fix?
Do some of you go through this at any time?

Thank you in advance GUYSS

Do a Google search" blackdragon "thrill of the hunt"

He has tons of opinions about this.

Basic point is: Some guys are more interested in sex. Others are more interested in the hunt for women.

This doesn't sound weird enough to be worried about.

[firat113]

(04-02-2019 04:19 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

Do a Google search" blackdragon "thrill of the hunt"

He has tons of opinions about this.

Basic point is: Some guys are more interested in sex. Others are more interested in the hunt for women.

This doesn't sound weird enough to be worried about.

Damn... that resonates so much with me. And i always thought i was the weird one for being more interested in the idea of sex rather than the actual action. The road to sex rather than the sex itself. The chase rather than the prey. Very interesting article. The author is so damn accurate about TH men characteristics and TH relationships.

Quote:

Whenever a TH man gets monogamous, for a while he likes it, but soon he gets very uncomfortable because he’s out of the hunt. Because of this, TH men tend to be cheaters, cheating on women as a regular practice, even if they truly love the woman they’re with and feel bad about what they’re doing. TH men need to hunt. TH relationships almost always tend to end up being either very short-term serial monogamist ones, or “monogamous” relationships where he’s cheating, either in secret (so she doesn’t know) or not in secret, putting up with an angry but tolerating girlfriend or wife.

[DonnyGately]

I didn't fully become myself as a RP gamer until I realized how much I love the hunt, even if I love a girl I'm fucking for months. Cosign that above.

[Unikorn]

(04-02-2019 01:18 PM)Barron Wrote:  

(04-02-2019 04:34 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

I started in game 1,5 years ago and since then i started being pretty successful with girls. Game + improving my shape (aesthetics and fitness) made me pretty decent on it

AFTER a while of having sex pretty easily i realized that sex meant nothing to me.
I just wanted to improve and becoming better and better in GAME. I "like" sex because it means i am doing decent in game and for ego reasons but now sex means "nothing" to me, i do not enjoy it as much as i did before.

Sometimes it is frustrating but others makes me feel great because i am not as sex dependent as i was back in the days

I guess this is not normal, so what are ur advices about it? Is this a big problem i need to fix?
Do some of you go through this at any time?

Thank you in advance GUYSS

Stop fucking 3s and 4s and start fucking 7s and 8s.

didnt say how girls were lol

[Unikorn]

(04-02-2019 04:19 PM)debeguiled Wrote:  

(04-02-2019 04:34 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

I started in game 1,5 years ago and since then i started being pretty successful with girls. Game + improving my shape (aesthetics and fitness) made me pretty decent on it

AFTER a while of having sex pretty easily i realized that sex meant nothing to me.
I just wanted to improve and becoming better and better in GAME. I "like" sex because it means i am doing decent in game and for ego reasons but now sex means "nothing" to me, i do not enjoy it as much as i did before.

Sometimes it is frustrating but others makes me feel great because i am not as sex dependent as i was back in the days

I guess this is not normal, so what are ur advices about it? Is this a big problem i need to fix?
Do some of you go through this at any time?

Thank you in advance GUYSS

Do a Google search" blackdragon "thrill of the hunt"

He has tons of opinions about this.

Basic point is: Some guys are more interested in sex. Others are more interested in the hunt for women.

This doesn't sound weird enough to be worried about.

WOW, thank you a lot for that

[Barron]

(04-03-2019 03:40 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

didnt say how girls were lol

So you're laying 7s and 8s on the regular? You must have outstanding game. Break down your funnel for us:

Number of Approaches > Number of Dates > Number of Bangs

You unknowingly contradict yourself in two sentences, one right after the other:

(04-03-2019 03:40 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

AFTER a while of having sex pretty easily i realized that sex meant nothing to me.

I just wanted to improve and becoming better and better in GAME.

Because what is the point of improving at Game? Not to get laid?
Oh my! not another rogue Lothario!
The subtle attempt at showing off by saying sex means nothing to you now that you get laid with ease - representing this as a problem - is what gave you away.

Be careful with biography my friend, nobody gives a shit.

[Unikorn]

(04-03-2019 04:11 AM)Barron Wrote:  

(04-03-2019 03:40 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

didnt say how girls were lol

So you're laying 7s and 8s on the regular? You must have outstanding game. Break down your funnel for us:

Number of Approaches > Number of Dates > Number of Bangs

You unknowingly contradict yourself in two sentences, one right after the other:

(04-03-2019 03:40 AM)Unikorn Wrote:  

AFTER a while of having sex pretty easily i realized that sex meant nothing to me.

I just wanted to improve and becoming better and better in GAME.

Because what is the point of improving at Game? Not to get laid?
Oh my! not another rogue Lothario!
The subtle attempt at showing off by saying sex means nothing to you now that you get laid with ease - representing this as a problem - is what gave you away.

Be careful with biography my friend, nobody gives a shit.

Well the girls are around 6-7 most of them, obviously some of them lower, and some of them higher. But the vast majority were 6-7

10 Approaches> 5 Dates>2-3Bangs--> Is not amazing (for me yes because 1 year ago i was 10 approaches>1-2 dates>0 bangs), but once you bang you can have sex pretty easy and get some fuck friends, so sex is not a big deal anymore.

Getting laid is something secondary for me, dont know why, because i am not a fucker, i am not brad pitt and i do not have tons of girls into me. As i said, it is not a big deal anymore but i am not the most successful guy.
I like the feeling of girls being into me, is all about ego when i pick up. Noone know how much i fuck, and that's why i am anonym here. I do care about how good i game, how good i look and making girls just desiring me. It feels amazing and that is why i game and have tons of fun.

I am not 15, showing off having sex is something sad as fuck, if you think i wanted that...bro reconsider yourself. Don't judge others, the thief is believed that all are of his condition, so if showing off is something you do, don't tell others they are doing the same.

I ask here because i want to enjoy sex 100% as i did, and thought that my case was something not normal. I supposed this forum was for that.

I will go for higher lvl girls, of course. But the few times i have go with some 8's or 9's (never 10's yet) it doesn't feel any different.

[Realbor]

The truth is that the best way to actually become happy and fulfilled is to have a good wife, a large family with many kids, a wife that is loyal, that is.

We had that in the 50s, but he jewish marxists fucked everything up, so now we are in a never ending search for things to fill the hole in our self esteem.

We need to crash this fucking decadent system, cause its causing misery to us all. RooshV is absolutely right in his videos.

[Solitaire]

Half the time I'm happy enough to have "caught" a chick that I know is ready to head out to my place/hotel/backseat, I then head home alone and get a good night's sleep instead. So, I hear you about the ego stroking that happens when I got a fine girl's attention. Gotta say though that we part ways with the lack of enjoyment of the act itself.

[Batman_]

The "thrill of the chase" is the same exact phenomenon as "chasing the dragon", "chasing the carrot", etc. It's dopamine - people don't seem to understand how it works. Dopamine is not a "pleasure chemical", (that would actually fall to endogenous morphine aka endorphins, which has a rather intricate relationship with dopamine itself.

Dopamine causes you to SEEK something you think is valuable. Food, sex, drugs, porn, etc. It doesn't have to be valuable and may even make your life worse (porn), but your brain doesn't care. As you get closer to your goal, dopamine levels raise. Once you've completed your goal, dopamine levels plummet. I don't think there's any system in nature that eliminates dopamine faster than sex.

Once you're done with the act you're left to see things for what they truly are, which in most cases is cumming into a wet hole (or a latex wrapper in a wet hole). If you do not enjoy the company of the women you're with, you end up confronted the fact that you wasted all of your time and energy for nothing.

For this reason, I can understand your situation OP. You may simply have lower baseline levels of dopamine (aka introverted), and thus experience much weaker highs and much stronger lows. In my experience this happens more in sex than anything else. The problem is that sometimes it's hard to know if actually you like a girl until you have sex with her, so it makes the whole process a bit confusing.

I don't really have a solution, but I think this is very normal. I have experienced very intense depression after almost every girl I've fucked, with a few exceptions. The exceptions were not based on how hot they were but on how much I actually liked the girl. I often lose interest in casual sex unless the girl is really hot (and even that doesn't mean the sex will be any better).

[The Lizard of Oz]

This thread is an outrage.

Just tonight I had the girl I've been fucking for the last several months over to my place for the last time (she is moving to another part of the country on Saturday). She is a true 7, in a strict and proper estimation of value; my grades in this regard have a terrible precision and allow not an ounce of inflation or deflation. A white/Latina blend who just turned 24 last week, she is 5'6'', has a pretty/plain face, a little small; a slim light-olive skinned body with small breasts and a flat stomach; and a perfect juicy ass, an ass that as she wonderingly told me "just sprouted one summer", neither too large nor too small, an ass that takes to its Lululemon like a happy fish to water but that looks deadliest encased in simple tight blue jeans. When she bent over my dining table I had her pull down those jeans and her LOVE/PINK blue panties more slowly than she'd ever done it, slowly to the point of idiocy -- and then she couldn't wait anymore and just pulled it all down in one motion.

Later when she was sucking on her knees -- she never quite learned how to do that perfectly, fucking bitch -- and sticking her ass out in front of the mirror; and later still, when I was fucking her from behind in strictest doggy in an intensely lit bedroom on the California king covered with a plain white sheet -- I gasped, repeatedly, looking at that ass, sometimes stock still and sometimes wiggling; I could not believe and still refuse to believe how sweet it was: how simple, plain and sweet. I was not sad that I was seeing her for the last time, only hungrier and hornier than ever; I determined that the last time would be the very best and I would come the very hardest I ever had with her -- and so it was. It is a very great privilege in life when something good ends on its highest note, the highest that it's capable of within the scope of its possibilities and limitations.

I had no intention whatsoever of mentioning the experience to anyone, let alone in writing -- it is not particularly the sort of thing that can be rewardingly shared. But the darkness of this thread demands a response, so this is my response: "sex" (the very word looks and feels terrible in the mouths of those who, for whatever reason, do not love life) does not "mean nothing"; it it one of the great and strong pleasures, one of the ways to take the measure of life and taste it to a depth. Any man who feels otherwise has fallen out of love with life itself, and he should set aside the inanity of his mere ideas -- whatever they are, and however hard-earned he imagines them to be -- and step back from the death-in-life into which he has somehow blundered. He should go out and sit on a wooden bench some spring day, his mind blank, a big soft drink in his hand -- just sit there like an old man, until a girl with the simplest, sweetest ass in shorts passes him by; he should look at it then and remember with a start what it was that was always in front of his face.

[Batman_]

(04-04-2019 09:15 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

This thread is an outrage.

Just tonight I had the girl I've been fucking for the last several months over to my place for the last time (she is moving to another part of the country on Saturday). She is a true 7, in a strict and proper estimation of value; my grades in this regard have a terrible precision and allow not an ounce of inflation or deflation. A white/Latina blend who just turned 24 last week, she is 5'6'', has a pretty/plain face, a little small; a slim light-olive skinned body with small breasts and a flat stomach; and a perfect juicy ass, an ass that as she wonderingly told me "just sprouted one summer", neither too large nor too small, an ass that takes to its Lululemon like a happy fish to water but that looks deadliest encased in simple tight blue jeans. When she bent over my dining table I had her pull down those jeans and her LOVE/PINK blue panties more slowly than she'd ever done it, slowly to the point of idiocy -- and then she couldn't wait anymore and just pulled it all down in one motion.

Later when she was sucking on her knees -- she never quite learned how to do that perfectly, fucking bitch -- and sticking her ass out in front of the mirror; and later still, when I was fucking her from behind in strictest doggy in an intensely lit bedroom on the California king covered with a plain white sheet -- I gasped, repeatedly, looking at that ass, sometimes stock still and sometimes wiggling; I could not believe and still refuse to believe how sweet it was: how simple, plain and sweet. I was not sad that I was seeing her for the last time, only hungrier and hornier than ever; I determined that the last time would be the very best and I would come the very hardest I ever had with her -- and so it was. It is a very great privilege in life when something good ends on its highest note, the highest that it's capable of within the scope of its possibilities and limitations.

I had no intention whatsoever of mentioning the experience to anyone, let alone in writing -- it is not particularly the sort of thing that can be rewardingly shared. But the darkness of this thread demands a response, so this is my response: "sex" (the very word looks and feels terrible in the mouths of those who, for whatever reason, do not love life) does not "mean nothing"; it it one of the great and strong pleasures, one of the ways to take the measure of life and taste it to a depth. Any man who feels otherwise has fallen out of love with life itself, and he should set aside the inanity of his mere ideas -- whatever they are, and however hard-earned he imagines them to be -- and step back from the death-in-life into which he has somehow blundered. He should go out and sit on a wooden bench some spring day, his mind blank, a big soft drink in his hand -- just sit there like an old man, until a girl with the simplest, sweetest ass in shorts passes him by; he should look at it then and remember with a start what it was that was always in front of his face.

There's a difference between petty sex with some slut and sex with a girl who you have an authentic interest in. It's not just how sexy the girl is or how good she is in bed, it's how much of a connection you actually had with them.

Some of the best times of my life were having sex with girls I was enamoured with. Sex in and of itself is not inherently good or bad. You could draw the same analogy with psychedelics - the set and setting determine the experience, not the drug itself.

[Bananaman711]

I know some people who said drug ice, crytal meth is better than sex, as in gives them more pleasure than sex.

https://images.app.goo.gl/G3SBi2mPTEjfyd8H6

[Batman_]

(04-05-2019 09:13 AM)Bananaman711 Wrote:  

I know some people who said drug ice, crytal meth is better than sex, as in gives them more pleasure than sex.

https://images.app.goo.gl/G3SBi2mPTEjfyd8H6

That's why you combine drugs with sex. Especially something like MDMA, although I haven't tried it myself. Even edible pot is enough to make it an extremely euphoric and immersive experience.

[Unikorn]

(04-04-2019 08:25 PM)Batman_ Wrote:  

The "thrill of the chase" is the same exact phenomenon as "chasing the dragon", "chasing the carrot", etc. It's dopamine - people don't seem to understand how it works. Dopamine is not a "pleasure chemical", (that would actually fall to endogenous morphine aka endorphins, which has a rather intricate relationship with dopamine itself.

Dopamine causes you to SEEK something you think is valuable. Food, sex, drugs, porn, etc. It doesn't have to be valuable and may even make your life worse (porn), but your brain doesn't care. As you get closer to your goal, dopamine levels raise. Once you've completed your goal, dopamine levels plummet. I don't think there's any system in nature that eliminates dopamine faster than sex.

Once you're done with the act you're left to see things for what they truly are, which in most cases is cumming into a wet hole (or a latex wrapper in a wet hole). If you do not enjoy the company of the women you're with, you end up confronted the fact that you wasted all of your time and energy for nothing.

For this reason, I can understand your situation OP. You may simply have lower baseline levels of dopamine (aka introverted), and thus experience much weaker highs and much stronger lows. In my experience this happens more in sex than anything else. The problem is that sometimes it's hard to know if actually you like a girl until you have sex with her, so it makes the whole process a bit confusing.

I don't really have a solution, but I think this is very normal. I have experienced very intense depression after almost every girl I've fucked, with a few exceptions. The exceptions were not based on how hot they were but on how much I actually liked the girl. I often lose interest in casual sex unless the girl is really hot (and even that doesn't mean the sex will be any better).

Super useful experience bro
Thank you a lot

[Noir]

(04-04-2019 09:15 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

This thread is an outrage.

Just tonight I had the girl I've been fucking for the last several months over to my place for the last time (she is moving to another part of the country on Saturday). She is a true 7, in a strict and proper estimation of value; my grades in this regard have a terrible precision and allow not an ounce of inflation or deflation. A white/Latina blend who just turned 24 last week, she is 5'6'', has a pretty/plain face, a little small; a slim light-olive skinned body with small breasts and a flat stomach; and a perfect juicy ass, an ass that as she wonderingly told me "just sprouted one summer", neither too large nor too small, an ass that takes to its Lululemon like a happy fish to water but that looks deadliest encased in simple tight blue jeans. When she bent over my dining table I had her pull down those jeans and her LOVE/PINK blue panties more slowly than she'd ever done it, slowly to the point of idiocy -- and then she couldn't wait anymore and just pulled it all down in one motion.

Later when she was sucking on her knees -- she never quite learned how to do that perfectly, fucking bitch -- and sticking her ass out in front of the mirror; and later still, when I was fucking her from behind in strictest doggy in an intensely lit bedroom on the California king covered with a plain white sheet -- I gasped, repeatedly, looking at that ass, sometimes stock still and sometimes wiggling; I could not believe and still refuse to believe how sweet it was: how simple, plain and sweet. I was not sad that I was seeing her for the last time, only hungrier and hornier than ever; I determined that the last time would be the very best and I would come the very hardest I ever had with her -- and so it was. It is a very great privilege in life when something good ends on its highest note, the highest that it's capable of within the scope of its possibilities and limitations.

I had no intention whatsoever of mentioning the experience to anyone, let alone in writing -- it is not particularly the sort of thing that can be rewardingly shared. But the darkness of this thread demands a response, so this is my response: "sex" (the very word looks and feels terrible in the mouths of those who, for whatever reason, do not love life) does not "mean nothing"; it it one of the great and strong pleasures, one of the ways to take the measure of life and taste it to a depth. Any man who feels otherwise has fallen out of love with life itself, and he should set aside the inanity of his mere ideas -- whatever they are, and however hard-earned he imagines them to be -- and step back from the death-in-life into which he has somehow blundered. He should go out and sit on a wooden bench some spring day, his mind blank, a big soft drink in his hand -- just sit there like an old man, until a girl with the simplest, sweetest ass in shorts passes him by; he should look at it then and remember with a start what it was that was always in front of his face.

This is romantic and a great time but 80% of my ONS weren't like this. Matter of fact, casual sex made me appreciate sex which has a connection and chemistry which in the context of OP, I agree, fuck sex.

That's just me, in another LTR with a woman who I probably pedestalized too much but have buckled my belt and I trust my compass.

Disagree with learning more game as a solution as OP proposes. Focus on connecting with people (women) and penetrating the first few layers.

It's phases and you get jaded with certain aspects..

[tobywagner]

I know this. I currently have the same.

And this is GREAT! If Sex doesnt MATTER are not so important at the moment... Now you have a free mind to allow yourself to think about what you REALLY want in life!

Think about how often we decide also with the reason "girls" and sex! I remember I studied sociology once, because I heard there where 66% girls in the classes. Wtf!

If you don't need sex... what do you want in life? Now you can make decisions which are much more true to your inner self.

And yes.. it takes some time until you find something. But you are in the luxury position of having a need covered.

Now... What do you really want in life?

[PapayaTapper]

(04-02-2019 05:12 AM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

Once you get confident you can get bangs, you start aiming for quality, and then for me the best experiences from women is a relationship with a quality woman.

The sex you can have with a quality woman inside an authentic relationship is a hundred times better than masterbating into a tinder slut, in my humble opinion.

I'd rather develop a tantric 2 year LTR with an 7 than SNL a 9.

I sometimes enjoy a gourmet dining experience but other times a good cheap meal from the taco truck can just hit the spot.

[UniversalMen]

(04-04-2019 09:15 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

This thread is an outrage.

Just tonight I had the girl I've been fucking for the last several months over to my place for the last time (she is moving to another part of the country on Saturday). She is a true 7, in a strict and proper estimation of value; my grades in this regard have a terrible precision and allow not an ounce of inflation or deflation. A white/Latina blend who just turned 24 last week, she is 5'6'', has a pretty/plain face, a little small; a slim light-olive skinned body with small breasts and a flat stomach; and a perfect juicy ass, an ass that as she wonderingly told me "just sprouted one summer", neither too large nor too small, an ass that takes to its Lululemon like a happy fish to water but that looks deadliest encased in simple tight blue jeans. When she bent over my dining table I had her pull down those jeans and her LOVE/PINK blue panties more slowly than she'd ever done it, slowly to the point of idiocy -- and then she couldn't wait anymore and just pulled it all down in one motion.

This first paragraph was, absolutely, poetic and brought a tear out of my left testicle. Thank you, good sir, and I am truly sorry for your loss!