A little bit of background. I'm about to hit forty this week, and I've been lurking this forum since late 2011 I believe. I had a decent amount of lays in my early twenties, but have been bogged down with multiple addictions, low self esteem, family issues, and other life problems. Well, after reading this forum, and several other life altering events, I am now good to go so to speak.
On to the topic: This is something that I've been observing throughout the last few years, and subsequently something that I've noticed in retrospect. Women are really passive. I recently discovered that women hover, pace back and forth, and engage in other subtle maneuvers when they come across a man that they are physically attracted to/interested in.
I've been in college for more time than willing to admit, but finally want to take advantage as much as I can. I took a liberal arts class, and came to the conclusion that it didn't have any attractive women. Before this it wouldn't matter if there were any hot women, as I wouldn't ever approach them any way. Coming into this class, I now had a different mindset. I would look for any IOIs, and try to put myself in situations that could be leveraged into something else.
As stated, there were no attractive women, but five out of the seven women were bangable slump busters. Then right before spring break, one of the women caught my attention. For some reason I was taking a while to gather my stuff, while this girl also took a while. As she stood up, I noticed that she had really tight pants that showed her mid section. She had a navel piercing and the pants she wore revealed that she had a curves that I did not even know existed. She obviously is close to 0.7 waist to hip ratio and close to about 34-34-36.
I am surprised by this, and I think I might have gawked at her body, and not sure if she noticed. This was your plain typical college girl that was sloppily dressed, and probably didn't think twice about her appearance. I was totally thrown off by this new development. So I went into spring break thinking, "damn what the hell was that."
I started to think about her during spring break, and the possibility of approaching her. But then towards the end I decided that approaching this girl after eight weeks of class would be lame. How would I go about telling her that "I had no idea you were were this hot." So I decided to let it go, and told myself that unless she gave IOIs she would be disqualified from further consideration.
Fast forward after spring break, and she shows up in her contacts with a rumpled cheerleader type skirt that shows off her legs and ass. I was floored. I saw her on her way into the building, and decided to go down from the second story to see if I could run into her on the stairs. No luck. She ended up taking longer, and somehow I ended up in front of her while I was going back up. I didn't know what to do so I opened the door for her, and she thanked me. Probably should have said something there, but couldn't muster up the courage.
Nevertheless, I was going to stick with my plan of disregarding her, unless she gave me some serious IOIs, which she didn't. The very next class, after class is over, I needed to speak to the professor. She was between me and professor, and she just stood there as if she was waiting for professor also. There were other people waiting as well. So we're both standing there, and I'm trying not to look at her ass, which in yoga pants and was heart shaped. She then decides to leave.
Afterwards, I'm like wtf, I should have spoke to her right there, but I assumed that she needed to speak with prof. as well. She very well could have, but therein lies the issue of plausible deniability. Why is this girl all of sudden getting all dolled up after two months? Maybe she has a boyfriend now and wants to dress sexy for him. Or it's spring time and the weather is conducive to wearing skirts.
I just want to know if her suddenly becoming hotter is some form of passive IOI. Should I have approached her at some point when I realized she was hot? Anyway I admit that that I may be overthinking this, but still wanted input from other members. Is it possible that girls are this passive, but still interested? Should I still try to approach her? Feel free to give me a hard time, I deserve it.
If this thread needs to go somewhere else I'm fine with that.
On to the topic: This is something that I've been observing throughout the last few years, and subsequently something that I've noticed in retrospect. Women are really passive. I recently discovered that women hover, pace back and forth, and engage in other subtle maneuvers when they come across a man that they are physically attracted to/interested in.
I've been in college for more time than willing to admit, but finally want to take advantage as much as I can. I took a liberal arts class, and came to the conclusion that it didn't have any attractive women. Before this it wouldn't matter if there were any hot women, as I wouldn't ever approach them any way. Coming into this class, I now had a different mindset. I would look for any IOIs, and try to put myself in situations that could be leveraged into something else.
As stated, there were no attractive women, but five out of the seven women were bangable slump busters. Then right before spring break, one of the women caught my attention. For some reason I was taking a while to gather my stuff, while this girl also took a while. As she stood up, I noticed that she had really tight pants that showed her mid section. She had a navel piercing and the pants she wore revealed that she had a curves that I did not even know existed. She obviously is close to 0.7 waist to hip ratio and close to about 34-34-36.
I am surprised by this, and I think I might have gawked at her body, and not sure if she noticed. This was your plain typical college girl that was sloppily dressed, and probably didn't think twice about her appearance. I was totally thrown off by this new development. So I went into spring break thinking, "damn what the hell was that."
I started to think about her during spring break, and the possibility of approaching her. But then towards the end I decided that approaching this girl after eight weeks of class would be lame. How would I go about telling her that "I had no idea you were were this hot." So I decided to let it go, and told myself that unless she gave IOIs she would be disqualified from further consideration.
Fast forward after spring break, and she shows up in her contacts with a rumpled cheerleader type skirt that shows off her legs and ass. I was floored. I saw her on her way into the building, and decided to go down from the second story to see if I could run into her on the stairs. No luck. She ended up taking longer, and somehow I ended up in front of her while I was going back up. I didn't know what to do so I opened the door for her, and she thanked me. Probably should have said something there, but couldn't muster up the courage.
Nevertheless, I was going to stick with my plan of disregarding her, unless she gave me some serious IOIs, which she didn't. The very next class, after class is over, I needed to speak to the professor. She was between me and professor, and she just stood there as if she was waiting for professor also. There were other people waiting as well. So we're both standing there, and I'm trying not to look at her ass, which in yoga pants and was heart shaped. She then decides to leave.
Afterwards, I'm like wtf, I should have spoke to her right there, but I assumed that she needed to speak with prof. as well. She very well could have, but therein lies the issue of plausible deniability. Why is this girl all of sudden getting all dolled up after two months? Maybe she has a boyfriend now and wants to dress sexy for him. Or it's spring time and the weather is conducive to wearing skirts.
I just want to know if her suddenly becoming hotter is some form of passive IOI. Should I have approached her at some point when I realized she was hot? Anyway I admit that that I may be overthinking this, but still wanted input from other members. Is it possible that girls are this passive, but still interested? Should I still try to approach her? Feel free to give me a hard time, I deserve it.
If this thread needs to go somewhere else I'm fine with that.