Whats up brothers and fellow RVFers.
This has been a work of progress for far too long. I have been debating writing a book about this topic and even if I should do it all, but having been a long time "invisible browser" and the immense value I have gained from the contributions of others I feel it's fair to share my experience as well.
I'll start this off with brief introduction and background and then transition to the datasheet. If you're just looking for the datasheet scroll down to the section entitled
Welcome to MexicoCity
Introduction who is this NonDrifer?
As the title suggests I'm a black guy born and raised in America. More specifically Texas. You could technically classify me as an "African America" because my father is full blood Nigerian born and raised in Africa until he met my black American mother, while he was pursuing his future medical career.
Though there marriage was brief I came out the womb as a consolation prize. Let my Ma tell it and having a baby wasn't in my dads plans, but it was in her's. Either way here I was.
Later ma remarried and I was living in one of the "hoods of Dallas" until 4th grade where we moved to the suburbs and that was where I primarily grew up and would call my home for next several years.
This new community was quite different from where I had just come from. Now all of sudden these people don't look like me. I walked in and the first guy I was met was a light-skinned Mexican. He was my first friend and one of my best friend throughout my life. A year later I would meet a young white guy in the 5th grade who I would consider my 2nd best friend. So here you have it the three amigos
The white guy, mexican guy and the black guy, and back in those days what a dynamic we had.
I was "color blind" so to speak and we were all comfortable making jokes about our racial differences, but it didn't matter to us. We were just friends.
Now I'm sure you guys are thinking what the hell does this have to do with Mexico and why are you telling us this?
Well as time would go on the three of us would remain best buds, but eventually, they would be the ones to show me and introduce me to the game.
As time went on my style would transition from baggy, thugged out Southpole, FUBU and Jnco brands to a more preppier/California style.
Being a tall fit, yet slim and lanky black guy with "interesting" hairstyles I certainly stood out.
Especially since my good friends the Mexican fellow was quite the "natural" with the ladies, I was always with him, to say the least. My other buddy and several others in my circle were good with ladies too.
Also living in the suburbs and the friends and environment I grew up around, I was primarily around white women though I had black friends, because of the way I dressed and talked as I am sure other black guys here have experienced I wasn't "hood" enough "you talk like a white boy, dress like one" etc.
This dichotomy would ultimately lead to me to leaving America and getting my first taste of freedom. Not "black enough" in America, though never fully "integrated" by white folks.
Needless to say with a distant African father preaching to me about my culture and heritage with his funny accent, growing up in a mixed home with a new guy raising me and the black, white dynamics going on at school life was never dull.
Though I didn't realize it at the time I was experiencing what would be an "identity crisis" for many years. That said my high school life was pretty good, though I was a goofy kid who played video games and found his way into pornography, my social life was actually pretty good.
Though I had countless opportunities I didn't know what to do with them. How I lost my virginity at 16 is probably one of the most bizarre yet interesting stories yet I will share that one at a later time, once again to the help of my buds.
Fast forward to senior year I am not sure what it was that finally clicked but eventually I asked my buddy about how he and the other guys always got so many girls, and then he introduced me the concept of the "alpha male"
I went home and started researching some information and came across a post by "Carlos Xuma" and literally overnight it was like a transformation had taken place.
For the first time that I can consciously remember I was starting to come into the reality of who I truly am. Of course, this journey would take ACTION and much trial and error but at least it was a start.
Eventually, I would find myself on Don Juan seduction forums and the myriad of "PUA material and keyboard jockey masturbation".
A year later I am experiencing university life in the dorms and managed to get a room by myself...sure I was better then I was at "meeting women" but I still wasn't big on taking action and getting laid.
Big difference in "meeting women" vs "getting laid" Even hundreds of miles away from the comforts of my suburban life, I still didn't truly realize my power and what I had. More specifically as a fairly handsome black guy surrounded and planted in the midst of young socialite white women.
As it was mentioned in the "best countries for black Americans" in which I paraphrase what another brotha stated "it is my belief that a majority of white women have an attraction/thing/fantasy for black men"
As I read that post I was shaking my head in agreement, as I know it to be true.
That said a year and a half later I dropped out of university and once again though I had plenty of opportunities with attractive women, when it came to taking action I saw little action because of my inaction.
Yet even with my blunders, I found myself "technically" a GDI in a Big 12 Texas conservative school, eventually with access to top tier sexy socialite sorority girls.
I could get these girls but something was still holding me back.
Fast forward a few years later battling my pornography addiction I found a post from a guy on "your brain rebalanced" who mentioned another forum called goodlookingloser.com which actually focused on "screening women" and getting "laid"
FINALLY the missing piece.
All this "game" knowledge finally pieced together with ACTION. Early 20's and all those years of awesome high school social proof and university social proof was finally coming together.
At this time I was still mainly focused on hooking up with white chicks.
Though I did manage to score a young 19-year-old black chick who i took for a slice of pizza and beer who I banged out in my car, most of my lays were from white women.
.Some of them include A fitness yoga instructor who was into extreme bondage and "roping exhibits" who I met during the day walking through uptown that led to a day bang and FWB brief encounters.
A ONS from a downtown blonde I made out with at the bar and when I eventually saw leaving I ran up to her and she said "do you want to come back to my apartment to fuck". This women was a fucking screamer and let me bust in her rawdog.
A young rich "highland park" blonde party girl who I met at community college. This girl loved to party and it exposed me to "female nature" for the first time though I didn't realize it.
The first time we hooked up I am chilling in her uptown apartment drinking with her.
Eventually, her "boyfriend" who was in FL at the time video chats her, and she casually introduces me to as her "friend" I say hello and wave at the guy.
Telling her boyfriend "baby I love you so much" as we are rubbing on each other, and moments later when she hangs up I am banging her out.![[Image: angel.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/angel.gif)
Also, I dated a British milf when I was 22 who would be my sugar momma for a few months, letting me live with her and help finance me as I dealing with probation and legal trouble. Another interesting story to share of how she literally "picked me up" from an AA meeting that I will share for those interested.
Of course, there were more but I can not remember them all, however, these stood out the most to me.
Lastly, if it isn't noted by the type of white women I dated none of these white chicks particular were "black or thug lovers" with hooped up earrings, wearing apple bottom jeans "wiggered out".
Though the intro wasn't as brief as I hoped(being concise isn't my fortay) it was needed as a precursor.
Primarily to let dudes know that I " earned my stripes" so to speak before heading off abroad and getting even more tail.
I know in the past newblets come around here and keyboard jockey the endless dribble of game without contributing etc.
While I am not here to debate the validity of senior high repped and high post count members. I know how the hierarchy and herd think's with new members.
So, in essence, to set my self apart this introduction was necessary to set the correct tone moving forward.
While we may never fully agree 100% in the future, when people see my post which may challenge or rattle what they believe....they will have a frame of reference not based on theory but on real-life experiences, results, and ACTION.
Now the result I will soon share with you about Mexico city(D.F. aka CDMX) I can not promise the same of equal, lesser or better quality. YMMV.
Which leads us now to RVF forum, travel and Mexico city.
"[b]Growing out of America, The Quest to Travel The World
From the age of 19 years the first year in university I set out to become an international business man however I need to tackle America before I would be ready.
Before ultimately taking the leap, I spent many years in the field cold approaching, getting blown out and experiencing as much game as I could possibly handle.
For many years I chased a "California rockstar playboy dream", but my biggest challenge was usually finances and legal trouble.
Even though I was getting results I still knew there was something bigger and better. I knew there was more to life than the conservative, prejudice nature of not only Texas but America as a whole.
Yes, parts of California are better and other states, but America is founded on the labor of darker skinned people yet they never get the recognition they deserve, not to mention the growing feminist and emasculating agenda going on..This ultimately led me to RVF and dating abroad.
Prior to leaving in May of 2017. I got extremely focused determined to get the fuck out of America. I turned away from drinking and the party lifestyle(DWI probation helped). From the end of 2015 and mid-2017, my life was the church, school, and work.
In essence, I became a good little church boy. Though not as fast as the party lifestyle I was accustomed to, with legal troubles always finding a way to me and the declining dating scene this was a nice change. Not to mention the money I was able to save.
At this time I had my insurance license working in corporate America and my supervisor was a forward-thinking positive minded brother. I also met a cool brother from Manhattan New York, who was in the military in his younger years and had some experience living abroad and even had a half Thailand daughter to prove it.
Another corportate brother 6ft+ from Detroit who spent some time in California, had incredible game with sistas and white women alike. We would spend hours after work and talk shop about pussy, game, women etc. Dude had an incredible frame and was a cool slick brother.
Also as part of my job we had a department from the "Philippines" who would call us to transfer calls and this was my first exposure to the nature of these little sexy feminine soft-spoken women. A seed was being planted.
I got the facebook of a couple of these girls on the promise that would see them one day. The crazy thing is they are still on my facebook if I could only remember their names.![[Image: huh.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/huh.gif)
I was making the most money I ever had in my adult life and I was saving loads+had financial aid as well.
However ultimately what cracked the camelback was that lingering feeling of "is this it?
"Your lifestyle and/or income is the average of your 5 best friends"
The church was a safe haven for me, but I knew it wasn't the answer for my spiritual needs let alone my lifestyle.
IF anything it was in direct opposition to my spirituality and carnal pleasure as a man.
On one end even though SEX is how we all got here, yet the church shames you for sex especially out of wedlock.
Not to mention all my close peers were either:
1) Married or about to get married
2) Had children or were about to have children
3) Had a house or were about to have a house.
Hence here I am looking for the adventure of a lifetime and these guys are comfortably settled in Trump loving White America.
While perhaps not overtly in your face the fact remained that this is "Texas" "boy", and we support trump "making America great again"....
Which low key means make "America white again" IMHO, and I can't get down with that.
I tend to keep politics out but it was worth mentioning since it played a role.
Welcome to Mexico City
While there is plenty of data on Mexico city I will do my best to keep this concise and provide a break down of the women I hooked up with and mentions of the where and how.
May 2017 I had been telling my church buddies and family that I would be leaving Mexico city. OF course, I was discouraged and told the horror stories. One of my buddies a good ole country guy said I think "your scared" Just go and don't stay to long"
Little would he know the impact his words would have.
I kept changing my flight information but with that last challenge, I was gone like the wind. I quit my job with money in the bank and adventure in my eyes.
1)The rich girl from Polanco - day three
I met this girl at an underground party in "Condesa" or "escondon" that I was invited to by some friends I met in a coffee shop.
I met an Indian guy from California on vacation and although this dude was short, he worked for Facebook and had hella dance game and his fashion was on point.
Drinks are in hand and I see this white-skinned Mexican girl. We start chatting and she offers to buy us beers. All is good and eventually, my buddy goes dancing with her.
Cool no worries. They dance and have some fun.
Later they come back and the girl is in the corner and with her beautiful puff of long brown hair and beautiful eyes, she gives me direct long gazing eye contact. All through my buddy was dancing with her I guess he didn't make a move and we had discussed if one of us gets laid it's all good.
I walk up to the girl and honestly I am not even sure what the hell I said or if I said anything to her but the next thing I know we are making out.(I learned this tip from guy I met a night earlier who said MOVE FAST with latina women.
We talk some more and I proposition us to go back to my place.
She gives me a little resistance and says she wants to dance with my buddy a little bit more.
They dance some more and after I let her know I have uber and my own place we bound back to my airbnb and I get my first flag. Of course she says I neve do this or haven't done this in a long time.
I also happened to be her first black guy...Always good feeling to "break em in"![[Image: idea.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/idea.gif)
2) Tinder deception
I met this girl who I had pipelined before leaving. Sadly my online game was far from optimized but I was getting some matches. This girl in her pictures had a pretty face but she never showed her body...I would later find out why. From our previous chatting she sounded like she had a good jon, and a car.
She comes over to my Airbnb and brings over some beer. Upon her arrivial I am nearly shocked, as yes this girl does have a very pretty face, but good god she is "more to love" and that is putting it lightly. We have a couple of drinks and then I take her to my room.
Unfortunately, after knocking her down a few strokes in Doggystyle I get a "wifff"(stnak pussy) that damn near knocked me out. I went to the bathroom to try to put on some porn as it killed my boner but when I came back she was already getting dressed.
I later tried my best to tell her why and we never spoke again.
3) Sexi Lexi
I met this girl at a bar in Coyoacacon called "The Cross"
She was a door girl there but after a while, she kept coming over to my table and giving me the eye so I knew what time it was.
I got lexis number and she mentioned she was off on Sunday and Monday and she would show me "Xochilmoicho and the Trajineras"
Also as the bar was getting live some "milf type" Mexican ladies from Queterreaoro were enammered with me also.
These broads were out of town staying in a hotel in coycoacon. I had plans with girl number 1(who later flaked) and I probably missed out on a threesome, but I got one of there numbers. One game lesson I learned with women on vacation is acting fast being more direct.
Women on vacation are usually more open to a ONS fling away from the judgment of family and friends.
A couple of days later I link up in Xochimilco with lexi which is 35 minutes plus away from the city.
Easily a $10 Uber ride. We meet up and she takes me to the trajineras.
We grab some micheladas and take the boat ride similar to the ones in Spain.
At some point, we make out and all is good.
Eventually, we go back to her parent's house and she introduces me. After some time we get out of dodge and proceed to have multiple sessions of sex in a love motel.
4) Go with you "gut" do not fuck this slut
I find myself at the raved about Pata Negra which I personally don't recommend as you will soon find out.
Yes, Pata Negra is good for "tourist" who like the traditional unable to move in club environment and like paying overpriced for drinks, with the potential to pull.
That aside and the experience I had with this next whore I will give the thumbs down. Also my mistake on being too trusting.
I see this woman at the bar with a friend I had met earlier at PataNegra.
She doesn't speak a lot of English and she is older then I have fucked so far. But drinking and thinking with my dick I ask my buddy "would he fuck" And him being borderline sex addict he says "dude I will fuck anything".
My gut was telling me no, but I chose to ignore it.
I drop him off and we go to a new Airbnb I was staying out now on the Reforma. This place was not as swanky and had a serious AC problem. The room was extremely hot and no AC.
However, me and this girl are there and we start undressing. Now I am not sure just how drunk I was or if this girl slipped something in my drink, but after we started fucking, I actually faked an orgasm because I just wasn't feeling it. Foolishly I left all my shit including a bank card, credit card, Passport, money for a deposit and 2 iPhones in my jeans pockets.
In the middle of the morning my iPhone alarm goes off but I hit the snooze, thinking nothing of it. OF course, when I wake up this bitch is gone and so are my pants, with everything in it.![[Image: dodgy.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/dodgy.gif)
Lesson learned. HIDE YOUR SHIT and trust your intuition.
This, of course, led to an uphill battle of being technically broke in a foreign country. Thankfully one of the guys I met from Venezuela at the house of the guys from the cafe let me stay with him for a couple of weeks until my card arrived in the mail.
This experience alone broke me down and made me realize I am not in America anymore. This dude barely knew me yet he was genuine enough to let me stay with him until I got back on my feet for a couple of weeks.
This dude was a musician for a semi-famous, quite popular band in Venezuela and quite the player also eventually leading me to 2 other lays one from a polish chick and a half Japanese girl, practically back to back![[Image: kissy.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/kissy.gif)
5) Tinder deception #2
This girl was a model with good pictures but closer to to the "plus" side of things. Certainly more attractive body wise than my first tinder snag, but still deceptive in her pictures.
We agree for her to come over, have some drink and watch Netflix. We have a couple of drinks and she actually put on a good movie, of course later nature took its course and I found myself banging her out doggy style.
Overall she was a good lay. Curves in the right places and bigger than average Mexican boobs.
6) Good winging pays off
The buddy who encouraged me to lay up with #4 later invited me out for an interesting proposition. He had a girl from tinder who wanted to meet up with, but she also wanted to bring a friend. Alas I was that friend. Sort of a bind date for me.
We all meet up and her english isn't that good and nor is my Spanish. Enough translations took place and we hit the town. Eventually, we go back to an apartment I was stayin out that was super swanky. A beautiful balcony view of Chapultepec park. Damn that place was pretty fucking sweet.
At this point, the tone has been set and he and his girl bounce and now it is just me and her. We make out, start undressing and fuck a little bit.
However for some reason, the voice of "sexi Lexi" is in my head(who at this point was a part of the harem and on the team) who knows what happened to me and said "be careful of Mexican women"
Even though I had bounce backed this woman not knowing a lot of english had me being extra cautious and I couldn't fully let myself go(lexis voice was stuck in m head)
After a short session we went to sleep. The sex was "meh" and the women snore louded then a dude. >_<
2 flags in 2 days - (7)Poland & (8) Japan
Remember the guy from Venezuela who helped me out when I was staying with him for those 2 weeks.
Come to find out I would later be smashing two girls later as a benefit also.
[b]7) The polish girl with huge tits
When I was staying with my buddy his next door neighbor was this polish girl staying in an Airbnb.
Her being the free-spirited girl she was I got the feeling that she had an interest in myself and my friend but I never paid any attention to it.
I had a steady stream of girls, and new girls in my bed every week.
I didn't particularly come to Mexico to fuck "white chicks" but I certainly wouldn't turn a layup and a girl constantly chasing me.
For date number 1 we actually went to the pyramids together.
The 2nd timeout we go out for food and drinks and I took her to a dive bar.
Of course, my buddies were there impressed by this sexy big breasted polish chick.
Yea she was nice and really cool, but my white chick phase had pretty much fizzled out but a layup is a layup so why not.
Eventually, we leave and we go back to my apartment. I wasn't in the best head space and whiskey dick was rearing its head.
However, in proper fashion, I fucked her doggy style and squeezed on those big ass titties. I didn't bust one but least we had fun...
She later says in her sexy polish accent "Well so what they say is true about black guys" , better she says it and it peak's her curiosity then not.![[Image: blush.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/blush.gif)
8)Japanese in Mexico?
When I was staying with my Venezuelan friend one night he had a raging party at his apartment. Interestingly enough I was playing a small part in a film in which I only said 2 words "Guten naban"( good evening)
Because I had this scene in this independent movie I was quite late to the party. Though getting paid $50 and free drink later didn't hurt. So upon arrival to the party, I make it to the room and there was this cute girl sleeping in my bed.
I don't think anything of it and proceed upstairs to the party. As the party starts to clear out a girl appears and she was the friend of my venuezlean friend.
As I begin talking with this girl I found out she is Mexican and Japanese, but she definitely looks and sounds more Japanese this Mexican.
This girl was a hard read but eventually, we exchanged numbers.
Sometime later we agree to a meet u. The plan was to invite her over to my place, but she agrees that I come to her. Ok cool. So we meet up to buy a 12 pack and talk in her living room for quite a while. A lot of talking, connecting and honestly I wasn't sure if the lay was going to happen.
Her intentions were subtle but not obvious. However, I remember the lessons I had learned prior. Also, I am thinking to myself this girl is "Mexican and Japanese", meaning she has two forces craving inside of her to get a piece(if what they say about Japanese women is true).
Not only that but I was "inside" this girls house, half the battle is done. I think at this point we are holding hands and I just go for it.
Moments later we are locking lips and then we go upstairs and we both got our foreign
9) The artsy girl with DD tits.
I met this girl while I was sitting in Condesa having some ice cream and she was in the middle of the street. She gave me some solid direct eye contact and I rolled up to talk to her. Small talk and exchanged some numbers. She mentioned that she was going to a Picasso museum featured in belles artes.
This was an event that her family hosted with people on the tour bus that included site seeing and then a wine and liquor tasting afterward. Cool sign me up.
We meet up and take an uber to the event. After the Picasso stuff, I meet her mom, cousin and all the people. Quite a cool event. Her mom is definitely a MILF and recently divorced. Good shape her mom has and this girl is not far from it either.
After the family event, we got our a club that she used to work out that is now closed. The club was cool and she courts me around to all her friends, but as the night dwindles down we end up at her place, with a new lay for both of us.
Come to find this girl is in an "open relationship" and she joins the team for a while. Eventually, we had to break things off according to her because her boyfriend was getting jealous, but I will say that she is a really cool friend and she introduced me to a cool social life today.
Funny story a few times we would go out to parties and events she invited me in and girls would come up to me and try to "sniper me" Although I came with her we "weren't together". I wouldn't leave with the other girls, but who said flirting was off the table.![[Image: banana.gif]](https://rooshvforum.network/images/smilies/new/banana.gif)
One time we are off to an art show and this happen at the end of the night where this solid 9+ walks up to me drunk and just boggards her way to me. This girl was from "Monterrey", fresa and had a super sexy accent.
I am low key by getting her facebook but my friend knew what was up and wasn't happy it.
This girl is a couple of points higher than my date and definitely was getting jealous.
Later me and this girl linked up and had a small scene in a local bands music video, but that aside I have yet to isolate her and knock her down..
10) Third times a charm - Tinder success0
Apparently, I had matched with this girl when I first got to the city, but she stopped responding. She told me she got in a relationship but just broke up.
She lives hella far away, but I ubered her to my friend's apartment where we would pregame and go to the club "Departmento" on Alvaro Obregon in Roma norte(Highly recommened)
For most of the night, I am actually ignoring the girl and having fun at the club. One of the guys who was at my friend's apartment was actually her roommate and he tried to flirt with this chick.
I didn't care either way, but eventually after showing her some attention we make out in the corner and as the night ends we go back to her place and have mind-blowing sex. Her words" I don't want you to get an ego or blow your head up, but that was the best sex I have had in a really long time"
The things was good when we were just FWB, but for some reason, at some point, I started shifting to a "scarcity" mindset and because the sex was so good I wanted to "hold on" to her.
The only challenge was trying to a turn a hoe into a girlfriend.
Later as we dated I would come to find out just how "broken and damaged" she was. I will keep the details minimum but in her youth, there was a married in "uncle" who was doing more than just babysitting her.
Also while I can take pride in all the girls prior to her me being there first black guy, this girl definitely had some miles on her and I wasn't her first black guy.
In the end we broke up because we were not good for each other. Lesson learned. Tinder is the hook up app for a reason.
She later said "Why couldn't things stay the same. Great sex, and egg and pancakes for breakfast....Noooo you just had to screw things up"
11) The rebound relationship
I met this girl in the "Insurgentes sur" metro. I was actually in a hurry to pick up some money and I asked this girl for help. I remember this girl was the perfect brown tint with a a popping dark red lipstick. We got on the train together and it being rush hour we were smahed up together.
We talk and chat a bit on the train and at some point she looks up to me and rubs my stomach asking me if I am ok. I say yes and I put my arm around her. Even though I barely knew this girl "it felt right"
Out of all my lays I actually wanted to try and "date" a girl before sleeping with her.
For out first date we walk around the mall "Oasis" and go see a movie. We made out but that was all.
For date number 2 she took me out a couple of days before my birthday to a nice rooftop bar and we have a nice meal and horchata together.
For date number 3 she agrees to come over to my house in which we ultimately have sex for the first time. Interestingly enough the day before I had hooked up with #1 again and I thought that was a dead horse.
She kept calling me out for looking at my phone. I would say this relationship was a lot healthier than my previous one, but it was still problematic. Not only was she deeply insecure from dating a guy of 10 years who constantly cheated on her, she always was suspicious of my phone and whereabouts.
One night we had a fight and she claimed I called her another girls name during sex. The next morning she found my phone with another girl I had made plans with after we got into a fight.
Also at this time finances were tough on my end and my standard of living was not up to par with what I had grown accustomed to.
I can not prove that she was ever unfaithful but towards the end, there was definitely some inconsistencies and pulling back. Though I played my part as well.
One time I had pulled an all-nighter and passed out an hour before I was supposed to meet her. She blocked me and thought I was cheating on her. I went on a mission and eventually found her at her office and "fought for our love"
Another time I had a dream that I had sex with "Monterrey" The super hottie I met when I was out with #9. How could I be in love If i dreaming about fucking other women.
Eventually because of all the jealously and fighting I broke up with her on Super bowl Sunday 2018. I made the mistake of getting back with her too easily and 2 weeks later she breaks up with me and completely disappeared.
Lesson learned. When breaking up or walking away from a girl put "conditions" in place for her to earn you back, lest a women continue in her ways.
If only it had ended as great as it started. I learned a lot of lessons dating this girl.
Also it made me realize that I am not a relationship type of guy. Me and her had made plans to potentially travel together and thought of me going to new countires and not being able to fuck other women was in direct oppposstiton to this "being in love thing"
IF anything I'm more down with pump and dump and for the girls who are qualifed to keep them on the team and havign a roster. But a one women man I am not.
12) club chick ONS #1 - I was invited to a "polentico" club event a friend invited me to. I met a girl there aged 19 who wanted to move to Canada. I convinced her to go back to my place we had sex. Paid for the $10 uber back
13) Club chick ONS #2 - I met this girl at Club Deparmento. We were both with friends. I see her and she gives me strong eye contact. Minutes later we are talking and I make out with. Exchange number. Days later I meet her at her place have some drinks and bang her out.
14)Hooter mixed latina
I met this girl "Natalia" at the hooter in mall "oasis" in Coycoan.
21 year old. Mixed with Mexican and Chilliean. I met her around the time I hooked up with the 3rd tinder girl. We had plans to meet up but she had told me she was going to be with a friend that night.
She had actually called me at this girls house who I just hooked up. I had been invited to a party. Instead of me being the 3rd wheel I decided to bring the tinder girl to the party.
Later in the night my friend calls me and tells me her "date" and friend ditched. Now I had 2 girls with me at this party, but I couldn't fuck the mixed girl because I was with this other girl. Aside from making out with her on another random night, It would be months before we finally fucked.
Another time we hung out she was heartbroken over "Charlie" who promised her a new life in Colombia and disappeared on her. She invited one of her Hooter friends over a voluptuous big titted tall Veracruz women. We had a little party in my room. I was thinking a potential three was on the table.
But with her being on her period and heartbroken nothing happened. Though I squeeze up on her friend voluptuous tits. I know I could have fucked her if Natalia wasn't there
Months later the moment finally comes when she needs a place to stay after she had a crazy situation living in Nuevo Leon. I picked her up from the metro take her bags to my place and we go out for drinks. We go back to my place, and I offer to sleep on my couch so she can sleep in the bed.
She is fine with us sleeping in my bed together. I try my best but I had to have this girl. Eventually, start grabbing on her tits and she is giving me hella LMR. I tell her just let me rest my hands here and she agrees. Eventually, she caves and tells me this is a one-time thing. Sex was good but she was hurting so we stop. Even though she tells me this is a one-time thing.
When we stop she tells me we will do it again later. I have yet to cash this chip in best assured I am confident I will. One thing I have learned is if you can bang a girl once you can bang her again.
15) The Actress
I met this girl on the metro a few carts down. I see her jamming to her music and seemed to have good energy. I straight up cold approach her and we start chatting. We exchange numbers and got out a couple of days later.
Date 1. We go out for a drink and walk around Roma Norte. Eventually, we make out and although I pitched going back to hers or mine she wanted to be "a lady"
Date 2. We go out again and end up at her place. I bang out and I convert her and put her on the team.
16) Maria, Maria, Maria
I met this girl as I was passing through Parque delta. She is leaving the ATM and we lock eye contact. Her English is limited and so is my Spanish but enough to number close. I write her number down, and give her my number.
I then lose my phone and weeks later get a new one. She text me and we make plans to meet up twice, in which I have shit going on causing me to flake.
Eventually meet up for coffee date number 1. Go for the kiss but no action.
Date number 2 weeks later we meet up on a Friday and go to a bar for drinks. Eventually, we make out and proceed to go back to my apartment.
The only problem was my apartment toilet was covered in shit thanks to my roommate, and I couldn't bring this girl to that chaos. After hours of finally getting ,settled we find a hotel.
This girl was on her period but I had been wanting to fuck this girl for quite a while and we had already exchanged nudes. We do the business and I busted in the bloody mess rawdog.
17) The sexy fitness MILF
I met this girl on the metro. She was dressed in workout attire. We lock eyes and chat a bit. I miss my exit talking to her but didn't care. Her English was limited but my Spanish was good enough. We exchanged numbers. Later in the week, she agrees to show me around Coyocoan.
When she shows up for the date this girl looks hotter then she did upon first our first meeting. She wore this tight dress that showed her figure perfectly. This girl was a shorty but she definitely had a booty.
Standard day date. We walk around and she buys me a bottle opener trinket and says we will celebrate later for a drink at my place. We are both getting hungry and we have a nice meal.
Normally I am pretty contained but this woman was flaunting her curves and I started rubbing my leg between the goodies.
This time when I went for the make out we locked lips as prior she turned away when there were more people around.
She was showing me videos of her at her fitness studio and it was clear this girl knew how to move her body. She had some legit fitness dance move she taught her students in her classes
After lunch, we made to head back to my apartment. We grab two beers as she doesn't drink much and I take her straight to the room. We sit on my bed pop the top and cheers.
We put on some music and we start making out. Moving fast she types in google translate. "I didn't come over here to do this" -Classic LMR.
Of course, I play it cool and let things cool down. We start making out again and now I am kissing her neck and touching more of her zones. While I rarely go down on girls I made an exception with her and we 69ed.
I then hit it from the back and later she gets on top and with her incredible ass and squatting/riding skills, I bust in her raw dog. This woman though technically had a kid who was 15 she was only 31 herself.
Out of all the women I hooked up with this women had the best riding game. After recovering she tells me she had a surprise for me.
She takes her purse and goes inside my closet. She came out wearing this incredibly sexy lingerie and she put on a live dance and strip show for me.(If she had no intentions of getting banged out bring a pair of sexy lingerie - For those who don't know never listen to what a woman says but instead what she does)
I show her my appreciation and bang the hell out of her again. Lasting longer we both enjoy a good orgasm.
Also noted she conveniently "forgot" a poster she bought for her soon. A week or two later when she came over to get the poster I banged her out twice again.
This woman had a really cute doll face and an even better ass and hip ratio but her tits were virtually non-existent. I'm talking bra size (A) cups. However, that ass and thighs more than made up for it.
She was my last lay in Mexico city.
"The closing of a cycle and new beginnings"
I will say my average quality in Mexico city ranged in terms of women 7's.
With a couple of girls in the 6-6.5 range, and a couple of girls who were 8's. I had some shots with 9's but due to logistics and/other factors, I didn't get the lay.
Perhaps in another post I will share more intel on the 9's in which I didn't get laid though should have.
One called "The Mexican Model who Wanted to Fuck"
And another
"The Story of 2 Bros and Two Instagram Models"
IF you go through my small post count I shed some night on the "Mexican model" in another thread about Mexico.
Also, there was "Monterrey" the vixen who tried to sniper me when I was with The artsy girl and who I also had a dream about while in a committed relationship
Before leaving Mexico I spent my birthday week+1 in GDL. Though limited intel I should have smashed a girl who I met TWICE on my birthday, however lack of isolation and that killer instinct I once exhibited I let her go.
Though she was with her gay best friend and I was with my buddies she gave me that classic direct eye contact gaze that I had been so accustomed to from many chicas previously.
The fact remained I was getting rusty and needed to get my finances in order if I really wanted to do this city right.
That said the average hotness factor in GDL I would put at 8+. The women are taller on average, bigger tits on average and really curvy. IF Mexico city was about tasting freedom and getting many lays, GDL will be all about quality.
IF the amount of eye contact and warm approach invitation I received there is any indication of lays. I have faith that I and other brothers will be able to do significant damage in GDL as well.
Also If the actions of Monterrey the Vixen are any indicator of action the state of Monterey is on the radar as well
I am currently in the states and have been for a few months. I two jobs currently that let me work remotely and with a VPN I can do so comfortably with good internet.
Aside from GDL in the coming months depedning on my spanish I may hit up Colombia. If not Colombia I will be hitting up SEA.
There isn't a lot of intel for black guys on SEA aside from a few stories from guys who have mixed results with women in thailand and guys with results in the philipines.
However one of my bros, Dan the Man - The tinder king with his tinder passport showed favorable results from women in the Philipines and Indonesia.
I was surpirsed about Indonesia but those women based on pictures seem to be quite curvy for asian chicks with those DSL's so it should be interesting when I take that trip to say the least.
Also I finally optimized my tinder profile my last months in mexico and my matches shot up, yet still getting them out was an up hill battle.
However I know tinder works if anything just from the results my buddy Dan gets. I will crack the code on Tinder. While my approach game is strong online game is were I faulter...for now
Until next time
ND
This has been a work of progress for far too long. I have been debating writing a book about this topic and even if I should do it all, but having been a long time "invisible browser" and the immense value I have gained from the contributions of others I feel it's fair to share my experience as well.
I'll start this off with brief introduction and background and then transition to the datasheet. If you're just looking for the datasheet scroll down to the section entitled
Welcome to MexicoCity
Introduction who is this NonDrifer?
As the title suggests I'm a black guy born and raised in America. More specifically Texas. You could technically classify me as an "African America" because my father is full blood Nigerian born and raised in Africa until he met my black American mother, while he was pursuing his future medical career.
Though there marriage was brief I came out the womb as a consolation prize. Let my Ma tell it and having a baby wasn't in my dads plans, but it was in her's. Either way here I was.
Later ma remarried and I was living in one of the "hoods of Dallas" until 4th grade where we moved to the suburbs and that was where I primarily grew up and would call my home for next several years.
This new community was quite different from where I had just come from. Now all of sudden these people don't look like me. I walked in and the first guy I was met was a light-skinned Mexican. He was my first friend and one of my best friend throughout my life. A year later I would meet a young white guy in the 5th grade who I would consider my 2nd best friend. So here you have it the three amigos
The white guy, mexican guy and the black guy, and back in those days what a dynamic we had.
I was "color blind" so to speak and we were all comfortable making jokes about our racial differences, but it didn't matter to us. We were just friends.
Now I'm sure you guys are thinking what the hell does this have to do with Mexico and why are you telling us this?
Well as time would go on the three of us would remain best buds, but eventually, they would be the ones to show me and introduce me to the game.
As time went on my style would transition from baggy, thugged out Southpole, FUBU and Jnco brands to a more preppier/California style.
Being a tall fit, yet slim and lanky black guy with "interesting" hairstyles I certainly stood out.
Especially since my good friends the Mexican fellow was quite the "natural" with the ladies, I was always with him, to say the least. My other buddy and several others in my circle were good with ladies too.
Also living in the suburbs and the friends and environment I grew up around, I was primarily around white women though I had black friends, because of the way I dressed and talked as I am sure other black guys here have experienced I wasn't "hood" enough "you talk like a white boy, dress like one" etc.
This dichotomy would ultimately lead to me to leaving America and getting my first taste of freedom. Not "black enough" in America, though never fully "integrated" by white folks.
Needless to say with a distant African father preaching to me about my culture and heritage with his funny accent, growing up in a mixed home with a new guy raising me and the black, white dynamics going on at school life was never dull.
Though I didn't realize it at the time I was experiencing what would be an "identity crisis" for many years. That said my high school life was pretty good, though I was a goofy kid who played video games and found his way into pornography, my social life was actually pretty good.
Though I had countless opportunities I didn't know what to do with them. How I lost my virginity at 16 is probably one of the most bizarre yet interesting stories yet I will share that one at a later time, once again to the help of my buds.
Fast forward to senior year I am not sure what it was that finally clicked but eventually I asked my buddy about how he and the other guys always got so many girls, and then he introduced me the concept of the "alpha male"
I went home and started researching some information and came across a post by "Carlos Xuma" and literally overnight it was like a transformation had taken place.
For the first time that I can consciously remember I was starting to come into the reality of who I truly am. Of course, this journey would take ACTION and much trial and error but at least it was a start.
Eventually, I would find myself on Don Juan seduction forums and the myriad of "PUA material and keyboard jockey masturbation".
A year later I am experiencing university life in the dorms and managed to get a room by myself...sure I was better then I was at "meeting women" but I still wasn't big on taking action and getting laid.
Big difference in "meeting women" vs "getting laid" Even hundreds of miles away from the comforts of my suburban life, I still didn't truly realize my power and what I had. More specifically as a fairly handsome black guy surrounded and planted in the midst of young socialite white women.
As it was mentioned in the "best countries for black Americans" in which I paraphrase what another brotha stated "it is my belief that a majority of white women have an attraction/thing/fantasy for black men"
As I read that post I was shaking my head in agreement, as I know it to be true.
That said a year and a half later I dropped out of university and once again though I had plenty of opportunities with attractive women, when it came to taking action I saw little action because of my inaction.
Yet even with my blunders, I found myself "technically" a GDI in a Big 12 Texas conservative school, eventually with access to top tier sexy socialite sorority girls.
I could get these girls but something was still holding me back.
Fast forward a few years later battling my pornography addiction I found a post from a guy on "your brain rebalanced" who mentioned another forum called goodlookingloser.com which actually focused on "screening women" and getting "laid"
FINALLY the missing piece.
All this "game" knowledge finally pieced together with ACTION. Early 20's and all those years of awesome high school social proof and university social proof was finally coming together.
At this time I was still mainly focused on hooking up with white chicks.
Though I did manage to score a young 19-year-old black chick who i took for a slice of pizza and beer who I banged out in my car, most of my lays were from white women.
.Some of them include A fitness yoga instructor who was into extreme bondage and "roping exhibits" who I met during the day walking through uptown that led to a day bang and FWB brief encounters.
A ONS from a downtown blonde I made out with at the bar and when I eventually saw leaving I ran up to her and she said "do you want to come back to my apartment to fuck". This women was a fucking screamer and let me bust in her rawdog.
A young rich "highland park" blonde party girl who I met at community college. This girl loved to party and it exposed me to "female nature" for the first time though I didn't realize it.
The first time we hooked up I am chilling in her uptown apartment drinking with her.
Eventually, her "boyfriend" who was in FL at the time video chats her, and she casually introduces me to as her "friend" I say hello and wave at the guy.
Telling her boyfriend "baby I love you so much" as we are rubbing on each other, and moments later when she hangs up I am banging her out.
Also, I dated a British milf when I was 22 who would be my sugar momma for a few months, letting me live with her and help finance me as I dealing with probation and legal trouble. Another interesting story to share of how she literally "picked me up" from an AA meeting that I will share for those interested.
Of course, there were more but I can not remember them all, however, these stood out the most to me.
Lastly, if it isn't noted by the type of white women I dated none of these white chicks particular were "black or thug lovers" with hooped up earrings, wearing apple bottom jeans "wiggered out".
Though the intro wasn't as brief as I hoped(being concise isn't my fortay) it was needed as a precursor.
Primarily to let dudes know that I " earned my stripes" so to speak before heading off abroad and getting even more tail.
I know in the past newblets come around here and keyboard jockey the endless dribble of game without contributing etc.
While I am not here to debate the validity of senior high repped and high post count members. I know how the hierarchy and herd think's with new members.
So, in essence, to set my self apart this introduction was necessary to set the correct tone moving forward.
While we may never fully agree 100% in the future, when people see my post which may challenge or rattle what they believe....they will have a frame of reference not based on theory but on real-life experiences, results, and ACTION.
Now the result I will soon share with you about Mexico city(D.F. aka CDMX) I can not promise the same of equal, lesser or better quality. YMMV.
Which leads us now to RVF forum, travel and Mexico city.
"[b]Growing out of America, The Quest to Travel The World
From the age of 19 years the first year in university I set out to become an international business man however I need to tackle America before I would be ready.
Before ultimately taking the leap, I spent many years in the field cold approaching, getting blown out and experiencing as much game as I could possibly handle.
For many years I chased a "California rockstar playboy dream", but my biggest challenge was usually finances and legal trouble.
Even though I was getting results I still knew there was something bigger and better. I knew there was more to life than the conservative, prejudice nature of not only Texas but America as a whole.
Yes, parts of California are better and other states, but America is founded on the labor of darker skinned people yet they never get the recognition they deserve, not to mention the growing feminist and emasculating agenda going on..This ultimately led me to RVF and dating abroad.
Prior to leaving in May of 2017. I got extremely focused determined to get the fuck out of America. I turned away from drinking and the party lifestyle(DWI probation helped). From the end of 2015 and mid-2017, my life was the church, school, and work.
In essence, I became a good little church boy. Though not as fast as the party lifestyle I was accustomed to, with legal troubles always finding a way to me and the declining dating scene this was a nice change. Not to mention the money I was able to save.
At this time I had my insurance license working in corporate America and my supervisor was a forward-thinking positive minded brother. I also met a cool brother from Manhattan New York, who was in the military in his younger years and had some experience living abroad and even had a half Thailand daughter to prove it.
Another corportate brother 6ft+ from Detroit who spent some time in California, had incredible game with sistas and white women alike. We would spend hours after work and talk shop about pussy, game, women etc. Dude had an incredible frame and was a cool slick brother.
Also as part of my job we had a department from the "Philippines" who would call us to transfer calls and this was my first exposure to the nature of these little sexy feminine soft-spoken women. A seed was being planted.
I got the facebook of a couple of these girls on the promise that would see them one day. The crazy thing is they are still on my facebook if I could only remember their names.
I was making the most money I ever had in my adult life and I was saving loads+had financial aid as well.
However ultimately what cracked the camelback was that lingering feeling of "is this it?
"Your lifestyle and/or income is the average of your 5 best friends"
The church was a safe haven for me, but I knew it wasn't the answer for my spiritual needs let alone my lifestyle.
IF anything it was in direct opposition to my spirituality and carnal pleasure as a man.
On one end even though SEX is how we all got here, yet the church shames you for sex especially out of wedlock.
Not to mention all my close peers were either:
1) Married or about to get married
2) Had children or were about to have children
3) Had a house or were about to have a house.
Hence here I am looking for the adventure of a lifetime and these guys are comfortably settled in Trump loving White America.
While perhaps not overtly in your face the fact remained that this is "Texas" "boy", and we support trump "making America great again"....
Which low key means make "America white again" IMHO, and I can't get down with that.
I tend to keep politics out but it was worth mentioning since it played a role.
Welcome to Mexico City
While there is plenty of data on Mexico city I will do my best to keep this concise and provide a break down of the women I hooked up with and mentions of the where and how.
May 2017 I had been telling my church buddies and family that I would be leaving Mexico city. OF course, I was discouraged and told the horror stories. One of my buddies a good ole country guy said I think "your scared" Just go and don't stay to long"
Little would he know the impact his words would have.
I kept changing my flight information but with that last challenge, I was gone like the wind. I quit my job with money in the bank and adventure in my eyes.
1)The rich girl from Polanco - day three
I met this girl at an underground party in "Condesa" or "escondon" that I was invited to by some friends I met in a coffee shop.
I met an Indian guy from California on vacation and although this dude was short, he worked for Facebook and had hella dance game and his fashion was on point.
Drinks are in hand and I see this white-skinned Mexican girl. We start chatting and she offers to buy us beers. All is good and eventually, my buddy goes dancing with her.
Cool no worries. They dance and have some fun.
Later they come back and the girl is in the corner and with her beautiful puff of long brown hair and beautiful eyes, she gives me direct long gazing eye contact. All through my buddy was dancing with her I guess he didn't make a move and we had discussed if one of us gets laid it's all good.
I walk up to the girl and honestly I am not even sure what the hell I said or if I said anything to her but the next thing I know we are making out.(I learned this tip from guy I met a night earlier who said MOVE FAST with latina women.
We talk some more and I proposition us to go back to my place.
She gives me a little resistance and says she wants to dance with my buddy a little bit more.
They dance some more and after I let her know I have uber and my own place we bound back to my airbnb and I get my first flag. Of course she says I neve do this or haven't done this in a long time.
I also happened to be her first black guy...Always good feeling to "break em in"
2) Tinder deception
I met this girl who I had pipelined before leaving. Sadly my online game was far from optimized but I was getting some matches. This girl in her pictures had a pretty face but she never showed her body...I would later find out why. From our previous chatting she sounded like she had a good jon, and a car.
She comes over to my Airbnb and brings over some beer. Upon her arrivial I am nearly shocked, as yes this girl does have a very pretty face, but good god she is "more to love" and that is putting it lightly. We have a couple of drinks and then I take her to my room.
Unfortunately, after knocking her down a few strokes in Doggystyle I get a "wifff"(stnak pussy) that damn near knocked me out. I went to the bathroom to try to put on some porn as it killed my boner but when I came back she was already getting dressed.
I later tried my best to tell her why and we never spoke again.
3) Sexi Lexi
I met this girl at a bar in Coyoacacon called "The Cross"
She was a door girl there but after a while, she kept coming over to my table and giving me the eye so I knew what time it was.
I got lexis number and she mentioned she was off on Sunday and Monday and she would show me "Xochilmoicho and the Trajineras"
Also as the bar was getting live some "milf type" Mexican ladies from Queterreaoro were enammered with me also.
These broads were out of town staying in a hotel in coycoacon. I had plans with girl number 1(who later flaked) and I probably missed out on a threesome, but I got one of there numbers. One game lesson I learned with women on vacation is acting fast being more direct.
Women on vacation are usually more open to a ONS fling away from the judgment of family and friends.
A couple of days later I link up in Xochimilco with lexi which is 35 minutes plus away from the city.
Easily a $10 Uber ride. We meet up and she takes me to the trajineras.
We grab some micheladas and take the boat ride similar to the ones in Spain.
At some point, we make out and all is good.
Eventually, we go back to her parent's house and she introduces me. After some time we get out of dodge and proceed to have multiple sessions of sex in a love motel.
4) Go with you "gut" do not fuck this slut
I find myself at the raved about Pata Negra which I personally don't recommend as you will soon find out.
Yes, Pata Negra is good for "tourist" who like the traditional unable to move in club environment and like paying overpriced for drinks, with the potential to pull.
That aside and the experience I had with this next whore I will give the thumbs down. Also my mistake on being too trusting.
I see this woman at the bar with a friend I had met earlier at PataNegra.
She doesn't speak a lot of English and she is older then I have fucked so far. But drinking and thinking with my dick I ask my buddy "would he fuck" And him being borderline sex addict he says "dude I will fuck anything".
My gut was telling me no, but I chose to ignore it.
I drop him off and we go to a new Airbnb I was staying out now on the Reforma. This place was not as swanky and had a serious AC problem. The room was extremely hot and no AC.
However, me and this girl are there and we start undressing. Now I am not sure just how drunk I was or if this girl slipped something in my drink, but after we started fucking, I actually faked an orgasm because I just wasn't feeling it. Foolishly I left all my shit including a bank card, credit card, Passport, money for a deposit and 2 iPhones in my jeans pockets.
In the middle of the morning my iPhone alarm goes off but I hit the snooze, thinking nothing of it. OF course, when I wake up this bitch is gone and so are my pants, with everything in it.
Lesson learned. HIDE YOUR SHIT and trust your intuition.
This, of course, led to an uphill battle of being technically broke in a foreign country. Thankfully one of the guys I met from Venezuela at the house of the guys from the cafe let me stay with him for a couple of weeks until my card arrived in the mail.
This experience alone broke me down and made me realize I am not in America anymore. This dude barely knew me yet he was genuine enough to let me stay with him until I got back on my feet for a couple of weeks.
This dude was a musician for a semi-famous, quite popular band in Venezuela and quite the player also eventually leading me to 2 other lays one from a polish chick and a half Japanese girl, practically back to back
5) Tinder deception #2
This girl was a model with good pictures but closer to to the "plus" side of things. Certainly more attractive body wise than my first tinder snag, but still deceptive in her pictures.
We agree for her to come over, have some drink and watch Netflix. We have a couple of drinks and she actually put on a good movie, of course later nature took its course and I found myself banging her out doggy style.
Overall she was a good lay. Curves in the right places and bigger than average Mexican boobs.
6) Good winging pays off
The buddy who encouraged me to lay up with #4 later invited me out for an interesting proposition. He had a girl from tinder who wanted to meet up with, but she also wanted to bring a friend. Alas I was that friend. Sort of a bind date for me.
We all meet up and her english isn't that good and nor is my Spanish. Enough translations took place and we hit the town. Eventually, we go back to an apartment I was stayin out that was super swanky. A beautiful balcony view of Chapultepec park. Damn that place was pretty fucking sweet.
At this point, the tone has been set and he and his girl bounce and now it is just me and her. We make out, start undressing and fuck a little bit.
However for some reason, the voice of "sexi Lexi" is in my head(who at this point was a part of the harem and on the team) who knows what happened to me and said "be careful of Mexican women"
Even though I had bounce backed this woman not knowing a lot of english had me being extra cautious and I couldn't fully let myself go(lexis voice was stuck in m head)
After a short session we went to sleep. The sex was "meh" and the women snore louded then a dude. >_<
2 flags in 2 days - (7)Poland & (8) Japan
Remember the guy from Venezuela who helped me out when I was staying with him for those 2 weeks.
Come to find out I would later be smashing two girls later as a benefit also.
[b]7) The polish girl with huge tits
When I was staying with my buddy his next door neighbor was this polish girl staying in an Airbnb.
Her being the free-spirited girl she was I got the feeling that she had an interest in myself and my friend but I never paid any attention to it.
I had a steady stream of girls, and new girls in my bed every week.
I didn't particularly come to Mexico to fuck "white chicks" but I certainly wouldn't turn a layup and a girl constantly chasing me.
For date number 1 we actually went to the pyramids together.
The 2nd timeout we go out for food and drinks and I took her to a dive bar.
Of course, my buddies were there impressed by this sexy big breasted polish chick.
Yea she was nice and really cool, but my white chick phase had pretty much fizzled out but a layup is a layup so why not.
Eventually, we leave and we go back to my apartment. I wasn't in the best head space and whiskey dick was rearing its head.
However, in proper fashion, I fucked her doggy style and squeezed on those big ass titties. I didn't bust one but least we had fun...
She later says in her sexy polish accent "Well so what they say is true about black guys" , better she says it and it peak's her curiosity then not.
8)Japanese in Mexico?
When I was staying with my Venezuelan friend one night he had a raging party at his apartment. Interestingly enough I was playing a small part in a film in which I only said 2 words "Guten naban"( good evening)
Because I had this scene in this independent movie I was quite late to the party. Though getting paid $50 and free drink later didn't hurt. So upon arrival to the party, I make it to the room and there was this cute girl sleeping in my bed.
I don't think anything of it and proceed upstairs to the party. As the party starts to clear out a girl appears and she was the friend of my venuezlean friend.
As I begin talking with this girl I found out she is Mexican and Japanese, but she definitely looks and sounds more Japanese this Mexican.
This girl was a hard read but eventually, we exchanged numbers.
Sometime later we agree to a meet u. The plan was to invite her over to my place, but she agrees that I come to her. Ok cool. So we meet up to buy a 12 pack and talk in her living room for quite a while. A lot of talking, connecting and honestly I wasn't sure if the lay was going to happen.
Her intentions were subtle but not obvious. However, I remember the lessons I had learned prior. Also, I am thinking to myself this girl is "Mexican and Japanese", meaning she has two forces craving inside of her to get a piece(if what they say about Japanese women is true).
Not only that but I was "inside" this girls house, half the battle is done. I think at this point we are holding hands and I just go for it.
Moments later we are locking lips and then we go upstairs and we both got our foreign
9) The artsy girl with DD tits.
I met this girl while I was sitting in Condesa having some ice cream and she was in the middle of the street. She gave me some solid direct eye contact and I rolled up to talk to her. Small talk and exchanged some numbers. She mentioned that she was going to a Picasso museum featured in belles artes.
This was an event that her family hosted with people on the tour bus that included site seeing and then a wine and liquor tasting afterward. Cool sign me up.
We meet up and take an uber to the event. After the Picasso stuff, I meet her mom, cousin and all the people. Quite a cool event. Her mom is definitely a MILF and recently divorced. Good shape her mom has and this girl is not far from it either.
After the family event, we got our a club that she used to work out that is now closed. The club was cool and she courts me around to all her friends, but as the night dwindles down we end up at her place, with a new lay for both of us.
Come to find this girl is in an "open relationship" and she joins the team for a while. Eventually, we had to break things off according to her because her boyfriend was getting jealous, but I will say that she is a really cool friend and she introduced me to a cool social life today.
Funny story a few times we would go out to parties and events she invited me in and girls would come up to me and try to "sniper me" Although I came with her we "weren't together". I wouldn't leave with the other girls, but who said flirting was off the table.
One time we are off to an art show and this happen at the end of the night where this solid 9+ walks up to me drunk and just boggards her way to me. This girl was from "Monterrey", fresa and had a super sexy accent.
I am low key by getting her facebook but my friend knew what was up and wasn't happy it.
This girl is a couple of points higher than my date and definitely was getting jealous.
Later me and this girl linked up and had a small scene in a local bands music video, but that aside I have yet to isolate her and knock her down..
10) Third times a charm - Tinder success0
Apparently, I had matched with this girl when I first got to the city, but she stopped responding. She told me she got in a relationship but just broke up.
She lives hella far away, but I ubered her to my friend's apartment where we would pregame and go to the club "Departmento" on Alvaro Obregon in Roma norte(Highly recommened)
For most of the night, I am actually ignoring the girl and having fun at the club. One of the guys who was at my friend's apartment was actually her roommate and he tried to flirt with this chick.
I didn't care either way, but eventually after showing her some attention we make out in the corner and as the night ends we go back to her place and have mind-blowing sex. Her words" I don't want you to get an ego or blow your head up, but that was the best sex I have had in a really long time"
The things was good when we were just FWB, but for some reason, at some point, I started shifting to a "scarcity" mindset and because the sex was so good I wanted to "hold on" to her.
The only challenge was trying to a turn a hoe into a girlfriend.
Later as we dated I would come to find out just how "broken and damaged" she was. I will keep the details minimum but in her youth, there was a married in "uncle" who was doing more than just babysitting her.
Also while I can take pride in all the girls prior to her me being there first black guy, this girl definitely had some miles on her and I wasn't her first black guy.
In the end we broke up because we were not good for each other. Lesson learned. Tinder is the hook up app for a reason.
She later said "Why couldn't things stay the same. Great sex, and egg and pancakes for breakfast....Noooo you just had to screw things up"
11) The rebound relationship
I met this girl in the "Insurgentes sur" metro. I was actually in a hurry to pick up some money and I asked this girl for help. I remember this girl was the perfect brown tint with a a popping dark red lipstick. We got on the train together and it being rush hour we were smahed up together.
We talk and chat a bit on the train and at some point she looks up to me and rubs my stomach asking me if I am ok. I say yes and I put my arm around her. Even though I barely knew this girl "it felt right"
Out of all my lays I actually wanted to try and "date" a girl before sleeping with her.
For out first date we walk around the mall "Oasis" and go see a movie. We made out but that was all.
For date number 2 she took me out a couple of days before my birthday to a nice rooftop bar and we have a nice meal and horchata together.
For date number 3 she agrees to come over to my house in which we ultimately have sex for the first time. Interestingly enough the day before I had hooked up with #1 again and I thought that was a dead horse.
She kept calling me out for looking at my phone. I would say this relationship was a lot healthier than my previous one, but it was still problematic. Not only was she deeply insecure from dating a guy of 10 years who constantly cheated on her, she always was suspicious of my phone and whereabouts.
One night we had a fight and she claimed I called her another girls name during sex. The next morning she found my phone with another girl I had made plans with after we got into a fight.
Also at this time finances were tough on my end and my standard of living was not up to par with what I had grown accustomed to.
I can not prove that she was ever unfaithful but towards the end, there was definitely some inconsistencies and pulling back. Though I played my part as well.
One time I had pulled an all-nighter and passed out an hour before I was supposed to meet her. She blocked me and thought I was cheating on her. I went on a mission and eventually found her at her office and "fought for our love"
Another time I had a dream that I had sex with "Monterrey" The super hottie I met when I was out with #9. How could I be in love If i dreaming about fucking other women.
Eventually because of all the jealously and fighting I broke up with her on Super bowl Sunday 2018. I made the mistake of getting back with her too easily and 2 weeks later she breaks up with me and completely disappeared.
Lesson learned. When breaking up or walking away from a girl put "conditions" in place for her to earn you back, lest a women continue in her ways.
If only it had ended as great as it started. I learned a lot of lessons dating this girl.
Also it made me realize that I am not a relationship type of guy. Me and her had made plans to potentially travel together and thought of me going to new countires and not being able to fuck other women was in direct oppposstiton to this "being in love thing"
IF anything I'm more down with pump and dump and for the girls who are qualifed to keep them on the team and havign a roster. But a one women man I am not.
12) club chick ONS #1 - I was invited to a "polentico" club event a friend invited me to. I met a girl there aged 19 who wanted to move to Canada. I convinced her to go back to my place we had sex. Paid for the $10 uber back
13) Club chick ONS #2 - I met this girl at Club Deparmento. We were both with friends. I see her and she gives me strong eye contact. Minutes later we are talking and I make out with. Exchange number. Days later I meet her at her place have some drinks and bang her out.
14)Hooter mixed latina
I met this girl "Natalia" at the hooter in mall "oasis" in Coycoan.
21 year old. Mixed with Mexican and Chilliean. I met her around the time I hooked up with the 3rd tinder girl. We had plans to meet up but she had told me she was going to be with a friend that night.
She had actually called me at this girls house who I just hooked up. I had been invited to a party. Instead of me being the 3rd wheel I decided to bring the tinder girl to the party.
Later in the night my friend calls me and tells me her "date" and friend ditched. Now I had 2 girls with me at this party, but I couldn't fuck the mixed girl because I was with this other girl. Aside from making out with her on another random night, It would be months before we finally fucked.
Another time we hung out she was heartbroken over "Charlie" who promised her a new life in Colombia and disappeared on her. She invited one of her Hooter friends over a voluptuous big titted tall Veracruz women. We had a little party in my room. I was thinking a potential three was on the table.
But with her being on her period and heartbroken nothing happened. Though I squeeze up on her friend voluptuous tits. I know I could have fucked her if Natalia wasn't there
Months later the moment finally comes when she needs a place to stay after she had a crazy situation living in Nuevo Leon. I picked her up from the metro take her bags to my place and we go out for drinks. We go back to my place, and I offer to sleep on my couch so she can sleep in the bed.
She is fine with us sleeping in my bed together. I try my best but I had to have this girl. Eventually, start grabbing on her tits and she is giving me hella LMR. I tell her just let me rest my hands here and she agrees. Eventually, she caves and tells me this is a one-time thing. Sex was good but she was hurting so we stop. Even though she tells me this is a one-time thing.
When we stop she tells me we will do it again later. I have yet to cash this chip in best assured I am confident I will. One thing I have learned is if you can bang a girl once you can bang her again.
15) The Actress
I met this girl on the metro a few carts down. I see her jamming to her music and seemed to have good energy. I straight up cold approach her and we start chatting. We exchange numbers and got out a couple of days later.
Date 1. We go out for a drink and walk around Roma Norte. Eventually, we make out and although I pitched going back to hers or mine she wanted to be "a lady"
Date 2. We go out again and end up at her place. I bang out and I convert her and put her on the team.
16) Maria, Maria, Maria
I met this girl as I was passing through Parque delta. She is leaving the ATM and we lock eye contact. Her English is limited and so is my Spanish but enough to number close. I write her number down, and give her my number.
I then lose my phone and weeks later get a new one. She text me and we make plans to meet up twice, in which I have shit going on causing me to flake.
Eventually meet up for coffee date number 1. Go for the kiss but no action.
Date number 2 weeks later we meet up on a Friday and go to a bar for drinks. Eventually, we make out and proceed to go back to my apartment.
The only problem was my apartment toilet was covered in shit thanks to my roommate, and I couldn't bring this girl to that chaos. After hours of finally getting ,settled we find a hotel.
This girl was on her period but I had been wanting to fuck this girl for quite a while and we had already exchanged nudes. We do the business and I busted in the bloody mess rawdog.
17) The sexy fitness MILF
I met this girl on the metro. She was dressed in workout attire. We lock eyes and chat a bit. I miss my exit talking to her but didn't care. Her English was limited but my Spanish was good enough. We exchanged numbers. Later in the week, she agrees to show me around Coyocoan.
When she shows up for the date this girl looks hotter then she did upon first our first meeting. She wore this tight dress that showed her figure perfectly. This girl was a shorty but she definitely had a booty.
Standard day date. We walk around and she buys me a bottle opener trinket and says we will celebrate later for a drink at my place. We are both getting hungry and we have a nice meal.
Normally I am pretty contained but this woman was flaunting her curves and I started rubbing my leg between the goodies.
This time when I went for the make out we locked lips as prior she turned away when there were more people around.
She was showing me videos of her at her fitness studio and it was clear this girl knew how to move her body. She had some legit fitness dance move she taught her students in her classes
After lunch, we made to head back to my apartment. We grab two beers as she doesn't drink much and I take her straight to the room. We sit on my bed pop the top and cheers.
We put on some music and we start making out. Moving fast she types in google translate. "I didn't come over here to do this" -Classic LMR.
Of course, I play it cool and let things cool down. We start making out again and now I am kissing her neck and touching more of her zones. While I rarely go down on girls I made an exception with her and we 69ed.
I then hit it from the back and later she gets on top and with her incredible ass and squatting/riding skills, I bust in her raw dog. This woman though technically had a kid who was 15 she was only 31 herself.
Out of all the women I hooked up with this women had the best riding game. After recovering she tells me she had a surprise for me.
She takes her purse and goes inside my closet. She came out wearing this incredibly sexy lingerie and she put on a live dance and strip show for me.(If she had no intentions of getting banged out bring a pair of sexy lingerie - For those who don't know never listen to what a woman says but instead what she does)
I show her my appreciation and bang the hell out of her again. Lasting longer we both enjoy a good orgasm.
Also noted she conveniently "forgot" a poster she bought for her soon. A week or two later when she came over to get the poster I banged her out twice again.
This woman had a really cute doll face and an even better ass and hip ratio but her tits were virtually non-existent. I'm talking bra size (A) cups. However, that ass and thighs more than made up for it.
She was my last lay in Mexico city.
"The closing of a cycle and new beginnings"
I will say my average quality in Mexico city ranged in terms of women 7's.
With a couple of girls in the 6-6.5 range, and a couple of girls who were 8's. I had some shots with 9's but due to logistics and/other factors, I didn't get the lay.
Perhaps in another post I will share more intel on the 9's in which I didn't get laid though should have.
One called "The Mexican Model who Wanted to Fuck"
And another
"The Story of 2 Bros and Two Instagram Models"
IF you go through my small post count I shed some night on the "Mexican model" in another thread about Mexico.
Also, there was "Monterrey" the vixen who tried to sniper me when I was with The artsy girl and who I also had a dream about while in a committed relationship
Before leaving Mexico I spent my birthday week+1 in GDL. Though limited intel I should have smashed a girl who I met TWICE on my birthday, however lack of isolation and that killer instinct I once exhibited I let her go.
Though she was with her gay best friend and I was with my buddies she gave me that classic direct eye contact gaze that I had been so accustomed to from many chicas previously.
The fact remained I was getting rusty and needed to get my finances in order if I really wanted to do this city right.
That said the average hotness factor in GDL I would put at 8+. The women are taller on average, bigger tits on average and really curvy. IF Mexico city was about tasting freedom and getting many lays, GDL will be all about quality.
IF the amount of eye contact and warm approach invitation I received there is any indication of lays. I have faith that I and other brothers will be able to do significant damage in GDL as well.
Also If the actions of Monterrey the Vixen are any indicator of action the state of Monterey is on the radar as well
I am currently in the states and have been for a few months. I two jobs currently that let me work remotely and with a VPN I can do so comfortably with good internet.
Aside from GDL in the coming months depedning on my spanish I may hit up Colombia. If not Colombia I will be hitting up SEA.
There isn't a lot of intel for black guys on SEA aside from a few stories from guys who have mixed results with women in thailand and guys with results in the philipines.
However one of my bros, Dan the Man - The tinder king with his tinder passport showed favorable results from women in the Philipines and Indonesia.
I was surpirsed about Indonesia but those women based on pictures seem to be quite curvy for asian chicks with those DSL's so it should be interesting when I take that trip to say the least.
Also I finally optimized my tinder profile my last months in mexico and my matches shot up, yet still getting them out was an up hill battle.
However I know tinder works if anything just from the results my buddy Dan gets. I will crack the code on Tinder. While my approach game is strong online game is were I faulter...for now
Until next time
ND
