Quote: (02-25-2019 03:21 AM)Johnaldo10 Wrote:
Quote: (02-24-2019 06:16 PM)thedarkknight Wrote:
Quote: (02-24-2019 05:49 PM)Johnaldo10 Wrote:
So she's working the next five days 3pm-12pm which means she doesn't have time, she wakes up lunchtime, gets ready then heads to work. The messages have been positive but I feel like she's either comfortable or her interest levels are dropping. She said weird things on the first date like "I want to introduce you to my younger brother". Whilst I put in work with her at her workplace (bar/restaurant) and DM's ultimately the older sister helped push her my way in getting her out on her first ever date. At this stage I have no idea if in her head or the families head they think we are "together" or exclusive like a traditional introduction sort of thing or if she's pulling away and losing interest. It's weird. I should have fucking kissed her even if the younger cousin was there but I was thinking - kiss-sex not just kiss. We go out on a Monday night. Then we go out the next Tuesday night. Then we see each other the following two days (her suggestions), then again the next Tuesday, and briefly Wednesday night when I give her a ride home. 1 time the first week, three times the second week, then two times the third week. Fourth week, nothing. Now fifth week is looking blank as well. I've got the trump card of going to her place of work which I frequent anyway considering it's a popular place in town and showing my face or/and be seen talking to another girl etc.
So I'm going to reduce the messaging a bit, we've been in constant contact since early December. Went out first time towards end of January. There's a strong emotional connection. It's a strange one with her laying on my chest watching a movie gripping my hand and I feel like she was catching strong feelings. Maybe that's why she's pulled away a bit. Last time I saw her was last Wednesday night.
Plan of action. Reduce messaging to every 3-4 days and see if she initiates in-between. Try and get her out again and then be more aggressive with sexual tension and escalating...Fuck. What a fucked up situation with the younger cousin coming out with us, forehead kisses and the boyfriend/girlfriend type relationship without even kissing on the lips. What they don't know doesn't matter, but I have feeling if I'm seen out on a date with another girl, the girl and the family will break things off with me, but fuck, I have no idea where I stand or what this shit is.
And I'm back on Tinder and talking to other girls because however much I like this chick and see her as LTR material, she's hard work, she's busy, she's flaky, immature and a little crazy.
"There is no such thing as dating in (insert girls' country/culture.) You ‘meet’ with a guy or girl for a movie, coffee, drink or just go for a walk together. If you go out a second and third time, you can consider yourself together." No idea if this shit is true or not.
Yo , mate.
Fuck this.
Can’t you spend the energy on earning money or smashing less culturally incompatible chicks.
I mean, shit man.
Is she Muslim? You gonna convert bro?
TDK
Man, I don't even wanna just bang. I'm happy to go slow with her if that's what she wants or needs but now she's gone back to being flaky. Yeah, she works a lot I get it.
But.
Talk about a shit load of work. I was telling my mate and he said just leave her. She's not the queen. Let someone else deal with her bullshit.
Anyway, I'm banging tonight, need to get it out my system. I'm gonna pull away completely now, see if she initiates. Too much time and hard work with little return. It doesn't make sense. Yeah, she knows I'm interested in her, so does the older sister who I pestered about her but fuck what about my value? She's from a little village in an Central/Eastern European country and she's got an opportunity to roll around with the big dawg (I joke) in the Benz and come over to my sea view apartment, I'm an athlete, tall, good looking (so I've been told). The only thing was that I changed in terms of usual game was I moved slowly and was careful with her because of the older sister issue and she said she trusted me.
The only way I see this changing is if she knows I'm willing to walk away (which I am) and/or there are other girls interested in me. It's a weird situation and I don't have time or energy for this shit anymore.
I'm sure you're a cool guy.
Probably cooler and better at game than me etc. etc. - no doubt.
But sometimes you need a perspective from outside.
CONGRATULATIONS ----- YOURE OBSESSED
TLDR: You are writing multiple War and Peace length novels about this chick and her sisters and the banal texts between you and
Yesterday! Update! She apparently got her nails done, I know this because one of the guys who waxes her car (I wrote down the licence plate once and attached a GPS device one night and anyway I hide behind a tree when she gets undressed.. anyway I tracked the car's movements down to a carwash and I made friends with the guy who works there and he blah blah blah told me that her nails looked different.)
You are too scared of her. She picks this up.
You have blue balls. She picks this up.
There is no way that you are getting laid by hot girls on the regular given your incel stalker level of obsession. She is aware of this on some level.
Pulling back from her now? Good.
But you sound bitter.
Wanna turn it around?
Drop her. Drop her now. Drop her like a bad habit. Cast her from your mind like a frag grenade in your hand that's about to go off.
Be polite be civil if challenged on it but make up some tech bullshit about your phone and go ghost right now - for your own obsessive good.
That won't stop the obsession or bitterness though..
So..
Fuck.
FUCK.
FUCK like Crazy.
Fuck like an animal. Anyway anyhow.. fuck more and more new chicks.
Not dates, not text exchanges.
Grab these new chicks by the hair as they arch their backs into every new thrust that your professionally trained (badminton?
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) body delivers.
Spit in their mouths, spit in their faces.
Choke them as you jackhammer their pussies.
Wake up with a grateful squeeze blowing you as you lie there..
feeling refreshed and refreshingly less obsessive. Rinse and repeat.
Cant do it in your Greek town? Go to the city..
I don't care if you have to fuck hookers in depraved ways ..
just get your dick wet multiple multiple MULTIPLE times.
Minimum 3 new chicks banged on the regular or (at a push) 5-15 new hookers. At the least.
But -you talk about this like you're some dangerous lothario and not acting like a beta chump stalker
"I'm willing to be the one to walk away"
- the oneitis is so strong that.. IMHO
cash in and go Thailand, Bali, the PHils for a week / 10 days and use Tinder to fuck like there is no tomorrow Good times abound.
(do not tell her sisters, grandmothers, teddy bears what you are doing. Stop pretending being in with her family will help you, it is a beta tactic. This chick is going to fuck multiple men in the next few years. The guy that fucks her to squirting will just look at her and smirk. that will be enough... tingles.
Want that to be you? Fuck enough chicks that you forget her.)
Who knows?
maybe nothing will happen between you and this chick but you have to lose your hamster on this one. She's just a skinny girl who is knowingly prick teasing you and bringing round her cousin because she has a voodoo hex on you without making an effort.
My two cents. Use or discard.
Best of luck