[drymarro]

I'm 5'11", white, I'd say like just a tad notch above average in looks... I've only been able to go on like a few dates.. don't have much under my belt... so those times I haven't been able to f close and we kinda stop talking afterwards...
the times I walked them back to their place(about 3 times) I say lets head into your place and they say they're "not that kind of girl". girls flake on me alot.. after I get their number..
at parties I can't get past hooking up.. guess I don't push enough maybe? but it's usually the girl saying she has to go find her friends or something.. I also commute so sometimes I say I gotta go .. (last train is at 1:27 so I can't afford to stay with the girl in hopes I will be able to sleep with her cuz then if it doesn't work out I'd be left in a city pretty much homeless.) I've been commuting since day 1 in college and I'm involved in a club but don't get success from there either.

didn't have any girls interested me in hs and i think freshman year I still looked kinda unattractive and young.. but I get progressively more good looking and have been finding it easier to dance with girls and kiss them.

I want to try meeting girls during the day on campus.(using Day Bang).. but haven't finished the book and just trying to see what I could use to start up a conversation that doesn't involve hitting on them...
so I will start doing that but pretty much long story short.. I never had a girl before and other than kissing I never got past that.




facebook doesn't help me because I don't have good pictures and when I do have good pictures the dam bitches that took them don't fucking put it up -_-... and a girl usually doesn't talk to me after adding me on fb.

[Gmac]

Next time use the bathroom line instead of "let's head into your place", which a girl hears as "can I fuck you now?" Of course you got rejected.

Say, "Hey can I use the bathroom real quick?" It's more disarming. Delay your exit and bang.

Also, just practice escalating. If you haven't gone beyond kissing it's because you didn't try hard enough. Start with light touching and move from there (if I'm not mistaken, Bang covers a lot of this too).

[drymarro]

(10-03-2011 05:21 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Next time use the bathroom line instead of "let's head into your place", which a girl hears as "can I fuck you now?" Of course you got rejected.

Say, "Hey can I use the bathroom real quick?" It's more disarming. Delay your exit and bang.

Also, just practice escalating. If you haven't gone beyond kissing it's because you didn't try hard enough. Start with light touching and move from there (if I'm not mistaken, Bang covers a lot of this too).

what about if you're at a party and your dancing with the girl and you've been making out for a while.. how do you move from there?

[Gmac]

(10-03-2011 05:42 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

(10-03-2011 05:21 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Next time use the bathroom line instead of "let's head into your place", which a girl hears as "can I fuck you now?" Of course you got rejected.

Say, "Hey can I use the bathroom real quick?" It's more disarming. Delay your exit and bang.

Also, just practice escalating. If you haven't gone beyond kissing it's because you didn't try hard enough. Start with light touching and move from there (if I'm not mistaken, Bang covers a lot of this too).

what about if you're at a party and your dancing with the girl and you've been making out for a while.. how do you move from there?

"Let's get out of here" and lead her to an empty room.

[gringochileno]

(10-03-2011 06:32 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

(10-03-2011 05:42 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

(10-03-2011 05:21 PM)Gmac Wrote:  

Next time use the bathroom line instead of "let's head into your place", which a girl hears as "can I fuck you now?" Of course you got rejected.

Say, "Hey can I use the bathroom real quick?" It's more disarming. Delay your exit and bang.

Also, just practice escalating. If you haven't gone beyond kissing it's because you didn't try hard enough. Start with light touching and move from there (if I'm not mistaken, Bang covers a lot of this too).

what about if you're at a party and your dancing with the girl and you've been making out for a while.. how do you move from there?

"Let's get out of here" and lead her to an empty room.

Do you ever use "Are you ready to get out of here?" I like it because it's less cliched and it assumes the sale (you'll be getting out of there at some point, you're just asking if she's ready yet). I've gotten "yeah, let's go" and "no, not yet" but never a flat-out "no, I'm not leaving with you."

[Gmac]

(10-03-2011 06:49 PM)gringochileno Wrote:  

Do you ever use "Are you ready to get out of here?" I like it because it's less cliched and it assumes the sale (you'll be getting out of there at some point, you're just asking if she's ready yet). I've gotten "yeah, let's go" and "no, not yet" but never a flat-out "no, I'm not leaving with you."

Yeah I rarely use the same line all the time.

"Ready to go?" or "Wanna head out soon?" works well too.

[Moma]

Drymarro, what do you say exactly to these girls? I need a breakdown of your dialogue?
What type of girls do you target? Age group, race?

When you say what you say to them, how do they respond?

How do you rebuttal their rejection?

[drymarro]

Last night was at a party.. dance approached the girl once.. she pulled away.. so I went on to dance with other girls.. then I saw her again so I decided to dance with her again.. we ended up making out for a good 20 minutes while dancing as well.. so we headed out "for a walk" but we ran into her friend so we ended up walking around aimlessly for 45 minutes.. anyways after we walk her friend home as we're going down in the elevator 7 floors I get a quick makeout session.. so we head back to her place.. I say "lets continute what we were doing in the elevator".. or something like that..so I ended up getting a blowjob and I went to fuck her but she had her period and has tampons and the such.. ugh sucks that she had her period otherwise I would've gotten the bang.. hey atleast I'm having some success so far.

p.s. I actually managed to get like a 30 minute bj(if not longer).. that was also the first time so it felt good lol.

[Moma]

I'm happy for you, drymarro! A blowjob is practically as good as a fcuk! Keep us posted!

[drymarro]

(10-03-2011 09:45 PM)Moma Wrote:  

Drymarro, what do you say exactly to these girls? I need a breakdown of your dialogue?
What type of girls do you target? Age group, race?

When you say what you say to them, how do they respond?

How do you rebuttal their rejection?

I target pretty much any race girls that are good looking.. 18-21 year olds.. college students at parties..

tbh I haven't really said "lets get out of here" in parties too much because I fail to escalate from a dance to a kiss which ends up to a lay.. a good amount of times the girl leaves before I have chance to(either due to cockblock or just disinterest, etc.)..

but I found that changing up my tactic to be more carefree and just dance with a LOT of girls to end up hooking up 1-2 times each night atleast... it's all a numbers game.. you gotta change up your tactics to make those numbers less powerful on your game.. and I'm trying to do that but I could use some advice.

p.s. I haven't gone on enough dates to have the experience to tell you what I say to girls after dates.. (I need to work on that lol)

p.p.s. I'm going to be promoting 5-hour energy on campus soon by just giving them out for free.. I'm going to aim to give it out to girls so I could maybe get some approach anxiety off.. I know it's not the same but it might help a little... not to mention maybe I can sneak in a number here and there... let me know if I could reap more from this than I'm thinking of..

[Moma]

(10-07-2011 01:36 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

I target pretty much any race girls that are good looking.. 18-21 year olds.. college students at parties..

tbh I haven't really said "lets get out of here" in parties too much because I fail to escalate from a dance to a kiss which ends up to a lay.. a good amount of times the girl leaves before I have chance to(either due to cockblock or just disinterest, etc.)..

but I found that changing up my tactic to be more carefree and just dance with a LOT of girls to end up hooking up 1-2 times each night atleast... it's all a numbers game.. you gotta change up your tactics to make those numbers less powerful on your game.. and I'm trying to do that but I could use some advice.

p.s. I haven't gone on enough dates to have the experience to tell you what I say to girls after dates.. (I need to work on that lol)

p.p.s. I'm going to be promoting 5-hour energy on campus soon by just giving them out for free.. I'm going to aim to give it out to girls so I could maybe get some approach anxiety off.. I know it's not the same but it might help a little... not to mention maybe I can sneak in a number here and there... let me know if I could reap more from this than I'm thinking of..

What do you mean by numbers less powerful on your game?

Are other guys who look like you getting play in your college or is yours a unique situation?

[oldskool]

(10-07-2011 01:31 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

p.s. I actually managed to get like a 30 minute bj(if not longer).. that was also the first time so it felt good lol.

Congrats man! I'll take a 30 min. BJ any day. I noticed you do a lot of your approaches and escalation on the dance floor. With "Dance" game, all the girl has to go on is your: looks, clothes/grooming, and how you carry yourself.
I think your game would improve if you take those girls somewhere quieter after a song or two. Now you will be able to spit verbal game. You are adding another element to your bag of tricks that should get you more notches.
Good luck.

[drymarro]

(10-07-2011 02:45 PM)Moma Wrote:  

(10-07-2011 01:36 PM)drymarro Wrote:  

I target pretty much any race girls that are good looking.. 18-21 year olds.. college students at parties..

tbh I haven't really said "lets get out of here" in parties too much because I fail to escalate from a dance to a kiss which ends up to a lay.. a good amount of times the girl leaves before I have chance to(either due to cockblock or just disinterest, etc.)..

but I found that changing up my tactic to be more carefree and just dance with a LOT of girls to end up hooking up 1-2 times each night atleast... it's all a numbers game.. you gotta change up your tactics to make those numbers less powerful on your game.. and I'm trying to do that but I could use some advice.

p.s. I haven't gone on enough dates to have the experience to tell you what I say to girls after dates.. (I need to work on that lol)

p.p.s. I'm going to be promoting 5-hour energy on campus soon by just giving them out for free.. I'm going to aim to give it out to girls so I could maybe get some approach anxiety off.. I know it's not the same but it might help a little... not to mention maybe I can sneak in a number here and there... let me know if I could reap more from this than I'm thinking of..

What do you mean by numbers less powerful on your game?

Are other guys who look like you getting play in your college or is yours a unique situation?

no i meant to say getting with girls is a numbers game in the sense that u have to aproach more so u have chance to go somewhere.. sry if I made that unclear... also yeah I'm pretty sure they are.. BUT I don't see my friends getting too much action..

and yeah im getting better at dance as well as regular game..

lol just a side note.. I suggested anal so we tried it and cudnt fit it LOL